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Not a super rant but just needing to vent because im more just disappointed than anything. Came home after a not terribly busy day. Hubs made dinner. Was relaxing like truly relaxed watching the Olympics with the hubs. Like relaxed to a point I haven't been in awhile no stress in the shoulders. My phone hadn't rang. Notes were all done at work. Really just enjoying spending time with my husband and the dogs watching the Olympics. Then my phone rings for a horse euth I get back home only to have my husband's phone ring to go in for a standoff situation. Sometime I wish we had bankers jobs, true 9-5s, and way less stress. Now it's late and I'm pry going to bed alone and he pry won't be home til early morning. Glad I have the dogs to keep me company. Sometimes I'd just like to have true family time with 0 obligations. Probably why I ditch the country so often 😅
Hey wait where are you hiding from tornadoes? I'm in hide from tornado land. Now I'm just being nosy.

I still get heart palpitations when someone uses the Sencha ringtone on an iPhone because that was my 4th year choice. Ruined it for eternity.
 
@RespectTheChemistry I'm sorry you're not getting the support you need. <3

Thank you so much. I think I really needed this validation of my feelings.

I am getting support from friends. My grandparents have actually been wonderful too. I am lucky in that regard.

My mom just said a few things that were really hurtful. It bothered me because we have always been very close.
 
Hey wait where are you hiding from tornadoes? I'm in hide from tornado land. Now I'm just being nosy.

I still get heart palpitations when someone uses the Sencha ringtone on an iPhone because that was my 4th year choice. Ruined it for eternity.
lol ours go off every Monday. This year hasn't been so bad but last year we have 3 in 1 day. Eastern CO/KS border, closeish to OK and TX panhandle
 
Thank you so much. I think I really needed this validation of my feelings.

I am getting support from friends. My grandparents have actually been wonderful too. I am lucky in that regard.

My mom just said a few things that were really hurtful. It bothered me because we have always been very close.
Breakups are hard to begin with, and when it's on this level, I think the people not directly involved still give themselves too much leeway in how important their feelings are. I hope that things improve with some time on their parts. ❤️
 
Say it with me…
HPAI or H5N1 has no evidence suggesting it is an airborne virus. Just don’t interact with sick animals, don’t drink raw milk, and don’t go to random farms.

The USDA, CDC, and NDFP have no Biosecurity measures to suggest that it is an airborne illness. The state of Michigan requires all dairy cows to test negative for HPAI and lactating or last 60 days are not allowed at fairs. Poultry has not had an outbreak in the last 30 days so there is little risk for them at fairs.

Sincerely,
A tired Biosecurity specialist
But raw milk is natural! The government just is hiding the cancer curing secrets of raw food, even for people! /s
 
lol ours go off every Monday. This year hasn't been so bad but last year we have 3 in 1 day. Eastern CO/KS border, closeish to OK and TX panhandle

I’m in Oklahoma. They test the sirens on Wednesdays at noon here! I can’t even hear them at my house though, so if I want any sort of warnings I gotta get that elsewhere.

I haven’t seen Twisters, partially because the original Twister was like, woven into the fabric of basically any millennial Okie’s childhood. I’m not sure I’m ready for a version without Bill Paxton or flying cows.

Anyway, just being nosy.

(The ringtone PTSD is from my fourth year on call rotations, not tornado sirens. I’ll take a casual tornado siren over Sencha anyday.)
 
In Columbus (OSU) they test them every Wednesday at noon weather permitting, but in Minnesota (Twin Cities, and thus UMN, included) it's only the 1st Wednesday of the month. I think I'm gonna get tornado siren test withdrawals...
 
In Columbus (OSU) they test them every Wednesday at noon weather permitting, but in Minnesota (Twin Cities, and thus UMN, included) it's only the 1st Wednesday of the month. I think I'm gonna get tornado siren test withdrawals...
Wow, I've lived here for 2 months and never noticed that it was weekly :laugh: wild

Me on July 31st: oh, must be the first Wednesday of the month!
 
I'm only applying to 7 schools and two don't have supplemental apps, I can't imagine doing more because it has taken me since June to get all the essays done (working on my last 2 today!)
Just got done with 1 more...2 more to go! My brain feels like its gonna explode with all these supplementals, but I needed that sweet fee waiver and there really isn't that much left 😢 Just gets tiring after a while. Though, I don't feel as horrible about my two essays when I peek into some premed forums. I'm shook that med school applicants have to write an upwards of 50 essays? It sounds like they have multiple "primary" and "secondary" essays to do for each school. Insane.
 
