ND, it's nice to know that someone else has a spouse staying so far away. My husband is considering staying behind in Missouri if I make it in there, as he has a great job here in Missouri and it wouldn't make much sense to leave it for just a couple of years, especially since he will be the one financing living situations and everything while I would be in school. We are still trying to decide, but does it work well for the two of you, if you don't mind me asking?
Also, what is the job market like around the area for spouses? When my sister and her husband moved to Ohio for his residency, the job market was terrible for my sister, so she didn't end up working. My husband and I couldn't afford that at this point in the game.
Obviously, if I could have her here everyday, I would chosse that every single time. Its OK for now, but it is getting old. I don't like coming home to an empty house and an empty bed. My advice to you would be to think very hard about the decision and see if there are ways to make it work. See if its possible for him to work from home, or something like that. Either way, think hard about the decision....it is a lot easier on paper than it is in reality. It works, but definitely not the best solution, IMO. But if it is something that you guys have to do, yiou can make it work. I understand the sacrifices that have to be made to make that kind of decision. We are STILL trying to sell our fricking condo in Chicago after 9 months and it would be difficult without my wife working with her current company. Fortunately, after tax season is over, she should be done here for awhile since she can work from home, which is amazing!!! Don't be afraid to PM me with any other questions.
Man, that's rough. She sounds like quite a woman! Yey for awesome classmates that keep your spirits up during the tough times! I'll be one of those in the Fall! I'll keep you occupied with Guitar Hero Championships, paint ball wars and other fun stuff! 🙂
She is....she's an amazing person and life would not be complete without her. And I can't tell you how thankful I am for the friends I've made at DCOM. I don't know if they now how much they mean and how much they do for me. They make school so much fun and it helps when I'm away from my wife. And when my wife is here, they embrace her and treat her the same way they treat me, and they're almost as excited to see her as I am. They always ask how she's doing and when she's coming back to TN. Like I tell everyone who interviews at DCOM...all of us there, including faculty (who always ask about my wife as well), are a big family.
And bring on GH.....I love that game. In fact, a couple of weeks ago, we had a GH party at one of the student's houses and we had an absolute blast. Now we just need to get that Rock Band game....that would be awesome too!!!
Oooohh I'm definately joining you guys, I'll bring my Wii 😀
Just curious, how much down time do the first yrs actually have?
The most time you have is after every test, and sometimes the weekends after a test (more so for 1st semester than 2nd semester, which is a completely different beast). You guys will have the ability to have fun and hang out, but its just not as often as in undergrad or as you'd like. There is a lot of work, but that just makes the play days so much better. Plus, when you have people around you that make school fun, studying is a lot easier.
And the Wii sounds like a lot of fun. I love the tennis and bowling games on there....so much fun. When we have another video game night at DCOM next year, you'll have to bring that. My wife wants one of those really bad....maybe we can get one once this year is done.