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That was my instinct. Just disappointing because she did appear to have some really promising listings 🙁that sounds super sketchy. I'd steer clear of that.
That was my instinct. Just disappointing because she did appear to have some really promising listings 🙁that sounds super sketchy. I'd steer clear of that.
that sounds super sketchy. I'd steer clear of that.
That was my instinct. Just disappointing because she did appear to have some really promising listings 🙁
Right? That's what I was thinking. Not to mention, I don't really want to start off my lease by lying to my landlord and fostering a bad relationship...Ditto on the sketchy!! You should definitely find someone else to help you out. If you lie on your app about having a pet they can evict you and then you are totally SOL 😕
Apparently it's city specific about whether or not people typically have realtors to find rentals. Discovered this when searching for a place in Chicago (where it's not uncommon, vs Minneapolis where I'd never heard of that)Wait people use realtors to find rentals??
Yes. The market is fairly against people looking for apartments here. Stuff goes insanely fast and there's a large number of units that are only available through a realtor. Even if you find an apartment on your own, more often than not you have to pay a broker fee because whoever the landlord hired to list their unit passes it on to you.Wait people use realtors to find rentals??
☕... 'bout had a "kids get off my lawn" moment. Two little boys were playing on the hill behind my condo block and one of them ran down and into my fenced in trash area while I was out watering my plants. He then started pushing on the locked gate to the actual patio. I was just standing there thinking "WTF, does he not know I'm right here?" I fought a very strong urge to spray him through the fence with the hose. Shoo little urchins!
I'm not a big fan of unsupervised children.
I'm not a big fan of unsupervised children.
As someone who is still suffering the effects of incorrectly diagnosed Lyme by a stubborn nurse practitioner who would not listen to my nurse mother (20 years later).... go to the doctor and get some bloodwork so you can get some drugs if you need them.I just extracted a large, disgusting, engorged tick from my scalp......
And now commence the paranoia about contracting a tick borne disease....
I just extracted a large, disgusting, engorged tick from my scalp......![]()
I screamed and flung it across the parking lot when I found it....
Will most likely be visiting the doc soon, especially if any symptoms show up...As someone who is still suffering the effects of incorrectly diagnosed Lyme by a stubborn nurse practitioner who would not listen to my nurse mother (20 years later).... go to the doctor and get some bloodwork so you can get some drugs if you need them.
Damn I am all over this thread lately -_-
I just extracted a large, disgusting, engorged tick from my scalp......
And now commence the paranoia about contracting a tick borne disease....
nopenopenopenopeI'm still paranoid I picked something up from 1 of the 20+ ticks that were crawling on me when I went chasing for the escaped dog for several hours a few months ago...
Real estate in Boston is really annoying. Was recommended someone who was supposed to be a great realtor at placing people who had dogs and she has so far encouraged me to lie about having a dog until my lease application is approved and the lease is signed, she's saying that we absolutely have to sign a document saying we've seen the apartments and leases even though we haven't, and she wants checks for first month and broker fee before we see a single place. Seems pretty sketchy, but I know the real estate market is really different in Boston so I have no idea what to believe.
Near Boston. I'm aware that first, last, and realtor fee are pretty standard up front but writing a check for that before even looking at a place seems a little ridiculous.It's typical in Boston and surrounding areas to require the equivalent of 3 months rent up front. First, last, and realtor fee. Pet friendly rentals are scarce in the city any many rentals are occupied by college students in certain areas. Are you looking in Boston proper or near Boston?
How do they even know what your first and last will be without looking 😱 is it a we won't cash it until we find you something? That's crazy sauce!Near Boston. I'm aware that first, last, and realtor fee are pretty standard up front but writing a check for that before even looking at a place seems a little ridiculous.
im confused?How do they even know what your first and last will be without looking 😱 is it a we won't cash it until we find you something? That's crazy sauce!
How much your first and last months rent will be when you haven't even found a place yet.im confused?
AhHow much your first and last months rent will be when you haven't even found a place yet.
Nah I probably just need to post in full sentences.Ah
Apparently I need to read things when I'm more than half awake.
Having rented apartments in Boston before ... never paid that upfront! Paid it all after finding a specific apartment. Sounds very sketchy to want it before...Near Boston. I'm aware that first, last, and realtor fee are pretty standard up front but writing a check for that before even looking at a place seems a little ridiculous.
I just extracted a large, disgusting, engorged tick from my scalp......
And now commence the paranoia about contracting a tick borne disease....
just pop a bravecto, I'm sure it's safe.*Why isn't there tick prevention for people???
Me too. And a vet and I debated the merits of putting them on children who like to crawl through bushes and leaf piles.I've heard of people putting seresto collars on their ankles when going out for a hike.![]()
"[She] told police that she believed she could perform the surgery herself because she grew up on a farm and had castrated pigs before."So I came across this in my FB news feed today:
Police: Woman performed dog’s surgery with knife, tongs in living room
I just... I don't even know how to respond to something like that. And I know that it probably happens more often than we realize.
I'm sure that proper anesthesia/analgesia was the last thing on the lady's mind when she cut into her dog, so I can only imagine how much pain it must have been in before it died. Poor thing.
My husband found a tick near the back of my neck and I almost started crying. Haha I swear I'm not very squeamish around bugs but the idea of a bug latching onto me without realizing it freaks me out..I screamed and flung it across the parking lot when I found it....
but then I begrudgingly found it again to take a picture in case I needed the ID of that little turd......
Ditto, last week. It was disgusting. I find ticks on me daily. We don't even have prime real estate for ticks on our property!! I have a tick jar in the bathroom now for me; the dogs are lucky and take Nexgard...
