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I told you what I wanted. I made it perfectly clear. I have NO agenda outside of sharing what I think is pertinent information. Nobody did me that favor before I began here. I never said anything "sucked." You have a nice pair of listening filters, there, girl. I gave my impression of some issues, that's all. True, it turned out a bit more dramatic than I would have liked, but, hey, there was a lot of back and forth. I told you that I would still attend and I told you (and everyone else) that KCUMB is still a good school. It's just that it's a good practice to know what you are getting yourself into before you leap. At least I think it's good. I like making informed choices. I never said, or implied, that you shouldn't attend KCUMB. In fact, I prepared a long list of things that I think would be helpful. Key word: helpful. That's all I'm trying to be, for goodness sake.
Do you really think I'd waste my time writing all of this stuff (pages and pages) for some alleged and imaginary grudge? I suppose I can't control what others think, so I'll just let it go. I told you I'm not bitter about anything and that I'm doing well. I guess no good deed goes unpunished. I tried to give a view not often given, but now I know why it's not often given. It's often met with resistance and people just give up before they start providing this kind of feedback. There is a tendency, in my observation, for people to turn their heads the other direction and listen only to "the puppy-dog tails and bunny rabbits version" of a given story. Well, like I said, you may not think you will benefit from this, but perhaps others will. This isn't just your forum; it's everyone's. There's enough room for the both of us to exist and to share our points of view. I may be defensive, but so are you. You are trying to tack motivations and thoughts onto me that don't belong to me.
Well, I may be wrong, but if your only intention was to be helpful, you would have made your points and moved on a long time ago. We have all been through college and can read quite well and don't need it repeated over and over again. I am not defensive about anything nor have you attacked me at all until your last post so I had absolutely nothing to be defensive about. Maybe you're having issues and are reading into some sort of intent that is not and was not there. I actually quoted Radioactiv and then addressed the both of you, yet you got completely defensive and took it as if I was talking to you only. Are you Radioactiv also?
Everyone took your 'warnings' followed quite quickly by helpful and precautionary tips quite well. I, and I think others, welcomed your opinions and wanted to hear them the first 10 times. I would still like to hear them especially if they are helpful and am not into bunny rabbits and puppy dogs or whatever. I live in the real world and, guess what, the real world is full of imperfection and I can handle that. It's called coping skills. I am quite interested in hearing about KCUMB and anything that will be helpful to my success, but complaining about it is really helping no one but maybe it's making you feel better. To my knowledge, KCUMB has a great reputation, students do well on the boards and 90+% match into their top residency, and about 60% go into specialties. KCUMB is one of the few DO programs that actually has a research program. They can't be as horrible as you make it sound.

Are you for sure going to KCUMB?