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Would you pick a specialty based on having more time with your husband/wife/bf/gf/kids (even pets!)?
Would you pick a specialty based on having more time with your husband/wife/bf/gf/kids (even pets!)?
Would you pick a specialty based on having more time with your husband/wife/bf/gf/kids (even pets!)?
not solely but it's an important consideration. I changed my mind a lot during med school and ultimately decided on rads but lifestyle friendly specialties like anesthesia, optho, and psych were never considered so interest played a large role as well.
I think specialty choice is all about finding balance. As my advisor put it, "it is not a gut feeling, it is practical choice made by weighing a lot of different variables." You need to look practically at what you want out of life (i.e. both in and outside your career). I made a list with him about important priorities and things I wanted to accomplish with my career and with my social life. As a surgeon, he immediately told me to probably not consider surgical specialties even if I found them interesting. I wouldn't be able to handle the hours and commitment and I might be happier doing something that provided more free time and flexibility. Happy doctors are good doctors as you can serve yourself and your patients better if you find the specialty that fulfills both your intellectual side as well as serving the life you want outside of medicine.
Though one can argue medicine is much different than other careers (and it is), I view a career as something that supports my life outside of it. It's meant to keep me busy, productive, contributing to society, engaged, but ultimately friends, relationships, and loved ones are the things that ultimately matter. Start thinking about this now (and not later). I think the biggest problem is in medicine is this mentality of "my life sucks now, but it will get better." Always make sure you're as happy as you can be in the now. Seeking the balance from the get-go will keep you sane and help avoid burn out down the road. It's never too early to start.
Would you pick a specialty based on having more time with your husband/wife/bf/gf/kids (even pets!)?
I think the biggest problem is in medicine is this mentality of "my life sucks now, but it will get better." Always make sure you're as happy as you can be in the now. Seeking the balance from the get-go will keep you sane and help avoid burn out down the road. It's never too early to start.
Yes. I thought everyone does that. Lifestyle is very important. I plan to work 45hours/week MAXIMUM when i am a doctor, hopefully just 36-40hours a week as i become a more senior physician. thus my specialty and residency choices are based on that.
Life is not just about career. My life outside of work is important. Time to date, hang out, spend time with kids.
I think specialty choice is all about finding balance. As my advisor put it, "it is not a gut feeling, it is practical choice made by weighing a lot of different variables." You need to look practically at what you want out of life (i.e. both in and outside your career). I made a list with him about important priorities and things I wanted to accomplish with my career and with my social life. As a surgeon, he immediately told me to probably not consider surgical specialties even if I found them interesting. I wouldn't be able to handle the hours and commitment and I might be happier doing something that provided more free time and flexibility. Happy doctors are good doctors as you can serve yourself and your patients better if you find the specialty that fulfills both your intellectual side as well as serving the life you want outside of medicine.
Though one can argue medicine is much different than other careers (and it is), I view a career as something that supports my life outside of it. It's meant to keep me busy, productive, contributing to society, engaged, but ultimately friends, relationships, and loved ones are the things that ultimately matter. Start thinking about this now (and not later). I think the biggest problem is in medicine is this mentality of "my life sucks now, but it will get better." Always make sure you're as happy as you can be in the now. Seeking the balance from the get-go will keep you sane and help avoid burn out down the road. It's never too early to start.
Well I don't plan on having a family, so no.
I think specialty choice is all about finding balance. As my advisor put it, "it is not a gut feeling, it is practical choice made by weighing a lot of different variables." You need to look practically at what you want out of life (i.e. both in and outside your career). I made a list with him about important priorities and things I wanted to accomplish with my career and with my social life. As a surgeon, he immediately told me to probably not consider surgical specialties even if I found them interesting. I wouldn't be able to handle the hours and commitment and I might be happier doing something that provided more free time and flexibility. Happy doctors are good doctors as you can serve yourself and your patients better if you find the specialty that fulfills both your intellectual side as well as serving the life you want outside of medicine.
Though one can argue medicine is much different than other careers (and it is), I view a career as something that supports my life outside of it. It's meant to keep me busy, productive, contributing to society, engaged, but ultimately friends, relationships, and loved ones are the things that ultimately matter. Start thinking about this now (and not later). I think the biggest problem is in medicine is this mentality of "my life sucks now, but it will get better." Always make sure you're as happy as you can be in the now. Seeking the balance from the get-go will keep you sane and help avoid burn out down the road. It's never too early to start.
I don't know about you guys but I want to be a top surgeon, the best I can be. I don't have a girlfriend or significant other and family is important to me but I think my career comes first at this point.. maybe im in the minority on this one.. im only 23 years old and I casually date but thats just me.. I get bored pretty easily too and always like to be busy, im not one to just sit around and "relax." Maybe things will change, maybe they won't but thats what I'm thinking right now
This is why I am reflecting on what I want to do carefully. I have to admit, I have been pondering doing Clinical Pathology for a while now. Not only because of the lifestyle, because something like Clinical Microbiology interest me. My only concern is that I ask my self if I will regret forgoing patient contact for this specialty. That is what I am pondering right now. I am starting my MBA year of my MD/MBA degree, so I have sometime to weigh in the pros/cons.
I don't know about you guys but I want to be a top surgeon, the best I can be. I don't have a girlfriend or significant other and family is important to me but I think my career comes first at this point.. maybe im in the minority on this one.. im only 23 years old and I casually date but thats just me.. I get bored pretty easily too and always like to be busy, im not one to just sit around and "relax." Maybe things will change, maybe they won't but thats what I'm thinking right now
Yeah good luck with that - I thought I'd be a kickass surgeon until I entered 3rd year and realized that I like my sleep too much.
Someone has to do it. . . just saying.
Maybe I will feel the same as you when I'm in third year, but maybe I won't. All I know is there are different categories of medical students with different political views as well as views on relationships etc. There are people my age that are in long term relationships engaged, engaged to be engaged, married etc. Its a different situation for them then it is for me and I look at them and think "wtf r they thinking so serious so young." Different strokes for different folks..
How could someone not want a family? What a lonely, miserable existence that would be. I'm not even talking about children, because I have none and can't speak from experience, but about having a significant other to share your life with.
Not family life but personal life. What person would want to work 100 hours a week for most of their career, family or no family?
Yes. I thought everyone does that. Lifestyle is very important. I plan to work 45hours/week MAXIMUM when i am a doctor, hopefully just 36-40hours a week as i become a more senior physician. thus my specialty and residency choices are based on that.
Life is not just about career. My life outside of work is important. Time to date, hang out, spend time with kids.