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eh as much as it hurts seeing others get in that you think don't deserve it/wish it was you, maybe this is that person's way of showing the world they made it/proved the haters wrong/that's how they want to share their accomplishments. We don't know everyone else's story so I can't say I am going to hate them/I hate when people do that. Everyone has their own ways!
It's not a matter of whether or not I think they deserve it...if you get into medical school, I'm sure you deserve it. And I freely admit that I am jealous of people who get in. But above all else, I just find it tasteless. To each their own, though.
 
I don't get jealous of other applicants who got an interview and/or acceptance. Good for them! When I see someone with lower numbers than mine getting ahead, it makes me question what they could have possibly done outside of academia that makes them more attractive. I guess for the next cycle I'll cure cancer to ensure my acceptance.:laugh:
 
I don't get jealous of other applicants who got an interview and/or acceptance. Good for them! When I see someone with lower numbers than mine getting ahead, it makes me question what they could have possibly done outside of academia that makes them more attractive. I guess for the next cycle I'll cure cancer to ensure my acceptance.:laugh:
Nah son you're gonna get in this time around.
 
It's not a matter of whether or not I think they deserve it...if you get into medical school, I'm sure you deserve it. And I freely admit that I am jealous of people who get in. But above all else, I just find it tasteless. To each their own, though.
Do you any particular reason for not liking people posting their med school acceptances to facebook, or is this an unabashedly irrational hatred?

I will say that facebook does create a false impression for people due to selection bias (only the best parts of people's lives/days are posted) so it can create a negative/toxic reaction for people by comparing the tedium of their life to the best part of other people's lives. With that said, I don't have anything against posting med school acceptances per se; in fact, I'm happy to see people get such good news. Idk, I guess I'm just confused why FB in particular annoys you--it seems like an arbitrary line. Talking about acceptances in person=ok (as long as not gloating, obviously); talking about acceptance through social media=not ok. I'm genuinely curious if you have a reason for drawing this line.

Full disclosure, I'm not applying in this current cycle.
 
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Do you any particular reason for not liking people posting their med school acceptances to facebook, or is this an unabashedly irrational hatred?

I will say that facebook does create a false impression for people due to selection bias (only the best parts of people's lives/days are posted) so it can create a negative/toxic reaction for people by comparing the tedium of their life to the best part of other people's lives. With that said, I don't have anything against posting med school acceptances per se; in fact, I'm happy to see people get such good news. Idk, I guess I'm just confused why FB in particular annoys you--it seems like an arbitrary line. Talking about acceptances in person=ok (as long as not gloating, obviously); talking about acceptance through social media=not ok. I'm genuinely curious if you have a reason for drawing this line.

Full disclosure, I'm not applying in this current cycle.
Everybody has their weird bugaboo, and this is mine. A part of it is just how I was raised and another big component is that I know tons and tons of people who are tremendously qualified for medical school, who aren't having any success at all in their applications. A good friend of mine literally has a 4.0 GPA and a 32 MCAT and hasn't gotten a single interview, for example. Telling people about this in person allows one to be attuned to different personal contexts, etc. Posting it on Facebook just seems too ostentatious for me. But to each their own.

And yes, some of it is definitely irrational on my part!
 
Thank you all for your kind words. I am at peace with whatever happens. As soon as I see that the email is here, I am going to go to my freshman dorm building, where this whole crazy ride began, and open it.

"All men dream, but not equally; those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes to make it possible."
 
Speaking of bragging, quick rant just because I want to get this off my chest. I so loathe people who brag about getting into medical school. I consider myself to be a pretty amicable guy, but this is the one thing that really drives me up the wall. Even before I realized how much I suck at applying, I told myself that if I get into medical school I would tell my family and close friends only. It's just too stressful and discouraging a process for people to brag about. This one girl that I work with has gotten about 47 acceptances and:
A) Posted it on Facebook (holy **** does that rub me the wrong way), and
B) Always tries to shoehorn her acceptances into every conversation.
I get it. You're a genius. Just go bask in your acceptances and leave me alone.

Oh god I hate this so much. I have a few facebook friends who posted when they got into our small state med school, which is chill because these are usually humble posts about how they're honored/surprised/grateful for the opportunity, etc.

But then there's this one girl who I went to high school with (although she's applying PhD, not MD) who posts EVERY TIME she goes on an interview (to facebook and instagram), gets an acceptance, and sometimes just for the heck of it, like posting a pic of our snowy campus with the caption "can't wait to get out of here for my interview at Stanford #futurephd"

She worms her success stories into everything, including raising her hand during class and asking what she should do if she'll be gone for the quiz because of her "interview at Washington University in St Louis"

I personally think that it's obnoxious and slightly funny, but it absolutely is not fun for my SO, who's also applying to PhD programs and hasn't gotten any interviews yet
 
Oh god I hate this so much. I have a few facebook friends who posted when they got into our small state med school, which is chill because these are usually humble posts about how they're honored/surprised/grateful for the opportunity, etc.

