Med student posing nude on reddit

[Wilf]

Nina, you are an attractive girl. Nice photos.

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[NJDevilsFan]

What these pre- meds don't understand is that medical school is difficult regardless of where you come from. It's four years of study, soul-searching, and getting some humility shoved down your throat. Between basic science and clinicals, your mind body and soul pushed to the limit. In order to cope with these years, people do things to turn the world off and enjoy their lives. Some like golf, some like to party, exercise, travel, and others like to pose nude. I've done enough drunk streaking to know that I really do not care what people think. Just stay out of jail.

What matters are your grades and the well-being of your patients. If I'm sick and scared in the hospital I am going to gravitate the most compassionate person who actually cares about me getting better. I would rather talk to a closeted exhibitionist who will take the time to listen than some robot who is too busy worrying about his place among his colleagues than my problems.

I don't know her school's policy. But many people (residents and attendings) are more than willing to work with students who let their step scores/ ward skills do the talking.

Get your head out of a book and do something that matters.

 

[Anastomoses]

Yay! Support! None of the pictures are "take-myself-really-super-seriously-femme-fatal" type pictures. They're just me with a goofy grin in various stages of undress. There's no penetration of any kind and it's just so harmless. It's crazy to see how upset people get about just seeing a woman naked in her bedroom being "sexy" in such an innocent way.

Sexy in such an innocent way? Are you a friggin ******? How did you get into med school? You are virtually opening yourself up to the types of verbal and mental transgressions that you witness both on the thread and in reality when you invite people into your bedroom or your various "states of undress". You take a stab at undermining both female doctors and medicine as a whole by trying to sexualize or fetishize the female doctor. I don't know if you're even mildly attractive but attractive professional women already have it hard enough being taken seriously - remaining colleagues rather than sex objects without this sort of nonsense.
Second, it's pathetic the guys who are pandering to the so-called sexual abuse victim who doesn't have the sense to keep what is personal business - body wise or emotionally jarring abuses to herself.
Go to a health professional. You have boundary issues. It's creepy and sad. And Wonka over there is "scared of scaring her off". She's not a cat.

 

[Anastomoses]

Many people would probably be disturbed by my being gay, yet I hold hands with my boyfriend publicly. In addition, I tell all of my friends that I'm a medical student. Does this mean I shouldn't be allowed to practice medicine? Am I a pox on the profession? Try to answer yes. See what happens. Then try to answer no and see if your argument, logically, still holds water.

How is you engaging with your loved one in hand holding in any way similar to what she's doing?

 

[Anastomoses]

You were not just "being naked." I was naked just this morning (singing and rubbing soap on my balls), and obviously that's not a problem. But nice way to try to reframe.

Of course you don't get it when you refuse to.

I do like how you admitted you shouldn't have linked the naked pictures to your being a medical student, yet now you're backtracking and pretending that you don't understand why anyone could be upset. As if your regret was just a token to throw out. Getting really called out on it sucks, though, doesn't it?

Wearing your **** on your sleeve shows that you have more problems than the problems you wear on your sleeve.

This kind of behavior, especially if it ever became systematic, taints the authority and reputation of the person, and by example, the profession.

Boners and wild libertarian tendencies of young premeds and medical students aside, this consideration should be taken into account.

100% this.

 

[beBrave]

And Wonka over there is "scared of scaring her off". She's not a cat.

Really?

Tell me more!

 

[NJDevilsFan]

Sexy in such an innocent wayAre you a friggin ******? How did you get into med school? You are virtually opening yourself up to the types of verbal and mental transgressions that you witness both on the thread and in reality when you invite people into your bedroom or your various "states of undress". You take a stab at undermining both female doctors and medicine as a whole by trying to sexualize or fetishize the female doctor. I don't know if you're even mildly attractive but attractive professional women already have it hard enough being taken seriously - remaining colleagues rather than sex objects without this sort of nonsense.
Second, it's pathetic the guys who are pandering to the so-called sexually abuse victim who doesn't have the sense to keep what is personal business - body wise or emotionally jarring abuses to herself.
Go to a health professional. You have boundary issues. It's creepy and sad. And Wonka over there is "scared of scaring her off". She's not a cat.

