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I really enjoy my rotations so far, not as bad as I thought especially since I’m on surgery rotation. I can see myself gunning surgery but there is a lingering feeling of regret and sadness on my mind. I will hopefully graduate at age 27, finish residency between 3-7ish years. My mom got hit by a tree in a freak accident a year ago and got a concussion, some muscle damage, and a lil mobility issues. She just turned 58 and will be 60 when I graduate (forgot her b-day because of busy surgery days). Before you know it if I finish residency, she’ll be 65ish. Half the time when I study, I just want to cry and regret choosing medicine when my mom’s growing old and dying. I failed to even get an interview in my own state and feel this is another reason why I am not good enough. When I see patients that are my mom’s age and watching them die from disease, it reminds me I will have wasted my 20s to early 30s to never spend the time I want with my mom or my dad or my dog. I'm already on the other side of the country, and probably won’t match near her. We get into huge arguments every time I’m on the phone, and she told me if she dies it's okay, I just want you to finish and be a doctor. This pisses me off the most and makes me want to just quit. Tried private therapy after Step 1 but it was just way too expensive after the 2nd session. No time to find a new therapist during surg rotation.