Hey all - while I don't envy your position (I was there just a year ago), I did want to share something with yall - especially those of you who haven't heard a peep yet. (*Please keep in mind I'm not bragging, just trying to empathize with the stress yall are feeling right now).
Last year I applied to 14 programs (perhaps went a touch overboard with that one) and I didn't hear a single peep from ANY of them til the end of January. I ended up getting 9 interviews - the first one I was notified of on the 24th of Jan and the last one I was notified of on March 11. So...if you have not heard anything yet, try not to stress out too much (I would say don't stress out but I wouldn't have been able to do that last year no matter how many times people told me don't stress!). Some programs are very slow and will get to you in their time which can be incredibly frustrating.
Also, keep in mind the kind of schedules various programs have for interviewing/accepting/etc. Widener for example has several interview dates spanning about 3 months. I was told I got an interview with them on March 11 and by that point, some people that were in the very first interview batch had already been accepted! I analyzed this to no end (reading the posts from people who interviewed and got accepted at the very same place months earlier with no apparent discrepancy between us) - did it mean something (presumably bad) that I was in the very last interview batch? Did I have a worse chance of getting in because I was in the last batch? I went into way too much of a panic over it and overanalyzed EVERYTHING but I went to the very last interview and still got in, as did several other people in the same batch.
Anyway, it may seem hard if not impossible to stress out over everything or over analyze every single thing you hear about every program you applied to (I know I was pretty muchly in constant panic from December to April) just PLEASE try to help yourself out, do some self care - whatever it is (within reason of course 😛) that calms you down/takes your mind off this process even if only for a few minutes. Just because Program A offered an interview to SDN member ______ (or a non-SDNer) does not mean you are off their list or lower on their list.
I guess to sum up, try to relax, take a deep breath every once in a while, and, when needed, vent 🙂 In the mean time, good luck and remember to breathe 🙂