You talk about professionalism but you use this word?!?!?

 

[JP2740]

How is you engaging with your loved one in hand holding in any way similar to what she's doing?

He just wanted to throw out that he's gay... I think lol. I don't know.

I don't think this girl will affect me. I just am confused by peeps shocked that I would make fun of her for it. Fuark man.

 

[JP2740]

Totally unfounded. The majority of women in pornography are mentally healthy adults. By extension, so are the majority of men in pornography.

Lol have you ever watched the porn blooper videos where the girls break down in the middle of a video? It's hilarious and awesome!

 

[tantacles]

How is you engaging with your loved one in hand holding in any way similar to what she's doing?

It's the same in that if one of my patients who is homophobic saw me holding hands with my boyfriend, it might damage the doctor-patient relationship. Considering the fact that around 50% of United States voters are at odds with gay marriage, this really could happen anywhere. my holding hands with my boyfriend wouldn't compromise the care I give directly, would it?

Because that's the same sort of argument that's being made here; her activity is objectionable to you and might damage the doctor-patient relationship. It would be quite difficult to make a compelling case for the fact that having public photos online indicates that you're a bad medical caregiver; no one has made one in this thread thus far.

There have been a lot of arguments about nina1987 having mental illness, but those are completely unfounded; the majority of porn actors, men and women, do not have mental illnesses. Even if they did, we allow people with mental illnesses into medical school, so that argument is moot.

So what actual evidence is there that someone who posts naked pictures online should not be a part of the medical establishment? Any takers for actually answering my questions?

 

[Anastomoses]

You talk about professionalism but you use this word?!?!?

Yes. I've also been known to use "poopie" and "wee wee" and "fatass".

 

[tantacles]

Yes. I've also been known to use "poopie" and "wee wee" and "fatass".

My personal favorite: Doodoohead.

 

[chopes31]

I don't think this girl will affect me.

This. In the same way that Dr. Gosnell doesn't represent other physicians. That being said, anything you do (in this case put online) is open to criticism, and you should be wary of the perceptions of those who are in a position to alter your life.

 

[Didierdrogba]

So what actual evidence is there that someone who posts naked pictures online should not be a part of the medical establishment? Any takers for actually answering my questions?

Her deviant behavior will turn our children into drug users, violent criminals and homosexuals. (sarc.)

 

[tantacles]

Her deviant behavior will turn our children into drug users, violent criminals and homosexuals. (sarc.)

 

[throwaway2evry1]

Sexy in such an innocent way? Are you a friggin ******? How did you get into med school? You are virtually opening yourself up to the types of verbal and mental transgressions that you witness both on the thread and in reality when you invite people into your bedroom or your various "states of undress". You take a stab at undermining both female doctors and medicine as a whole by trying to sexualize or fetishize the female doctor. I don't know if you're even mildly attractive but attractive professional women already have it hard enough being taken seriously - remaining colleagues rather than sex objects without this sort of nonsense.
Second, it's pathetic the guys who are pandering to the so-called sexually abuse victim who doesn't have the sense to keep what is personal business - body wise or emotionally jarring abuses to herself.
Go to a health professional. You have boundary issues. It's creepy and sad. And Wonka over there is "scared of scaring her off". She's not a cat.

I don't even know where to begin. If I creep you out, you probably shouldn't become a doctor. I certain you'll see a lot worse things out there.

I am not representative of unattractive/attractive professional women. I'm an individual. It's weird how everyone is extending my influence onto the entire medical community or comparing me with murderers.

I never pose as a doctor in pictures. I couldn't possibly undermine both female doctors and medicine as a whole. That is probably the most ludicrous thing I've ever heard. And throwing around the word "******ed" as a future doctor isn't really professional at all, is it?

I'm going to assume you're an American woman that has been so indoctrinated into Puritanism that you could never understand anyone's desires to love their body and shamelessly enjoy sex and that's truly sad.

