Nah, I think there is a bit of projection here. I make no assumptions about how hardworking someone is. I've been in this field long enough to know that no surgical specialty is truly a "lifestyle" specialty-- particularly during residency. When someone asks about lifestyle, I imagine someone who wants to work 9-5. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but I don't know any surgeon who does. Maybe some exist out there. So maybe I (and other surgeons) need a better explanation of what someone means when they ask about lifestyle.
As for why the derm sarcasm, I have a problem with dermatologists calling themselves "surgeons." Being a surgeon carries the implication that you underwent the grueling hours of a surgical residency. Sorry, but if you're barely going beyond dermis, it isn't surgery. But who knows, maybe I have my own biases. When I was a resident, starving and sleep-deprived after 30 hours of call, too dizzy from sleep deprivation to drive home safely, and trying instead to catch a few quiet minutes in the resident library, I was awoken by two giggling, dressed-to-the-nines derm residents, with fully done hair and makeup, loudly complaining about how 730am was too early to come in to work. (I had to be in by 430am, by comparison, and left at 9pm when they left at 3). So seeing these people call themselves "surgeons" when they weren't in the trenches pisses me off.
Sure derms aren't fixing skull base or unstable pelvis problems, but I think they are well trained for the type of surgical procedures they do. Analogous to MDs calling themselves researchers without going through a PhD - obviously they are still doing research, but not usually at the depth or breadth of a PhD and I think the same is true for derm vs surgery. Still surgery, but different breadth and depth (no pun intended) so of course training is not the same.
Changing topics, where do you see ortho in 15 years? My hunch has been that with tissue engineering advancements we will see more non-surgical approaches to ortho.
Also, can content interest alone get you through an ortho residency, or does there need to be an inherent love with the OR, regardless of content?
Thanks!