so this is totally weird, and 100% contradictory to what she said in her email reply to me (see my previous post), but... umm.. I just got offered admission!!!
Over an email sent several hours ago, not by phone call.
I'm reeling...
The waitlist IS moving, there are many spots left, so keep your hopes up, and be sure to make sure the adcom knows exactly how interested you are in UCSD. I'm starting to think sending an email expressing my strong interest in them really made a difference. Best of luck everyone, I want to see you all there next year!!