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Hi guys- I appreciate any response that you might have to give. I am kind of in a hard spot right now and am really looking for some advice from people I don’t know.
My boyfriend and I are both applying this cycle. My stats are better than his, meaning I have a better chance at MD schools than he does. I am sitting with my first mcat at 503 and my second at 507 with a cGPA of 3.82 and a sGPA of 3.8 in Biomedical Engineering. He has a lower gpa with a mcat around 500. We have been dating for 6 years at this point and have been friends for about 13. This is a guy who I love, and do see myself marrying.
Where it gets difficult is, we talked, and I am pretty much in a position where I have to decide between our relationship or going to different schools. Basically, if I don’t commit and say that if we get into the same school, we will both go there, then our relationship is over.
He is applying mainly DO, and I am also applying to the schools he is, but likely, if we got into the same school, it would be a DO school about 3 hours away from home. So now it’s really more of, do I want to stay in a relationship and go to a DO school together, or do I want to split up and have options at MD schools?
Has anyone been in this situation or have advice? I’m interested in pediatrics or obgyn, but that is subject to change.
Hi guys- I appreciate any response that you might have to give. I am kind of in a hard spot right now and am really looking for some advice from people I don’t know.
My boyfriend and I are both applying this cycle. My stats are better than his, meaning I have a better chance at MD schools than he does. I am sitting with my first mcat at 503 and my second at 507 with a cGPA of 3.82 and a sGPA of 3.8 in Biomedical Engineering. He has a lower gpa with a mcat around 500. We have been dating for 6 years at this point and have been friends for about 13. This is a guy who I love, and do see myself marrying.
Where it gets difficult is, we talked, and I am pretty much in a position where I have to decide between our relationship or going to different schools. Basically, if I don’t commit and say that if we get into the same school, we will both go there, then our relationship is over.
He is applying mainly DO, and I am also applying to the schools he is, but likely, if we got into the same school, it would be a DO school about 3 hours away from home. So now it’s really more of, do I want to stay in a relationship and go to a DO school together, or do I want to split up and have options at MD schools?
Has anyone been in this situation or have advice? I’m interested in pediatrics or obgyn, but that is subject to change.
Just curious, how did things turn out that cycle? If you prefer, you can PM a response.When I applied with my SO we just tried to do MD and DO schools near to each other because her stats were so much better than mine.
Just curious, how did things turn out that cycle? If you prefer, you can PM a response.
Hi guys- I appreciate any response that you might have to give. I am kind of in a hard spot right now and am really looking for some advice from people I don’t know.
My boyfriend and I are both applying this cycle. My stats are better than his, meaning I have a better chance at MD schools than he does. I am sitting with my first mcat at 503 and my second at 507 with a cGPA of 3.82 and a sGPA of 3.8 in Biomedical Engineering. He has a lower gpa with a mcat around 500. We have been dating for 6 years at this point and have been friends for about 13. This is a guy who I love, and do see myself marrying.
Where it gets difficult is, we talked, and I am pretty much in a position where I have to decide between our relationship or going to different schools. Basically, if I don’t commit and say that if we get into the same school, we will both go there, then our relationship is over.
He is applying mainly DO, and I am also applying to the schools he is, but likely, if we got into the same school, it would be a DO school about 3 hours away from home. So now it’s really more of, do I want to stay in a relationship and go to a DO school together, or do I want to split up and have options at MD schools?
Has anyone been in this situation or have advice? I’m interested in pediatrics or obgyn, but that is subject to change.
Hi guys- I appreciate any response that you might have to give. I am kind of in a hard spot right now and am really looking for some advice from people I don’t know.
My boyfriend and I are both applying this cycle. My stats are better than his, meaning I have a better chance at MD schools than he does. I am sitting with my first mcat at 503 and my second at 507 with a cGPA of 3.82 and a sGPA of 3.8 in Biomedical Engineering. He has a lower gpa with a mcat around 500. We have been dating for 6 years at this point and have been friends for about 13. This is a guy who I love, and do see myself marrying.
Where it gets difficult is, we talked, and I am pretty much in a position where I have to decide between our relationship or going to different schools. Basically, if I don’t commit and say that if we get into the same school, we will both go there, then our relationship is over.
He is applying mainly DO, and I am also applying to the schools he is, but likely, if we got into the same school, it would be a DO school about 3 hours away from home. So now it’s really more of, do I want to stay in a relationship and go to a DO school together, or do I want to split up and have options at MD schools?
Has anyone been in this situation or have advice? I’m interested in pediatrics or obgyn, but that is subject to change.
I’m sorry but if someone says to me: you do this or else, I’ll be like what’s up else.
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Hi guys- I appreciate any response that you might have to give. I am kind of in a hard spot right now and am really looking for some advice from people I don’t know.
My boyfriend and I are both applying this cycle. My stats are better than his, meaning I have a better chance at MD schools than he does. I am sitting with my first mcat at 503 and my second at 507 with a cGPA of 3.82 and a sGPA of 3.8 in Biomedical Engineering. He has a lower gpa with a mcat around 500. We have been dating for 6 years at this point and have been friends for about 13. This is a guy who I love, and do see myself marrying.
Where it gets difficult is, we talked, and I am pretty much in a position where I have to decide between our relationship or going to different schools. Basically, if I don’t commit and say that if we get into the same school, we will both go there, then our relationship is over.
He is applying mainly DO, and I am also applying to the schools he is, but likely, if we got into the same school, it would be a DO school about 3 hours away from home. So now it’s really more of, do I want to stay in a relationship and go to a DO school together, or do I want to split up and have options at MD schools?
Has anyone been in this situation or have advice? I’m interested in pediatrics or obgyn, but that is subject to change.
We applied very broadly and whenever one person got an interview we’d emailed the admissions department and explain that we were applying together.
Ended up getting into several of the same schools with that strategy, and then a few others that were within a couple hours of each other.
We ended up choosing Miami, which is one of the only schools with actually has an established “couples application” system. All-in-all it went far better than I could have hoped.
Edit: to be fair we both did make sacrifices. She and I both had scholarships and offers from higher ranked schools that we turned down.
I am in a similar position. My SO and I of 6 years are applying this cycle and would like to get into the same schools. May I ask your stats and how receptive were the admission departments to your email? Is this considering if it was a reach as well?