There are probably a lot of girls out there who could benefit from hearing the stories of survivors of sexual abuse. I don't think it should be kept a secret. Keeping sexual abuse a secret protects those who have committed sexual crimes and is probably the most damaging thing a victim could do to his or her own psyche.

I question the morality and decency of everything I do. If society is telling me one thing, but my moral compass is telling me another, I tend to go with my own conclusions because I am confident in the power of my own intellect. Posing naked pictures online has NO moral implications. I sleep well at night. I'm happy. I'm sure that upsets half of the miserable people in my medical class who feign friendships, cheat, and sabotage others. You'd never catch me doing that. In fact, you know nothing about me and the disgusting tone of your letter leaves me wondering whether you're even capable of the compassion and empathy required to be a doctor.

 

[Anastomoses]

So what actual evidence is there that someone who posts naked pictures online should not be a part of the medical establishment? Any takers for actually answering my questions?

1. I don't see any correlation between being gay, being a slut, being a religious nut, being a fat person and being an excellent doctor. I would not freak out at being treated by any of the aforementioned.
2. That said, I wouldn't hire a fat doctor because I find it contrary to what medicine is about and I'd find it terribly offputting if people noted that lots of doctors are fat. I wouldn't hire a religious nut just because...well...I don't think we'd really see eye to eye on most things. The other two are fine by me unless they are being "disruptive" about it.
3. If you're making out with your boyfriend and putting half dressed photos on social networking sites - yeah...that's too much of your personal business out and about. As doctors I think we should maintain a certain formality with patients. Her patient walking in and saying "those hot white lace panties in photo 6 were rocking" is...

 

[Law2Doc]

I think some of you guys are getting hung up on gender and decency issues. The underlying question is not one of whether nudity is indecent or even whether there's a double standard. The real question is whether there is certain behavioral requirements incumbent on professionals. I have no issue with her morality, and if she were not a member of an organized profession I'd say she can bare it all, knock herself out. But when there are issues of professionalism at play, the game changes.

 

[tantacles]

1. I don't see any correlation between being gay, being a slut, being a religious nut, being a fat person and being an excellent doctor. I would not freak out at being treated by any of the aforementioned.
2. That said, I wouldn't hire a fat doctor because I find it contrary to what medicine is about and I'd find it terribly offputting if people noted that lots of doctors are fat. I wouldn't hire a religious nut just because...well...I don't think we'd really see eye to eye on most things. The other two are fine by me unless they are being "disruptive" about it.

Got it. There's a functional issue here. Doctor recommends one behavior, but his actions suggest another.

3. If you're making out with your boyfriend and putting half dressed photos on social networking sites - yeah...that's too much of your personal business out and about. As doctors I think we should maintain a certain formality with patients. Her patient walking in and saying "those hot white lace panties in photo 6 were rocking" is...

Personally, I wouldn't have any particular problem with that, and I don't think that Nina1987 would be thrilled about it, but I would wager that she'd still treat that patient well and with the utmost respect. But the point still remains that a patient could come into the office after seeing me holding hands with my boyfriend and say a host of things. Examples include:

"Homosexuality is amoral and I don't want you as my doctor anymore because I want a morally sound doctor."

"You and your boyfriend are super hot. We should have a threesome!"

Take note that this one, like the one you suggested, is simply an example of a patient stepping over the boundary because he noticed that I'm gay and thinks that he's somehow invited into my sex life in a professional setting. Similarly, the potential reaction you mentioned is actually quite innocuous by comparison and probably easier to deflect. All that nine1987 would have to do is say, "Thank you! Let's get down to business. We have a lot to talk about with regard to your health," and I'm pretty sure that would end it right there.

 

[Didierdrogba]

2. That said, I wouldn't hire a fat doctor because I find it contrary to what medicine is about and I'd find it terribly offputting if people noted that lots of doctors are fat.
.

bye bye, most male doctors over 45, you are fired!

 

[Anastomoses]

I don't even know where to begin. If I creep you out, you probably shouldn't become a doctor. I certain think you'll see a lot worse things out there.

