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This is it, preparing now for my last interview!! I hope you're all hanging in there, we've got this.
Coping: binging Leah Remini's Scientology tv show, going to the gym
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We're almost there ya'll! How is everyone coping with the impending UND? My supervisor was kind enough to let me stay home that day so at least I can be in my pjs....with donuts ..or other unhealthy coping strategies LOL
Are any of you planning to negotiate the postdoc salary? if so, any tips would be appreciated! Thank you!
I hope time goes quickly for everyone else who is still in the process- the wait is almost over, and you'll all get amazing sites!!!
Time to celebrate!! Break out the champagne and/or water and/or carrot juice!!! (loopy from lack of sleep)My last one is tomorrow! I hope we’ve all been staying (relatively) sane 🙂
There's an FAQ page on the APPA-CAS website devoted to this I think, but I probably would not even mention the other site. I would probably thank them, tell them I am very interested and would like some time to think about it, and can I "hold" the offer, then I would contact the other site immediately to see if they can give a counter-offer.Last interview coming up, cannot wait for this last string of interview traveling to be over with! I have a quick question: How do you plan on letting a site know that about contacting another site before potentially accepting their offer during the "match" day?
Logistical question: Once we accept an offer on the UND, I know the guidelines say we're then supposed to contact the remaining sites on our list immediately and let them know we've accepted an offer. Does that mean we should have a list of phone numbers and contact each TD that day? That just seems crazy to me since they'll probably be on the phone themselves.
Should one receive an out-of-match, not-top-choice offer prior to Match Day... What is preferred method of communication-- email or phone call to your top site to ask about your standing/ranking?
I have received a few emails from sites I interviewed at stating that I either am still in consideration for a position/will be ranked for an offer, or am no longer in consideration for a position. Are these emails typical? Just wondering if I should be expecting these from other sites as well.
I’ve heard they areI have received a few emails from sites I interviewed at stating that I either am still in consideration for a position/will be ranked for an offer, or am no longer in consideration for a position. Are these emails typical? Just wondering if I should be expecting these from other sites as well.
Anyone have any good scripts/ideas on what to say to hold an offer on UND if it comes to that? Struggling with this for some reason lol
Anyone have any good scripts/ideas on what to say to hold an offer on UND if it comes to that? Struggling with this for some reason lol
I said something pretty similar, and made sure to express a lot of excitement and appreciation. I also threw in some validation a la "I'm sure this is a busy and hectic time and that you all are eager to have things settled, so I really appreciate you being so understanding to allow me to think things over." I'm guessing that sites that adhere to or at least know of UND probably get that this is a stressful time and understand that people will probably be juggling multiple offers, which made me feel a little better asking to have some time.I just recently held an offer from a non-UND site (but later decided to accept it), and I said something along the lines of "Thank you so much. I am very interested in your site, but I'd like to briefly hold the offer to consider other options. How long is it okay with you for me to hold the offer?"
Perhaps a slightly different process b/c it wasn't on UND, but this seemed to go over well.
Same - I got my offer in person, and told them I was so thrilled, and then asked politely when they needed me to give a final answer by, and they were totally ready for that question and had an answer in mind. And, they were super understanding about being like, "You don't need tell us right now! Take some time, think about it." They all know how the game is played.I said something pretty similar, and made sure to express a lot of excitement and appreciation. I also threw in some validation a la "I'm sure this is a busy and hectic time and that you all are eager to have things settled, so I really appreciate you being so understanding to allow me to think things over." I'm guessing that sites that adhere to or at least know of UND probably get that this is a stressful time and understand that people will probably be juggling multiple offers, which made me feel a little better asking to have some time.
I am having a very hard time ranking sites. My top choice has everything that I want, but my 2nd and 3rd options are not so clear-cut. Anyway, my 2nd option is only giving 30 minutes to hold an offer. Is this something you would inform your top choice of in advance of UND? Because then I would need to know immediately where I stand and will need to get ahold of them for a reciprocal offer. Or I could just wait until UND and hope they get back to me immediately and everything goes smoothly...…
Coping: ruminating, catastrophizing, eating Subway sandwiches
Edit: Also, I didn't know it was a thing that we could consider letting them know that they're our top choice! Would love to hear responses on earlier questions re: this...
I have received a few emails from sites I interviewed at stating that I either am still in consideration for a position/will be ranked for an offer, or am no longer in consideration for a position. Are these emails typical? Just wondering if I should be expecting these from other sites as well.
I have been having these CRAZY dreams where I get emails from the site directors offering me positions or saying nope sorry. These dreams are so real that I wake up and have to check my email to remind myself that I’m not going to hear anything before the 25th! This is brutal! Lol



30 minutes to hold an offer is a bit rushed. I thought the norm was 24 hours. This is the part of post doc that I did not like. I actually preferred the more standardized match of internship.
Also, not NP here, so rules may differ, but two years ago you could absolutely tell a site they were your top choice. I am a detailed rule follower, so I know this was the case. I let my top site know by saying some almost identical to, "You are my top site." Their response was, "You are ranked very high on our list." Rules may have changed in the past two years, so take my experience with caution.
I just accepted an offer!!!!! Has anyone written an email to sites telling them "I'm taken!" and if so, what did you write?? I'm sure it's an easy - thanks for your consideration but I've taken this other offer, but I'd value any special words. I really love the site from which I'm about to withdraw, and would like to keep option of future employment open. Thoughts???
Congrats! I do not have any wise words for you, but what you have there (gracious, thanking them for their consideration) is probably perfect.
I hope I can feel the relief you’re feeling tomorrow! Good luck to everyone else who, like me, is still waiting
I'm still playing the waiting game. Two sites to hear from tomorrow and I'm currently trying to get work done while also contemplating if I'm willing to train at both sties (only one of the two is a really good fit) or if I want to wait and see what unfilled positions there are.
It’s 4 hrs for holding on UND.
Quick APPCN question: Let's say an out of match offer is my 3rd choice, and my 1st and 2nd choice are in the match. It is ok for me to contact both the 1st and 2nd choice programs, correct? My adviser encouraged me to do this, but now I worry that my emailing 2nd choice will be construed as saying they are my 1st choice, and they will be upset it I do not match there.
EDIT: I now am assume this is for the neuro match process so my comment is probably irrelevant!
I have heard that when contacting higher ranked sites for a reciprocal offer you are obligated to accept if you are given a reciprocal offer. So I think you should contact #1 first and if they can’t offer yet, contact #2 if you’re willing to accept said offer on the spot. That’s just my understanding of the rules.
If it were me, I would call the 1st choice first and see if I could get an answer on the spot about a reciprocal offer. If they can't provide an offer, only then would I call the 2nd choice. However, I am also willing to do this because my top choice sites let us know that they will be immediately available during UND to negotiate offers.Quick APPCN question: Let's say an out of match offer is my 3rd choice, and my 1st and 2nd choice are in the match. It is ok for me to contact both the 1st and 2nd choice programs, correct? My adviser encouraged me to do this, but now I worry that my emailing 2nd choice will be construed as saying they are my 1st choice, and they will be upset it I do not match there.