Thank you cards--- paranoia

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benjiF

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I sent thank you cards to everyone I interviewed with. I haven't gotten many replies- is that normal? I interviewed with one program director that gave me really good feedback, even told me that he was going to rank me high, I sent a card and nothing... am I just being paranoid?
 
did you send them by email or snail mail? Either way, DO NOT WORRY! just imagine how many thank you cards these folks receive daily...no way they can respond to all of them! I never got any responses to my thank you cards--- but know that they were received as my pd went through my file during a mid year eval and it was there! there's no thank you card for a thank you card! Relax, you're fine. 🙂
 
I sent thank you cards to everyone I interviewed with. I haven't gotten many replies- is that normal? I interviewed with one program director that gave me really good feedback, even told me that he was going to rank me high, I sent a card and nothing... am I just being paranoid?
I wouldn't worry too much about the lack of correspondence. Some programs don't send the perfunctory "We really liked you..." emails. My advice is to rank the programs as you wish, even if you haven't had subsequent correspondence. If you match at a program, that means that they ranked you high enough to "match" there, even if you weren't at the top of their list. But make sure to rank all of the programs at which you interviewed unless your impressions were so negative that you would rather take a chance with the scramble than to match at that program. Of the students I have known who didn't match, most had cut a gaping hole in their safety net and didn't rank enough programs.
 
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I sent thank you cards to everyone I interviewed with. I haven't gotten many replies- is that normal? I interviewed with one program director that gave me really good feedback, even told me that he was going to rank me high, I sent a card and nothing... am I just being paranoid?

Agree with the others! Getting a thank you for a thank you card would be odd...esp since they're expected. Go with you gut and rank as you would like. 🙂