Edit: 2 new ticks found after just standing with the a/c repairman for an hour.![]()
Wow! That's truly terrible! I'm not even sure how she was able to cut into a dog that wasn't anesthetized! Poor pupper. ISU absolutely did the right thing. I'm actually surprised they contacted the police, but I'm glad they did.So I came across this in my FB news feed today:
Police: Woman performed dog’s surgery with knife, tongs in living room
I just... I don't even know how to respond to something like that. And I know that it probably happens more often than we realize.
I'm sure that proper anesthesia/analgesia was the last thing on the lady's mind when she cut into her dog, so I can only imagine how much pain it must have been in before it died. Poor thing. There are people on FB lambasting ISU contacting the police and/or recommending euthanasia if removal of the obstruction wasn't an option, but at least that would have been humane and far, far more peaceful than performing DIY surgery in a living room.
Yeah, I don't know. That was definitely a question I had as well.How do they even know what your first and last will be without looking 😱 is it a we won't cash it until we find you something? That's crazy sauce!
I'm just glad you guys are ok. Positive juju to your family.For those looking for an update on my family after the asbestos thing, the short answer is we still have very little furniture, but we are fine. I wrote a longer answer in the depression thread in the lounge.
Well, there is drama on a few other fronts, but we are still ok. Hopefully I can find a way to keep my animals and just sell everything in the house, but that is another story....I'm just glad you guys are ok. Positive juju to your family.
And she only faces a maximum of a year in jail? What in the world.So I came across this in my FB news feed today:
Police: Woman performed dog’s surgery with knife, tongs in living room
I just... I don't even know how to respond to something like that. And I know that it probably happens more often than we realize.
I'm sure that proper anesthesia/analgesia was the last thing on the lady's mind when she cut into her dog, so I can only imagine how much pain it must have been in before it died. Poor thing. There are people on FB lambasting ISU contacting the police and/or recommending euthanasia if removal of the obstruction wasn't an option, but at least that would have been humane and far, far more peaceful than performing DIY surgery in a living room.
For those looking for an update on my family after the asbestos thing, the short answer is we still have very little furniture, but we are fine. I wrote a longer answer in the depression thread in the lounge.
Delayed flight #1 led to missing my connection in Atlanta. Managed to get a standby seat on a flight a few hours later only to be told there was a temporary grounding of flights heading south due to weather. Finally make it home.
Walk in my apartment and see carpet ripped up, fans blowing on the carpet, and my stuff moved everywhere. I get a call from maintenance and am told that my water heater had been leaking, probably for a couple days, and they noticed it because there was water dripping in the guy below me's apartment and when they couldn't find the source they came into my place and found the mess. I am grateful they noticed and already had cleanup in progress, but I'm not looking forward to straightening my apartment back up once the carpet dries.
Oh, and I got another jury duty summons today. And it's for the week when new house officers arrive that we aren't allowed to be gone plus I was already excused from jury duty once. My residency coordinator said last time I'd have to take vacation days if I wanted to serve it but it sucks to be forced to use vacation for something that is involuntary, a civic duty or whatever, and (though unlikely) could go on longer than my vacation days allow. Plus jury duty is a separate column on our leave applications so I have a little bit of doubt about it being vacation in the university's eyes. But I guess we'll see.
It's been a stressful day and I need a drink or a nap. Probably going to go for the nap to avoid the chance for more things to happen.
My new upstairs neighbors are horrible. I've been trying to give them the benefit of the doubt seeing as they've just moved in, but they've been here for two weeks and literally stomp around ALL freaking day. It's like they never sit down and they walk/stomp around so loud that my walls literally shake. Anyone have any ideas/experience on how to handle and approach them about this without being rude? I'm already about at my wits end but trying to be patient.
You might want to check local law. I know in CO, they had to give you paid time off for jury duty. It had limits and such, but they couldn't make you use your vacation for a civic duty.Delayed flight #1 led to missing my connection in Atlanta. Managed to get a standby seat on a flight a few hours later only to be told there was a temporary grounding of flights heading south due to weather. Finally make it home.
Walk in my apartment and see carpet ripped up, fans blowing on the carpet, and my stuff moved everywhere. I get a call from maintenance and am told that my water heater had been leaking, probably for a couple days, and they noticed it because there was water dripping in the guy below me's apartment and when they couldn't find the source they came into my place and found the mess. I am grateful they noticed and already had cleanup in progress, but I'm not looking forward to straightening my apartment back up once the carpet dries.
Oh, and I got another jury duty summons today. And it's for the week when new house officers arrive that we aren't allowed to be gone plus I was already excused from jury duty once. My residency coordinator said last time I'd have to take vacation days if I wanted to serve it but it sucks to be forced to use vacation for something that is involuntary, a civic duty or whatever, and (though unlikely) could go on longer than my vacation days allow. Plus jury duty is a separate column on our leave applications so I have a little bit of doubt about it being vacation in the university's eyes. But I guess we'll see.
It's been a stressful day and I need a drink or a nap. Probably going to go for the nap to avoid the chance for more things to happen.
My new upstairs neighbors are horrible. I've been trying to give them the benefit of the doubt seeing as they've just moved in, but they've been here for two weeks and literally stomp around ALL freaking day. It's like they never sit down and they walk/stomp around so loud that my walls literally shake. Anyone have any ideas/experience on how to handle and approach them about this without being rude? I'm already about at my wits end but trying to be patient.
I did do that last night. From what I found online about my current state, it looks like they have to give you leave but they don't have to pay you. So I think I could take unpaid leave OR choose to take vacation so that I could get paid my full salary for any days I missed. And if you are taking unpaid leave, the state will pay you $15/day! Score (*sarcasm* but hey it is also 'free' money so I'd take it)!You might want to check local law. I know in CO, they had to give you paid time off for jury duty. It had limits and such, but they couldn't make you use your vacation for a civic duty.