Hi everyone,
I know this is a long one, but I couldnt resist posting when I saw the subject of free/fun time come upthis, too was a very important concern I had while eagerly waiting for dental school to start. I am unfortunately (sigh!) not one of those students who learns things very easily. Though, damn. I have wished and ACHED for that every waking second these past months. You will find that some classmates have taken some of the lecture courses before in their undergrad, and they are truly blessed. A lot of people in my class also have a dentist in the fam. This is also a great blessing. More time for a more reassuring, balanced life. There is a range we all fall within:
1. Those who ace lecture AND lab.
2. Those who ace lecture and are hurting in lab.
3. Those who arent so hot in lecture classes, but totally rock in lab.
4. Those who feel like they are getting the shaft in BOTH lecture and lab.
I fall in category 4. Plus, no dentist in the fam. Im the trailblazer, I guess. Chances are, some of you are reading this and saying to yourself well, boo-hoo for her. But that is NOT gonna be me! and I sincerely hope you dont have do go through any of this either. When I realized I was a 4 it was very, very painful for me. I felt like the dumbest person in dental school. Noone could make it better, and people (professors and classmates) just couldnt understand why I was (and still am) soooo slow at everything. Its a very lonely place to be.
Speed is certainly of the essence here with 8-9 classes a quarter. And quarter systemneed I SAY more? I thought I was prepared for the worst before dental school started, but evidently I wasnt prepared enough for it. I dont get to go out on fun school trips, I study during lunch, I dont get a chance to enjoy Westwood, and I see very little of my loved ones. And when I actually found the time to go see a moviewhich I hadnt done in ages, it seems, I go and see Million Dollar Baby, which made me so sad, i wanted to go jump into the nearest trash can.
The reason I write this is NOT to depress you all, because its really important to stay excited and proud about being a dental Bruin. Yay! 😀 I know I still am, believe it or not. I am writing this because its also important to be ready for ANYTHING. We each have our own take on what dental school is like. Some of us will have more time for fun than others. Some of us will find the material less difficult than others. But youve been accepted because the school knows that you are capable. What I lack so much in book smarts and lab skills, I manage to make up for with patience, stubbornness, and a huge sense of humorto laugh at myself, and the yucky predicaments I seem to always find myself in.
Sometimes you might feel all alone in this thing, like it all is just looming over you, and its 3 in the morning. To this, a second year told me, But just remember that you are a BRUIN. And that sure dont mean ur dumb. The social scene is really fun and nice to be in on, but hey, I came here to be a dentist, first and foremost. Thats where my moneys going. The valued friends I make and have made will always be a very nice bonus. But it sure isnt high school anymore, and you may find that being the toast of the party isnt always the be-all and end-all like it used to be. At least this is what I learned after a crash-course in it the first few weeks. So, heaven forbid, if you do find yourself in a predicament such as mine, (being a 4), rest assured that you will have plenty of in-class interaction with your fellow classmates in the next four yearsjust be there for one another, and try to put each other first as much as you can. Look out for and help one another and try to make sure no one is getting left behind. Keep your integrity intact and dont welsh on your word. This is the mark of a professional, and the mark of a successful class and team. Your loyalty to each other as a class (none of that being sweet to someones face, but trash-talking behind their back) relates directly to how well you will do. Everyones always on their best behavior in the beginning, but the gloves have a sad tendency of coming off as school unfolds. Do your best not let this happen at all costs. Its a wild ride, but not a day has gone by that I havent dragged myself back home and felt amazed by how much I managed to learn/ be exposed to in one day.
A sincere congratulations to all of you, as well as to our newest arrival, LSN, and may this adventure you face make becoming a dentist one day that much more precious to you!
Be well, all. 🙂
Sincerely, Sujain