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I'm 22 years old and doing pre-med, majoring in chemistry and studying or trying to do my best.
My relationship with my gf has been rocky, we were together for three years, and these fast four months are officially not together but try to spend time and see if we could make it work.
Unfortunately, I'm not even in medical school just pre-med but finding time to see her three times or twice a week for 5-6 hours at at time really makes it hard for me to study and focus.
I feel like this person is really special and I really care and love for them, and I want to make them happy but I haven't been able to manage my time and my studying to satisfy her needs.
Sometimes I waste time at home doing things like playing my guitar when I know I have to study then when she calls me I tell her I cant see her because now Im studying like I should have been when i was wasting my time.
Aside from that we have had many other problems and issues and I just don't want to loose her yet at the same time I'd like to set the both of us free and avoid heartache if that's all that will come of it.
I know that pursuing medical school has made it hard for me to have a relationship, and I wonder if the sacrifice is worth it. This person I know was meant for me, because they have qualities and quirks and things that I can never see myself finding another person having.
I don't know if I can make her happy. This summer Im taking A MCAT prep course, Calculus I
Then the fall semester
1.Physics Calculus
2.Calculus 2
3.Advanced inorganic chemistry.
Any advice guys...anyone been in my shoes?
My relationship with my gf has been rocky, we were together for three years, and these fast four months are officially not together but try to spend time and see if we could make it work.
Unfortunately, I'm not even in medical school just pre-med but finding time to see her three times or twice a week for 5-6 hours at at time really makes it hard for me to study and focus.
I feel like this person is really special and I really care and love for them, and I want to make them happy but I haven't been able to manage my time and my studying to satisfy her needs.
Sometimes I waste time at home doing things like playing my guitar when I know I have to study then when she calls me I tell her I cant see her because now Im studying like I should have been when i was wasting my time.
Aside from that we have had many other problems and issues and I just don't want to loose her yet at the same time I'd like to set the both of us free and avoid heartache if that's all that will come of it.
I know that pursuing medical school has made it hard for me to have a relationship, and I wonder if the sacrifice is worth it. This person I know was meant for me, because they have qualities and quirks and things that I can never see myself finding another person having.
I don't know if I can make her happy. This summer Im taking A MCAT prep course, Calculus I
Then the fall semester
1.Physics Calculus
2.Calculus 2
3.Advanced inorganic chemistry.
Any advice guys...anyone been in my shoes?