Haha *Mother; I am flattered.
I know exactly how you feel. To be completely fair, I finally got into school about a month ago. But, when I hadn't been admitted, I was studying for the MCAT again, writing my personal statement again, and applying for jobs again. You are right in that we aren't giving up hope when we do that... but we are attempting to put our frustrations into something productive and realistic.
At that point, I hadn't given up hope... but I was fully prepared to take (yet another) year off and had a super positive attitude about applying this time around; getting into medical school this year would just be the cherry on top of it all. (But if it didn't happen, it wouldn't be the end of the world). This year, you all will be more qualified, more worldly, be more well-versed in the application process compared to EVERYONE ELSE who is applying for the first time. You will have that edge... and perhaps that is why others had a leg-up on YOU the first (or even second time) around. Now, the power of historical perspective is in your hands. As dramatic as that sounds, it is true. Use the knowledge to your advantage... and you guys will kick butt this time around.