2 weeks into my first year and I literally cannot see light at the end of the tunnel rn. I feel like I’m going crazy 🥲
It’ll get better. You’re still in the adjustment period, and it’s really tough! There’s so much being thrown at you and it can feel crazy overwhelming. Give yourself some grace and time to get used to it. It’ll be okay.
 
Wow, I've lived here for 2 months and never noticed that it was weekly :laugh: wild

Me on July 31st: oh, must be the first Wednesday of the month!
I’ve been here over a year and just learned it was weekly from this forum, lol!
 
I’m originally from the Midwest so I was iffy on if I’d want to apply to Ohio or not, leaning towards not because I do want to be able to explore the state a lot more than just the town. I think my riskiest picks are probably Kansas or Arizona. I would apply Minnesota but I didn’t make it past their academic review last year :/
Sorry for the late reply. Yeah rural Ohio can be eh same with the rest of the midwest. I think Arizona would be a pretty solid choice. It tends to be more left leaning and there’s a general feeling of to each their own in rural places but safety is never a guarantee for trans folks unfortunately - especially with the upcoming election. Kansas for me personally was a no go, I think it’s similar to the general south eastern area in that it can get quite sketchy quite fast outside city limits. It’s not in the worst geographic location with its proximity to CO but still I would worry about what could happen after the November election. Of course these are just my opinions and I have not been to the schools in Kansas nor in Arizona so take my advice with a grain of salt. Best of luck, I hope wherever you land you feel safe to be yourself!
 
Sorry for the late reply. Yeah rural Ohio can be eh same with the rest of the midwest. I think Arizona would be a pretty solid choice. It tends to be more left leaning and there’s a general feeling of to each their own in rural places but safety is never a guarantee for trans folks unfortunately - especially with the upcoming election. Kansas for me personally was a no go, I think it’s similar to the general south eastern area in that it can get quite sketchy quite fast outside city limits. It’s not in the worst geographic location with its proximity to CO but still I would worry about what could happen after the November election. Of course these are just my opinions and I have not been to the schools in Kansas nor in Arizona so take my advice with a grain of salt. Best of luck, I hope wherever you land you feel safe to be yourself!
I think november will be a big time for the decisions regarding vet schools for me!
 
Got my first board complaint. Sigh. It was always going to be inevitable.

I wish owners could understand that we cannot tell them they have no choice except euthanasia, particularly in critical care medicine. I can give you all the bad prognosis warnings in the world and offer euthanasia/say it is a reasonable and potentially kind decision, but ultimately that decision needs to be yours.

This comes after a threat of a complaint a few months ago because some owners felt I was pushing them too hard towards euthanasia. You just can't win, man.
 
Got my first board complaint. Sigh. It was always going to be inevitable.

I wish owners could understand that we cannot tell them they have no choice except euthanasia, particularly in critical care medicine. I can give you all the bad prognosis warnings in the world and offer euthanasia/say it is a reasonable and potentially kind decision, but ultimately that decision needs to be yours.

This comes after a threat of a complaint a few months ago because some owners felt I was pushing them too hard towards euthanasia. You just can't win, man.
I also recently got my first complaint submitted, so if you need commiseration, I'm here. My understanding is the majority of complaints don't go anywhere, but still sucks
 
I truly didn’t think it would happen but it happened. MSU’s NAVLE overall score dropped below 80%, and our first pass rate is around 50%. I don’t understand how this is happening and it makes me feel disheartened and troubled about the education I’m getting preparation wise.
 
The clinic finally took my recommendation of no checks. It's 2024 and I know many places that don't take checks. Somehow this is like a rioting issue for some clients...I don't understand...
The mixed clinic my friend works for doesn’t even accept credit cards, they’re cash or check only. It’s crazy. The owner claims it’s because he’s trying to save people money so he doesn’t have to raise prices 3% or whatever to cover cc processing fees, but seems to me like he’s just stuck in the past. All the other vets in the area do accept cards though. But I had to get a checkbook again when I moved back here after years of not having one because checks are still commonplace for services. It’s a whole different world for sure.
 
