Aright I'll school you a bit. The Art of seduction is based on perception and analysis. When entering a bar or social environment, you first analyze body language of those around you and check for individuals with open body language versus closed body language. Your own body language is very important so it should be open. A woman is well aware of every man that enters the room. You smile with your eyes and make eye contact with the various women in the room as you calmly work your way around the room. A woman who is interested in you will reciprocate eye contact, begin gabbing to a friend as she looks at you; point her legs in your direction, tug on jewelry, perk her breast in your direction or utilize various other forms of non verbal communication to convey her interest.
You smile at the women who show interest to show interest back or else they will think you are not interested. Once you have figured out who lives you, you then decide who you like and calmly make your way over to the woman. You want to avoid chatting up every woman in the room as it will convey to other women that you are just looking for sex and not actually interested in them before you even walk over (every woman wants to feel special). From here you carefully watch her body language and mimic her gestures to help create comfort quickly (a form of neuro-linguistic programming aka NLP); if she mimics things you say or do, it is also a sign that she is interested. You slowly enter her personal space and reciprocate any signs of interest; for example if she pats you on the arm, return the gesture; if she enters your personal space lean forward slightly. Check logistics (how did she arrive; is she with friends as this will determine if is possible that she can leave with you). Find the thing that she is passionate about and then let her talk about it (don't talk too much about yourself); You can even tease her about it using a reverse compliment which also allows you to qualify her (but never insult her or say anything negative. Your job is to guide the conversation; not to be the center of it).
You can ask her part way through the convo what she is doing later which translate in girl talk to "would you like to have sex"; Her response tells you how open she is to hooking up (at that specific time) and can help you to judge how quickly you should escalate. You should begin escalating through soft touching done teasingly which increases gradually. Finally, Seed something interesting that's back at your place or focus on something interesting at hers (it could be Disney figurines); This should be seeded part way through the convo and not at the end. Once you have decided that you like her, simply tell her you would like to see the interesting thing at her place or show her that interesting thing at your place (plausible deniability); take her by the hand and lead her out of the location; grab a cab or whatever your means of transportation. Enter location with female; be calm; be gentle, escalate quickly however you choose; simply act like a man and sex occurs. If you would like a relationship with her, you can remain in touch and after a few more encounters a relationship will form. If you don't want to have anything to do with her after, simply call her or text her the next day just see how she's doing (this is the gentleman's way of handling one night stands so the girl doesn't feel regretful afterwards, plus its the right thing to do). Rinse and repeat.
Above all else, whatever you believe is what you receive; if believe that you can sleep with that gorgeous girl eyeing you then you can (regardless if you do or don't). This is the reason why a guy will date a woman, and they will have sex once or twice and she comes across as shy; now take the same girl and put her with a confident guy and she's open to having sex in a bathroom. Many guys don't understand that their behavior directly guides a woman's inhibitions even if she is shy. If a woman is sexually comfortable with herself but you are not, then she won't have sex with you; instead she will feel someone that's comfortable expressing themselves and allowing her to express herself. The more you judge her, the less you get also the more you judge her, the more uncomfortable you will make her. A woman is constantly judging herself (supermodels are the worst), its your job as a man to reassure her and make her feel like the most special sexual creature in the entire world even if its for one night.
To answer your question, I don't sleep with a lot of women; I sleep with only the ones that have characteristics that I like but I don't insult or judge the one's I don't (some of them I make friends). You have to remember that all women are beautiful, unique and each one has their own story so they know something that you don't. You have to sincerely enjoy their company, kinda like a breathe of fresh air. If you have negative perceptions of women it will show in your interactions and you will spend most of your time alone with a sock. This concludes the lecture, class dismissed.
Rape is never okay, unless the woman wants it. And then always use safe words.