I'm going to assume you're an American woman that has been so indoctrinated into Puritanism that you could never understand anyone's desires to love their body and shamelessly enjoy sex and that's truly sad.

There are probably a lot of girls out there who could benefit from hearing the stories of survivors of sexual abuse. I don't think it should be kept a secret. Keeping sexual abuse a secret protects those who have committed sexual crimes and is probably the most damaging thing a victim could do to his or her own psyche.

I question the morality and decency of everything I do. If society is telling me one thing, but my moral compass is telling me another, I tend to go with my own conclusions because I am confident in the power of my own intellect. Posing naked pictures online has NO moral implications. I sleep well at night. I'm happy. I'm sure that upsets half of the miserable people in my medical class who feign friendships, cheat, and sabotage others. You'd never catch me doing that. In fact, you know nothing about me and the disgusting tone of your letter leaves me wondering whether you're even capable of the compassion and empathy required to be a doctor.

1. Osteogenesis imperfecta congenita and elephantiasis don't creep me out - but yes, you do. It's gotta be really weird wishing you were someone else and then doing things to reaffirm that, hm?

2. Just because you advertise your body and sex life online doesn't mean I'm willing to let you delve into mine. Keep your hands off my sex life, freak. Your assumptions about my sexuality are so hilariously off, you'd pee your pants to know. Who said sex is shameful? Who said you can't have an orgy? Learn to focus on the issue.

3. I'm not against people talking about sexual abuse and molestation and working against it...but not half-clad giving people erections while doing it.

4. You sleep well at night - but you wish you were someone else? I'm finished talking to someone who isn't half smart enough to figure these things out on her own. Either you don't understand male sexuality at all - like many women or you're just...okay, no more insulting you. I'm done.

 

[Didierdrogba]

I don't even know where to begin. If I creep you out, you probably shouldn't become a doctor. I certain you'll see a lot worse things out there.

I am not representative of unattractive/attractive professional women. I'm an individual. It's weird how everyone is extending my influence onto the entire medical community or comparing me with murderers.

I never pose as a doctor in pictures. I couldn't possibly undermine both female doctors and medicine as a whole. That is probably the most ludicrous thing I've ever heard. And throwing around the word "******ed" as a future doctor isn't really professional at all, is it?

I'm going to assume you're an American woman that has been so indoctrinated into Puritanism that you could never understand anyone's desires to love their body and shamelessly enjoy sex and that's truly sad.

There are probably a lot of girls out there who could benefit from hearing the stories of survivors of sexual abuse. I don't think it should be kept a secret. Keeping sexual abuse a secret protects those who have committed sexual crimes and is probably the most damaging thing a victim could do to his or her own psyche.

I question the morality and decency of everything I do. If society is telling me one thing, but my moral compass is telling me another, I tend to go with my own conclusions because I am confident in the power of my own intellect. Posing naked pictures online has NO moral implications. I sleep well at night. I'm happy. I'm sure that upsets half of the miserable people in my medical class who feign friendships, cheat, and sabotage others. You'd never catch me doing that. In fact, you know nothing about me and the disgusting tone of your letter leaves me wondering whether you're even capable of the compassion and empathy required to be a doctor.

Am I allowed to highlight the entire thing and give you a big hug/ pat on the back?

 

[CDI]

I think some of you guys are getting hung up on gender and decency issues. The underlying question is not one of whether nudity is indecent or even whether there's a double standard. The real question is whether there is certain behavioral requirements incumbent on professionals. I have no issue with her morality, and if she were not a member of an organized profession I'd say she can bare it all, knock herself out. But when there are issues of professionalism at play, the game changes.

So, we're to be offended because she admitted to being a med student?

Or are we supposed to be offended that a med student would be okay with doing this in the first place (even though we know theres nothing morally wrong with seeing a human body)?

 

[evilbooyaa]

What a thread. Five stars all around.

I just kept ignoring this thread b/c I was like, "Omg I don't care, I don't care" but of course I see it ballooning in replies... it's like a car accident. I had to click on it and watch.