The clinic finally took my recommendation of no checks. It's 2024 and I know many places that don't take checks. Somehow this is like a rioting issue for some clients...I don't understand...
I was just thinking of how balancing a check book is basically just budgeting now 🤣
 
The mixed clinic my friend works for doesn’t even accept credit cards, they’re cash or check only. It’s crazy. The owner claims it’s because he’s trying to save people money so he doesn’t have to raise prices 3% or whatever to cover cc processing fees, but seems to me like he’s just stuck in the past. All the other vets in the area do accept cards though. But I had to get a checkbook again when I moved back here after years of not having one because checks are still commonplace for services. It’s a whole different world for sure.
The other clinic in town is that same way. I don't get it. The owner of that clinic is definitely older. They finally got email with their new associate so that was nice 😂
It's been a wierd transition. We had a good client freak out about it. Really like checks are the hill you're going to die on?
Made the comment along the lines of well what do you pay your gas bill with....the answer is card but I don't think they would've liked that so thank goodness I wasn't upfront 😅
 
Got my first board complaint. Sigh. It was always going to be inevitable.

I wish owners could understand that we cannot tell them they have no choice except euthanasia, particularly in critical care medicine. I can give you all the bad prognosis warnings in the world and offer euthanasia/say it is a reasonable and potentially kind decision, but ultimately that decision needs to be yours.

This comes after a threat of a complaint a few months ago because some owners felt I was pushing them too hard towards euthanasia. You just can't win, man.
I also recently got my first complaint submitted, so if you need commiseration, I'm here. My understanding is the majority of complaints don't go anywhere, but still sucks
No, you cannot win. Truly. I’m still emotionally recovering from the 3 years of Florida ER. You bend over backwards for a client, only for them to blame you for everything that has ever gone wrong in the world. Left that position with 6 lawsuits under my belt, somehow no actual board complaints…probably because every single case got tossed in the end. No matter how baseless, a board complaint or lawsuit still feels absolutely terrible. Hell, I don’t have clients anymore but I still chart my records with direct quotes from keepers.
I truly didn’t think it would happen but it happened. MSU’s NAVLE overall score dropped below 80%, and our first pass rate is around 50%. I don’t understand how this is happening and it makes me feel disheartened and troubled about the education I’m getting preparation wise.
I’d be interested in hearing more about this. I’ve been out of the admissions loop for a while now, but it sounds like MSU has dramatically changed their admissions approach in the last 10 years. I keep seeing it mentioned in various posts as a ‘holistic’ school. 10 years ago, it was arguably one of the more academically-focused admissions processes out there. have they changed the curriculum as well? Is the attrition rate higher?
 
No, you cannot win. Truly. I’m still emotionally recovering from the 3 years of Florida ER. You bend over backwards for a client, only for them to blame you for everything that has ever gone wrong in the world. Left that position with 6 lawsuits under my belt, somehow no actual board complaints…probably because every single case got tossed in the end. No matter how baseless, a board complaint or lawsuit still feels absolutely terrible. Hell, I don’t have clients anymore but I still chart my records with direct quotes from keepers.

I’d be interested in hearing more about this. I’ve been out of the admissions loop for a while now, but it sounds like MSU has dramatically changed their admissions approach in the last 10 years. I keep seeing it mentioned in various posts as a ‘holistic’ school. 10 years ago, it was arguably one of the more academically-focused admissions processes out there. have they changed the curriculum as well? Is the attrition rate higher?
Curriculum changed in 2019 to a systems based approach. Our classes for each system are anywhere from 2-3 weeks for the first year and 3-4 weeks for the second year. I don’t think the curriculum is overall the issue, but a change right as Covid happened didn’t help.

For the last couple years MSU has “looked” at gpa past a cumulative of a 3.0. They are getting stricter in now it’s both cumulative and science that need to be 3.0, and all prerequisites must be complete.

I don’t know our attrition rate, but MSU does everything in their power to keep people in the program with our remediation process and repeating of years if necessary.
 
No matter how baseless, a board complaint or lawsuit still feels absolutely terrible
Multiple of us got a complaint with this case even. I got an extension because of baby vacay and adoption proceedings. But still only an extra two weeks. Was not a fan of getting this notice 🙄
 
Curriculum changed in 2019 to a systems based approach. Our classes for each system are anywhere from 2-3 weeks for the first year and 3-4 weeks for the second year. I don’t think the curriculum is overall the issue, but a change right as Covid happened didn’t help.

For the last couple years MSU has “looked” at gpa past a cumulative of a 3.0. They are getting stricter in now it’s both cumulative and science that need to be 3.0, and all prerequisites must be complete.

