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@OP - the best advice I can give you is to walk away for 2 months, or longer. Your bitterness/anger isn't going to serve you well on here (or in life) as your *notice* to other non-trads is based solely on your lack of IIs.
You talked about how to be happy when rejected, and how that doesn't come easily. @jonnythan said, an appropriate post is "Help me figure out what is wrong with my app so I can fix it" rather than humble-boast your stats. That alone comes off as arrogant and no one here (especially) has a high tolerance for it.
As for rejection, give me an hour and I can tell you about my life. Never once, through the darkest of days and the cave-dwelling years, however, was I not grateful. Grateful for all the good things that happen because there are many. Grateful that I wake up healthy instead of like my friend with Stage IV ovarian at 43 with spots in lungs, abdomen, and brain. Grateful that I DO have a career to fall back on if I should get rejected forever from medical school. Grateful that my son survived/thrived teenage years and is now a premed too. Grateful I got to spend another 10 years with my dad (and still do!) when I thought he was dead. Grateful... by focusing on that, the rejection still stings, just a little less and eventually, I pick myself up by the bootstraps and trek onward.
Happiness IS a choice. How you choose to deal with rejection indicates a lot about the character of someone. Focus on grace/gratitude and rejection/hurt is lessened.
So... now what are you going to do? Throw away a few years worth of tuition and MCAT prep and MCAT fees and AMCAS fees and time to say.. what exactly? You gave up?
Really? I mean, Really?!
You talked about how to be happy when rejected, and how that doesn't come easily. @jonnythan said, an appropriate post is "Help me figure out what is wrong with my app so I can fix it" rather than humble-boast your stats. That alone comes off as arrogant and no one here (especially) has a high tolerance for it.
As for rejection, give me an hour and I can tell you about my life. Never once, through the darkest of days and the cave-dwelling years, however, was I not grateful. Grateful for all the good things that happen because there are many. Grateful that I wake up healthy instead of like my friend with Stage IV ovarian at 43 with spots in lungs, abdomen, and brain. Grateful that I DO have a career to fall back on if I should get rejected forever from medical school. Grateful that my son survived/thrived teenage years and is now a premed too. Grateful I got to spend another 10 years with my dad (and still do!) when I thought he was dead. Grateful... by focusing on that, the rejection still stings, just a little less and eventually, I pick myself up by the bootstraps and trek onward.
Happiness IS a choice. How you choose to deal with rejection indicates a lot about the character of someone. Focus on grace/gratitude and rejection/hurt is lessened.
So... now what are you going to do? Throw away a few years worth of tuition and MCAT prep and MCAT fees and AMCAS fees and time to say.. what exactly? You gave up?
Really? I mean, Really?!