This girl took nude pics of herself, identified herself as a med student, and put it all over the internet. Good for her. She's pretty, and her tits are a solid 9/10. Does it make me a chauvinist pig if I objectify someone who has chosen to do things to objectify herself? I'm sure some people in here would say so.

To Nina - I don't think what you've done reflects badly on the entire medical profession. However, you have set yourself in a position so that when people google who their doctor is, there will be inevitably be links to stories about these pictures. It will have differing effects, dependent on the person. Some people won't care, some (if not most) will think of it in a negative light, and some creeps will try to have you as their doctor in hopes they can get some (probably).

I am of the opinion that you have undoubtedly made your life unnecessarily more difficult for yourself. That being said, as long as you accept the consequences of your actions, then so be it. As for getting kicked out of school, it really depends on your school's professionalism code. Generally things that happen outside of school grounds and don't result in legal action (like getting in trouble with the cops) seem to be out of the focus of the professionalism code.

Do I think you should probably see a psychiatrist/therapist to work out some of your (admitted) social and traumatic history? Of course. Hopefully you are. Because (and this is my opinion and people are allowed to disagree with it) I believe it is a serious lack of inhibition to do everything (nudes w/ face + reddit + name + call yourself a med student) that you have done. One of the main reasons we're talking so much about this is because we (or at least I) have never seen this before.

As to the misc bros... c'mon now lol. I took a quick look at the misc forums, and it looks fun, but let's keep the 2 things apart. It's like bringing stuff from http://www.the-coli.com/ and bringing it back here...

 

[beBrave]

1. I don't see any correlation between being gay, being a slut, being a religious nut, being a fat person and being an excellent doctor. I would not freak out at being treated by any of the aforementioned.
2. That said, I wouldn't hire a fat doctor because I find it contrary to what medicine is about and I'd find it terribly offputting if people noted that lots of doctors are fat. I wouldn't hire a religious nut just because...well...I don't think we'd really see eye to eye on most things. The other two are fine by me unless they are being "disruptive" about it.
3. If you're making out with your boyfriend and putting half dressed photos on social networking sites - yeah...that's too much of your personal business out and about. As doctors I think we should maintain a certain formality with patients. Her patient walking in and saying "those hot white lace panties in photo 6 were rocking" is...

'OMG', It must be wonderful being able to pick from the great abundance of Medical Doctors and select one that is based solely on appearance, personal beliefs or possibly even sexual orientation. You are a disgrace to the Medical community. If you direct your patients to specialist based on your ridiculous beliefs, then you have no business practicing medicine or even giving advice.

 

[CDI]

Why do I get a sense of jealousy overflowing from everyone of Anastomoses' posts...

 

[tantacles]

1. Osteogenesis imperfecta congenita and elephatiasis don't creep me out - but yes, you do. It's gotta be really weird wishing you were someone else and then doing things to reaffirm that, hm?

2. Just because you advertise your body and sex life online doesn't mean I'm willing to let you delve into mine. Keep your hands off my sex life, freak. Your assumptions about my sexuality are so hilariously off, you'd pee your pants to know. Who said sex is shameful? Who said you can't have an orgy? Learn to focus on the issue.

3. I'm not against people talking about sexual abuse and molestation and working against it...but not half-clad giving people erections while doing it.

4. You sleep well at night - but you wish you were someone else? I'm finished talking to someone who isn't half smart enough to figure these things out on her own. Either you don't understand male sexuality at all - like many women or you're just...okay, no more insulting you. I'm done.

As a matter of course, I'm going to ignore the parts of your posts that are arguments and address the one part that is relevant. And I'll do it quite curtly. No two people recover from sexual trauma in the same way, and the results of said recovery vary. Insofar as sexuality is concerned, some completely wall themselves off from sex, some become more sexual and eventually feel empowered by having lived through their trauma, some lie somewhere in the middle, and some are ultimately unaffected sexually.