I don’t know our attrition rate, but MSU does everything in their power to keep people in the program with our remediation process and repeating of years if necessary.
Interesting, that's very different from how it was 10 years ago. A first pass rate of 50% (or less) is pretty bad...like, it might warrant a visit from the AVMA, unless enough students are passing on their second try in April to allow the school to squeak by with that 80% minimum pass rate for the class. I think overall, pass rates are dropping for multiple schools though, not just MSU. I've known several rotating interns who had to leave our program a few weeks in after getting their failing score from the April NAVLE, and am hearing more and more anecdotes about individuals on their 3rd, 4th, 5th, try. Knew someone who finally passed after his 6th try, although in that case, that was no one's fault but his own...

If it's any help, I can't say the curriculum at U of I (at the time) did much for me when it came to NAVLE stuff, and we also had a major curriculum overhaul shortly before my class started. Maybe I looked back on a few concepts to remind myself of things, but VetPrep did me wonders and was my sole way of studying.
 
Interesting, that's very different from how it was 10 years ago. A first pass rate of 50% (or less) is pretty bad...like, it might warrant a visit from the AVMA, unless enough students are passing on their second try in April to allow the school to squeak by with that 80% minimum pass rate for the class. I think overall, pass rates are dropping for multiple schools though, not just MSU. I've known several rotating interns who had to leave our program a few weeks in after getting their failing score from the April NAVLE, and am hearing more and more anecdotes about individuals on their 3rd, 4th, 5th, try. Knew someone who finally passed after his 6th try, although in that case, that was no one's fault but his own...

If it's any help, I can't say the curriculum at U of I (at the time) did much for me when it came to NAVLE stuff, and we also had a major curriculum overhaul shortly before my class started. Maybe I looked back on a few concepts to remind myself of things, but VetPrep did me wonders and was my sole way of studying.
I’ve talked to some more upperclassmen and they are in agreement that COVID didn’t help and that people just aren’t studying for the NAVLE.
 
I’ve talked to some more upperclassmen and they are in agreement that COVID didn’t help and that people just aren’t studying for the NAVLE.
I hated COVID-times just as much as anyone, but not sure how it plays a role in failing a test that you study for on your own time. Maybe someone can enlighten me.
 
I hated COVID-times just as much as anyone, but not sure how it plays a role in failing a test that you study for on your own time. Maybe someone can enlighten me.
For MSU, the Covid years for 2024 were their first two years of schooling. So they learned everything online, no labs, no in person. The first time they came back was for junior surgery. So they never developed study skills really
 
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For MSU, the Covid years for 2024 were their first two years of schooling. So they learned everything online, no labs, no in person. The first time they came back was for junior surgery. So they never developed study skills
Ehhh...COVID had nothing to do with that. Hopefully the next class will get it together and actually prep. The only class that I can understand having issues with in a pandemic would be anatomy lab. Any lecture-style class can be done fully online - that's why you only see some of your classmates on exam days and they do just fine.

Just completing VetPrep with some intention behind it (not mindlessly guessing) makes your chances of passing the NAVLE on your first try pretty high. That's why the pass rates are usually in the mid to high 90s. Try not to worry too much - it is a marathon of a test, but have faith in the programs that thousands upon thousands of us have successfully used to prep. Also, as someone who was below average/struggled during school, I found the NAVLE questions much more practical than what you'd expect on a vet school exam. I don't want to say they are 'easier,' but the NAVLE isn't trying to trip you up in the way that vet school exam questions are (in my experience). You either know the answer or you don't, there isn't room for debating yourself based on one single word in the question or answer. If that makes sense.
 
Had to put down my family dog last night. It was definitely his time since he was an old man and declining for a while. He’s been with me for a majority of my life; it’s strange that he’s gone. I feel really bad for my mom since she’s living in the house all by herself now. Realistically, my daily life doesn’t change at all since he didn’t live with me during school. It still feels weird and sad though. I start crying randomly. I have to meet with my anatomy lab group soon if I start tearing up I’ll say it’s the formaldehyde.
 
Had to put down my family dog last night. It was definitely his time since he was an old man and declining for a while. He’s been with me for a majority of my life; it’s strange that he’s gone. I feel really bad for my mom since she’s living in the house all by herself now. Realistically, my daily life doesn’t change at all since he didn’t live with me during school. It still feels weird and sad though. I start crying randomly. I have to meet with my anatomy lab group soon if I start tearing up I’ll say it’s the formaldehyde.
This was me too when my family dog's time finally came, she didn't live with me but omg was I more of a mess than I realized for a while. For like the first 2-3 weeks after I just would randomly burst into tears, someone would look at me wrong and I'd fall apart, and then for months after if I even thought about her or something came up that reminded me of her I'd start crying like a knee jerk reaction. Just wanted to say you are not alone and I completely understand those feelings. It was so hard to say goodbye and come to terms with never seeing them again. ♥️ Sending you lots of love and I'm so sorry.
 
