Eeek! Um, I mean ok....if you want to remain encouraged and energized by the idea that med school is easy beyond the fall of 1st year, don't read the rest of this message.
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First of all, what is "easy" to you? That's what you need to know when you interpret these messages of upperclassmen who tell you things get easy. I agree that things get EASIER, and the latter half of med school can be a cake-walk compared to the beginning, but I didn't ever think it was easy.
"Easy" to me is getting lots of sleep, eating well, and finding social time without trying too hard to do so. Easy is not having to study until the day before the test, or the week before even. Easy is not having to study more than three hours in a day, and understanding everything the first time around. Easy is not having any test or requirement that makes me nauseated in anticipation of it. Easy is never having too many things to do at once, and never having to choose which one to do a shoddy job in because I don't have time to do well and I'll fail if I don't do it at all. Easy is having a rats chance in hell of NOT BEING BEHIND!!
So 1st year is hardest at first, but mostly because you don't know what you are doing or what to expect. You get into a rhythm, and it becomes easier to handle, but it doesn't get less busy. You'll still study many hours every day. You'll be behind, whether you like it or not.
I don't want to discourage anyone, but I think that telling you things are going to be easy isn't helpful. That encourages adopting an attitude of "If I can just get through this, things will be better" - an attitude that will slowly die when things just don't slow down enough for you to catch up.
So here's a little description of my three years, and take it for what its worth.
1st year:
Daily study time: probably 4-5 hours
Days off (with no studying): 1 every 2 weeks or so
Marathon study days per week: 2
Sleepless nights: none
Vacations: Flew home 3 times for the weekend, went rafting one weekend, went on a 10 day Spring break.
# of times I said "I can't, I have to study": ALL THE TIME
# of time I felt like if I didn't study, I might fail an exam: every exam
2nd year:
Daily study time: probably 2-3 hours, back up to 5-6 when also studying for boards
Days off: At least one per week
Marathon study days per week: Not every week, but definitely the 2-3 days before a test, and nearly every day in the last few months before boards
Sleepless nights: none
Vacations: Flew home twice
# of times I said "I can't, I have to study": not nearly as many
# of times I felt like if I didn't study, I'd fail an exam: same
2nd year will bring you fewer lecture hours, more interesting classes, easier tests, and a better handle on prioritizing your time because you learned how 1st year. It also brings you more preceptorships, sometimes on the night before tests, more busy work, more stress because of boards, the new stress of the lottery, and a crap-ass attitude if you thought it would be easy and find out that it is still harder than college at its hardest.
3rd year:
Daily study time: 1 hour, sometimes more, sometimes less
Days off: Most weekends, if not, usually a day off per week.
Marathon study days: Will be starting again, as boards are coming up in August. So far, none yet.
Sleepless nights: can't count 'em
Vacations: none yet, not enough time off for one
# of times I said "I can't, I'm on call": all the time
3rd year brings you more afternoons off, weekends off without studying for tests, no stress of tests because there aren't any (any that count, anyway). However, it is like working a 60 hour a week job and you are tired just from that. You feel stupid alot, but you feel smart alot too. You're treated both badly and well, and you don't mind all of the above because you are doing what you pushed through 1st and 2nd years to do.
My advice, to be taken with a grain of salt of course, is not to grit your teeth until it becomes easier, but instead to assume it won't get easier and find ways to handle what is hard about things now. Med school isn't bearable because it gets easier, it is bearable because you can handle it. You are all strong, intelligent, motivated people and are capable of getting through this. Sometimes you might feel like you can't do it, and you'll tell a friend you're through.
(Scene1: on the front lawn of the Alfond building)
You: "I can't do it!"
Friend: "Yes, you can"
You: "Really, I CAN'T!"
Friend: "YES, YOU CAN!!"
Know that this scene happened more times than I can count to more classmates than I knew I had. And they are all out on their 3rd year rotations now.
Good luck to you all, you'll get through it and before you know it, you'll be walking across a stage again.
OH, and hi UNEOSTEO. I think I know who you are, esp when you said you have a tendency to "go on and on" once you get started. Are you eating chicken right now?
Doc Oc
UNECOM Class of 2005