It's very possible, though I don't want to put words directly into nina1987's mouth, that posting pictures online is actually a form of therapy for her. Whether or not she's giving people boners isn't really our concern; what should be our concern is that she is not hurting herself or anyone else and that she doesn't feel disempowered by the trauma she suffered.

 

[tantacles]

What a thread. Five stars all around.

I just kept ignoring this thread b/c I was like, "Omg I don't care, I don't care" but of course I see it ballooning in replies... it's like a car accident. I had to click on it and watch.

This girl took nude pics of herself, identified herself as a med student, and put it all over the internet. Good for her. She's pretty, and her tits are a solid 9/10. Does it make me a chauvinist pig if I objectify someone who has chosen to do things to objectify herself? I'm sure some people in here would say so.

To Nina - I don't think what you've done reflects badly on the entire medical profession. However, you have set yourself in a position so that when people google who their doctor is, there will be inevitably be links to stories about these pictures. It will have differing effects, dependent on the person. Some people won't care, some (if not most) will think of it in a negative light, and some creeps will try to have you as their doctor in hopes they can get some (probably).

I am of the opinion that you have undoubtedly made your life unnecessarily more difficult for yourself. That being said, as long as you accept the consequences of your actions, then so be it. As for getting kicked out of school, it really depends on your school's professionalism code. Generally things that happen outside of school grounds and don't result in legal action (like getting in trouble with the cops) seem to be out of the focus of the professionalism code.

Do I think you should probably see a psychiatrist/therapist to work out some of your (admitted) social and traumatic history? Of course. Hopefully you are. Because (and this is my opinion and people are allowed to disagree with it) I believe it is a serious lack of inhibition to do everything (nudes w/ face + reddit + name + call yourself a med student) that you have done. One of the main reasons we're talking so much about this is because we (or at least I) have never seen this before.

As to the misc bros... c'mon now lol. I took a quick look at the misc forums, and it looks fun, but let's keep the 2 things apart. It's like bringing stuff from http://www.the-coli.com/ and bringing it back here...

I agree with just about everything you've said except for the bolded content. Her behavior isn't unusual; if it were, there wouldn't be hundreds, maybe thousands of men and women posting nude pictures of themselves on reddit. It's not a result of a lack of needed inhibition.

 

[Anastomoses]

Why do I get a sense of jealousy overflowing from everyone of Anastomoses' posts...

You're projecting. I can't be jealous of something I find inferior.

 

[tantacles]

You're projecting. I can't be jealous of someone I find inferior.

ftfy.

 

[Didierdrogba]

I agree with just about everything you've said except for the bolded content. Her behavior isn't unusual; if it were, there wouldn't be hundreds, maybe thousands of men and women posting nude pictures of themselves on reddit. It's not a result of a lack of needed inhibition.

I agree,

What is a lack of inhibition? For example, DUI is a serious lack of inhibition, and knowningly doing an amniocentesis without being guided by imaging is a serious lack of inhibition. These actions put people at risk, and they have both been done by numerous doctors before us. Is Nina's decision to post her pictures online any worse than these, granted she knows about the consequences? The answer is a resounding no, she is harming no one, and I'd say getting a DUI and blindly performing risky procedures are much worse, and (if you want to go down that road), much worse for the image of the medical community.

 

[tantacles]

I think some of you guys are getting hung up on gender and decency issues. The underlying question is not one of whether nudity is indecent or even whether there's a double standard. The real question is whether there is certain behavioral requirements incumbent on professionals. I have no issue with her morality, and if she were not a member of an organized profession I'd say she can bare it all, knock herself out. But when there are issues of professionalism at play, the game changes.

All right, then. Hypothetical. What if a woman or man sends a picture to his/her SO and the SO posts the picture online while pretending to be that person? Does the mere presence of the picture mean that the sender has been unprofessional?

 

[CDI]

You're projecting. I can't be jealous of something I find inferior.

Eh, this is a lost cause, too much hate in this one. What's really troubling you?

 

[Anastomoses]

ftfy.

That was half accident. I even have to remind myself not to call babies "it".