This was me too when my family dog's time finally came, she didn't live with me but omg was I more of a mess than I realized for a while. For like the first 2-3 weeks after I just would randomly burst into tears, someone would look at me wrong and I'd fall apart, and then for months after if I even thought about her or something came up that reminded me of her I'd start crying like a knee jerk reaction. Just wanted to say you are not alone and I completely understand those feelings. It was so hard to say goodbye and come to terms with never seeing them again. ♥️ Sending you lots of love and I'm so sorry.
Thank you ❤️ sorry to hear about your dog. No matter how much preparation there is before it’s still so hard when it happens
 
UF's prerequisite form that gives you 2 millimeters of space to hand write out all those courses and colleges is my actually arch nemesis. okay bye
 
anyone else a transgender applicant? with everything in the political climate I have to highly look into every school and state to ensure I’ll be safe there. it really sucks and limits my list to ones that are less in my range :/ just wondering if anyone else is feeling this rn
I’m nonbinary and bisexual. I live in Florida, where much of the anti-lgbt legislation is originating. UF and Gainesville are a very blue area, isolated from much of the conservative policies. A lot of polling information in the state regardless is suggesting a massive swing away from trumpism and republicans as whole. In many major cities like tampa and jacksonville, republicans are losing seats across the board. Most of the moms for liberty group (the main pushers of harmful stereotypes that gays groom children) lost their seats across the state.

Most cities where vet schools are located in other red states seem to also be in relatively safe cities for people like us, but given how mainstream homophobia and transphobia are I can’t guarantee you wont face these things regardless of where you go 🙁
 
The only way to respond to passive aggression from others is to react with active aggression.

We both can write strongly worded emails, mine just will be more productive
 
Popped my tire on a stupid giant curb during a downpour this afternoon 😑 hopefully the rim is fine and hopefully the shop that usually sees my car can get it fixed asap🤞🏼thankfully was right down the street from there when it happened so I’ve abandoned my car in their parking lot for the night 🥲
 
Hopping on the complaining about cars train. It was recommended to me that my car likely won't make it through school and now would be the time to get a new one. Used cars are equally as expensive as new ones, interest rates suck, and I'm already working to try to minimize loans, only to have to take out a new loan that needs to be paid back ASAP. I am so, so grateful that I have the flexibility to make it work, but that's not what I wanted to spend my loan money or income on.

Note to others and to future self: research dependability and known issues better before buying a car.

Cars suck.
 
Also need to take my newer to me car in for maintenance, after taking it in last week. Tbf, they could have done it same day if I'd scheduled earlier. Good excuse to go to the Farmers market at least.

I also understand on tires. Car is electric, and they require special tires. It's a torque and weight thing I guess.
 
Going on 24 hours without power, being told it may be off until Monday. Most people have no power, also meaning no AC in Florida where it’s usually 80-90 degrees. Fridge is ruined. Many people sustained damage to their housing and vehicles. Traffic lights out and accidents everywhere. Of course I couldn’t leave town bc the school decided to tell us 2 hours before the storm hit we didn’t have to come in today but we’re not allowed to leave town. F hurricanes.
Update: they estimated we could be without power for 4 days
Update 2: the vet school is graciously making us come in on the weekend 😍
 
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I know it's not thaaaat bad (sorry to everyone who got hit by the hurricane) but I am really dreading my first physics exam tonight. 4 exams for my classes this week in total and this is only my second so far. I'm feeling like I overfaced myself this semester and hoping I don't totally fail this exam. Sigh. So, the best remedy to mitigate the stress is to clearly go online and complain instead of trying to review notes.... Smart choices all around for me today.
 
I know it's not thaaaat bad (sorry to everyone who got hit by the hurricane) but I am really dreading my first physics exam tonight. 4 exams for my classes this week in total and this is only my second so far. I'm feeling like I overfaced myself this semester and hoping I don't totally fail this exam. Sigh. So, the best remedy to mitigate the stress is to clearly go online and complain instead of trying to review notes.... Smart choices all around for me today.
To be fair I’d rather endure another hurricane than face physics ever again. I also have power/AC again so yay!
 
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