Originally posted by EscheLava:
"I know that most of the doctors that work on Air Force bases are civilian doctors, but that's about the extent of my knowledge."
Unfortunately, for you, this couldn't be farther from the truth. Nearly all doctors working on Air Force bases are military doctors. The DOD spends great amounts of $$'s recruiting and training their own physicians through programs such as HPSP and USUHS. The upside for you, if and when you become a board certified/eligible physician, is that most bases are located close to decent sized cities. Some specialties such as EM, Rads or Anesth, are hospital based and you aren't tied to your patients and therefore can move fairly easily (although getting a re-licensed in a different state can be somewhat of a pain).
I echo what Ed pointed out, the crux of your problem is a lot more immediate. I assume from your post that you haven't even started the application process yet. You are looking at a minimum of 8 years before you will be faced with the scenario you presented. You've got two sets of uncertainties to deal with. First AF personnel tend to move every 3-5 years unless they are in a job that is only found on a few bases (i.e. some AWACS jobs...just a guess since you are in OKC). So let's just say for argument's sake he is in a job where he can stay put for an extended period (i.e. Tinker AFB, OK). That means in order for you to stay together you HAVE to get accepted at OU or possibly the DO school in Tulsa. As wishy washy as the med school admissions process is, this is a pretty flimsy reed to hang onto. Then, as Ed points out, (assuming you got accepted into med school) you will have to do a residency and who knows where that will be, not to mention that by this time your boyfriend/husband will almost certainly have been reassigned at least once.
I hate to sound negative but the probability of an active duty military person and a med student/resident being assigned at the same place continuously for 7+ years is not real high, but not impossible either. You will have to hope that the stars and planets are aligned just right and hope for some minor miracles, but hey they do happen...after all I'm in med school =) I do wish you the best of luck in your aspirations!
P.S. Teach and I must have been typing our reples at the same time. She makes some excellent points also!