 

[NJDevilsFan]

Unlike poopoo and wee wee, using the word "******" insults an entire group of people. As a physician who WILL encounter these patients regardless of what specialty you go into you should be cognizant of that.

 

[Anastomoses]

All right, then. Hypothetical. What if a woman or man sends a picture to his/her SO and the SO posts the picture online while pretending to be that person? Does the mere presence of the picture mean that the sender has been unprofessional?

No. And that was my initial point on this thread...had she been just doing her little "I need to show off my body for a thrill" thing without mentioning her medical career - even as a professional I'd feel bad if she had it uncovered by someone. But she's showcasing her body and her medical career and saying "hey look at me...med student and naked boobies all in one!" (actually i haven't seen the pics so I don't know to what degree she is undressed)

 

[tantacles]

That was half accident. I even have to remind myself not to call babies "it".

Just half?

 

[Didierdrogba]

You're projecting. I can't be jealous of something I find inferior.

oh... just stop. at this point you are just making a fool of yourself

 

[throwaway2evry1]

1. Osteogenesis imperfecta congenita and elephantiasis don't creep me out - but yes, you do. It's gotta be really weird wishing you were someone else and then doing things to reaffirm that, hm?

2. Just because you advertise your body and sex life online doesn't mean I'm willing to let you delve into mine. Keep your hands off my sex life, freak. Your assumptions about my sexuality are so hilariously off, you'd pee your pants to know. Who said sex is shameful? Who said you can't have an orgy? Learn to focus on the issue.

3. I'm not against people talking about sexual abuse and molestation and working against it...but not half-clad giving people erections while doing it.

4. You sleep well at night - but you wish you were someone else? I'm finished talking to someone who isn't half smart enough to figure these things out on her own. Either you don't understand male sexuality at all - like many women or you're just...okay, no more insulting you. I'm done.

I don't think I could delve into an obviously non-existent sex-life. You're a either a very frigid woman or an man who judges so harshly that many women would feel uncomfortable around you.

I'm probably the least scary or intimidating person you could ever meet and that's how I'm certain you're a woman because I don't think I've ever met a man who was actually afraid of me.

Lastly, I hate the labels. There's no "male sexuality." Some men are heterosexual, some men are homosexual, some have foot fetishes, others like banging milfs. Everyone is different. You don't know everything about men, the same as you don't know everything about women and you certainly know nothing about me.

 

[tantacles]

No. And that was my initial point on this thread...had she been just doing her little "I need to show off my body for a thrill" thing without mentioning her medical career - even as a professional I'd feel bad if she had it uncovered by someone. But she's showcasing her body and her medical career and saying "hey look at me...med student and naked boobies all in one!" (actually i haven't seen the pics so I don't know to what degree she is undressed)

All right, Nina. We have your course of action! All you have to do is feign surprise if any colleague ever asks you about these pictures and you're off the hook. And delete the verifications! You'll be all set. Deny the interview too. Deny deny deny.

 

[Anastomoses]

Unlike poopoo and wee wee, using the word "******" insults an entire group of people. As a physician who WILL encounter these patients regardless of what specialty you go into you should be cognizant of that.

It might be where I grew up but I don't even think of people with disabilities when the word "******" comes up, though that's a good point. I'll be more cognizant of it.

 

[Anastomoses]

I don't think I could delve into an obviously non-existent sex-life. You're a either a very frigid woman or an man who judges so harshly that many women would feel uncomfortable around you.

Unlike you, I'm not willing to use myself to titillate randoms so you'll just have to believe what you want about my bedroom etiquette. all the best Nina!

CDI. Why are you trying to compare us? Because we both have vaginas? Imbecile.

 

[beBrave]

Inhibition is a tricky one, for example everyone has a different level of comfort. Its not possible to determine that she lacks inhibition in comparison to other funtional men and women who post nudes online. For those that may present an argument that her sexual traumatic history may have affected her inhibitions when it comes to revealing her body, then this is also something that could not be proven without carefully evaluating what she was like prior to experiencing the sexual trauma; furthermore her ability to move beyond the traumatic experience and post images might very well be a means of empowerment and possibly even growth. Ask yourself this, if she became a professional model and similar pictures (all professional now) were posted in a magazine, would she be violating professional guidelines? I can bet that if she were to pose in playboy, while there would likely be complaints about it, the school would be hard pressed attempting to punish her (unless there is a specific clause in their student integrity guidelines) and the number of people that would know about her would stretch from a few hundred or thousand redditors to your mom and dad talking about that girl on the news.

 

[evilbooyaa]

I agree with just about everything you've said except for the bolded content. Her behavior isn't unusual; if it were, there wouldn't be hundreds, maybe thousands of men and women posting nude pictures of themselves on reddit. It's not a result of a lack of needed inhibition.

I think stating that her behavior is NOT unusual is being slightly facetious. I do not believe that it is considered 'business as usual' to post naked pics of yourself on the internet. I guess I'm old-fashioned. Not saying I think it is despicable, but I don't think it is commonplace.

Anyways, the main thing I wanted to focus on was that the combination of everything that happened with this girl (not just that she's a girl who posted naked pics of herself online) is something that we as a community has never seen before (I believe). Or at least, not in the same numbers as we have with this girl. This is the first girl who posted nude pics on the internet with her face visible while self-identifying as a medical student, right? Then on top of all that, she came onto this forum to justify/defend her actions. The culmination of ALL of those factors is why we are discussing it so vehemently.

 

[CDI]

Unlike you, I'm not willing to use myself to titillate randoms so you'll just have to believe what you want about my bedroom etiquette. all the best Nina!

Translation: "I'm ug."

 

[Anastomoses]

Translation: "I'm ug."

haha. You don't have to worry about if I'm ugly or not. My standards are pretty high and last time I checked - I'm not interested in you. Notice I was too polite to translate that you must be a fatass.

 

[evilbooyaa]

Translation: "I'm ug."

... While I don't agree with Anastomoses's viewpoints, I think it hurts your (by your I mean Nina and her supporters) argument by going to her (Anastomoses's) level. Assuming that one is ugly and has no sex life because they are not willing to discuss/exhibit it in public is silly.

 

[CDI]

... While I don't agree with Anastomoses's viewpoints, I think it hurts your (by your I mean Nina and her supporters) argument by going to her (Anastomoses's) level. Assuming that one is ugly and has no sex life because they are not willing to discuss/exhibit it in public is silly.

If what I was posting in this thread actually made sense, then I'd have to rethink my trolling strategies.

She so ug, when she came out the doctor said "Ah hell nah" and pushed her back in.

(Oh wait, she was a C-Sec according to her profile. Why would ppl even share that?)

 

[tantacles]

I think stating that her behavior is NOT unusual is being slightly facetious. I do not believe that it is considered 'business as usual' to post naked pics of yourself on the internet. I guess I'm old-fashioned. Not saying I think it is despicable, but I don't think it is commonplace.

Anyways, the main thing I wanted to focus on was that the combination of everything that happened with this girl (not just that she's a girl who posted naked pics of herself online) is something that we as a community has never seen before (I believe). Or at least, not in the same numbers as we have with this girl. This is the first girl who posted nude pics on the internet with her face visible while self-identifying as a medical student, right? Then on top of all that, she came onto this forum to justify/defend her actions. The culmination of ALL of those factors is why we are discussing it so vehemently.

Do you honestly think she's the first medical student ever to post pictures of herself naked online and identify herself as a medical student?

And with regard to it being usual, there are tons of things that some people do that most people would find repulsive that aren't considered pathologic. Numerous sexual fetishes come to mind as an obvious example, but in any case, doing something that others don't with your time is not necessarily an indication of pathology, amorality, or lack of professionalism.

 

[chopes31]

If what I was posting in this thread actually made sense, then I'd have to rethink my trolling strategies.

She so ug, when she came out the doctor said "Ah hell nah" and pushed her back in.

(Oh wait, she was a C-Sec according to her profile. Why would ppl even share that?)

Lack of inhibition.