But then there's this one girl who I went to high school with (although she's applying PhD, not MD) who posts EVERY TIME she goes on an interview (to facebook and instagram), gets an acceptance, and sometimes just for the heck of it, like posting a pic of our snowy campus with the caption "can't wait to get out of here for my interview at Stanford #futurephd"

She worms her success stories into everything, including raising her hand during class and asking what she should do if she'll be gone for the quiz because of her "interview at Washington University in St Louis"

I personally think that it's obnoxious and slightly funny, but it absolutely is not fun for my SO, who's also applying to PhD programs and hasn't gotten any interviews yet
Yeah, that's exactly what I deal with. There's a girl that I work with who posted on Facebook when she was first accepted. (Side note, I hate when I am obligated to like something on Facebook). And every time she needs us to cover a shift for her, which is all the time, she texts our group and says "Hey guys, could you cover my shift? I'm out of town for an interview." And everyone hates it. We get it, you're getting interviews.
 
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Rejected from Oakland just now. Hmm I guess all the schools are starting to send out rejections since their interviews are over.
 
Update: No news as of yet. In the past twelve hours, I have aged about 45 years. My hair has turned grey, my face is embedded with wrinkles, and I have suddenly acquired a taste for freeform jazz. I've also had to deal with financial aid nonsense all day which doesn't make this easier by any stretch of the imagination. I'm supposed to teach a class in two hours. I haven't called in a sick day to any job since the Bush administration, but I don't think I'm in any psychological state to mold the youth of America right now. (And by youth of America, I of course mean sophomore organic chemistry students). Could they please put me out of my misery?
 
Update: No news as of yet. In the past twelve hours, I have aged about 45 years. My hair has turned grey, my face is embedded with wrinkles, and I have suddenly acquired a taste for freeform jazz. I've also had to deal with financial aid nonsense all day which doesn't make this easier by any stretch of the imagination. I'm supposed to teach a class in two hours. I haven't called in a sick day to any job since the Bush administration, but I don't think I'm in any psychological state to mold the youth of America right now. (And by youth of America, I of course mean sophomore organic chemistry students). Could they please put me out of my misery?
Good Luck!
 
The fact that this is the last week of January and February starts next week and I still have yet to have a single interview is beyond beyond, did I mention beyond depressing, saddening, heartbreaking, heart wrenching, can't stop crying....the list goes on.
 
The fact that this is the last week of January and February starts next week and I still have yet to have a single interview is beyond beyond, did I mention beyond depressing, saddening, heartbreaking, heart wrenching, can't stop crying....the list goes on.

I'm sorry chocolate 🙁

Have you been able to get feedback on your stats/app/EC's on here?
 
The fact that this is the last week of January and February starts next week and I still have yet to have a single interview is beyond beyond, did I mention beyond depressing, saddening, heartbreaking, heart wrenching, can't stop crying....the list goes on.
Don't cry 🙁 Hang in there!
 
If things don't go as planned for me, I think I may take a year or 2 off. I always thought that I would just try again right away, but this process was so emotionally and financially draining that I think I need time to recover.
 
The fact that this is the last week of January and February starts next week and I still have yet to have a single interview is beyond beyond, did I mention beyond depressing, saddening, heartbreaking, heart wrenching, can't stop crying....the list goes on.
+1
 
If things don't go as planned for me, I think I may take a year or 2 off. I always thought that I would just try again right away, but this process was so emotionally and financially draining that I think I need time to recover.
Its going to be so hard financially!!!
 
I can understand the point that if someone really wants to become a physician bad enough, they will keep trying until they are accepted into a school , but financially not everyone can afford to do this 2,3 or 4 times.
 
I can understand the point that if someone really wants to become a physician bad enough, they will keep trying until they are accepted into a school , but financially not everyone can afford to do this 2,3 or 4 times.
Agreed, I know that the areas in which my application are weak will cost me money to fix and I don't think I can afford to go about completing this process again... I still have a few more schools alive but it may be time for me to consider the Caribbean unfortunately...
 
Agreed, I know that the areas in which my application are weak will cost me money to fix and I don't think I can afford to go about completing this process again... I still have a few more schools alive but it may be time for me to consider the Caribbean unfortunately...
I get it.
 
The fact that this is the last week of January and February starts next week and I still have yet to have a single interview is beyond beyond, did I mention beyond depressing, saddening, heartbreaking, heart wrenching, can't stop crying....the list goes on.

So sorry to hear that chocolate23, last year I was on the same boat. I never felt so low in my entire career. However, things will get better! I can promise you that! This year, I decided to apply to DO schools too and that's where I got my first acceptance.
 
Don't cry 🙁 Hang in there!
I am really trying, but to have gone through applying three times, without a single interview and knowing that it's almost February is one of the worst feelings in the world. This entire process does make you feel worthless. I know I should be positive, I really am. But, for god's sake medicine is my absolute passion and everyone says, if you work hard, you'll make it. Just continue pursuing your dreams. Everyone has setbacks and I completely get that but at the same time, applying to medical school, spending the money, doing all those essays, literally making myself feel like I am not worth going out or having fun because I am "nowhere" in life, is mentally exhausting and just honestly, it makes me feel so beyond sad. This is all I have wanted since I went through that medical nightmare in college and everyone says if you want it so bad, do everything you can to get it/you'll get it and I have but I still am not where I want to be.
 
So sorry to hear that chocolate23, last year I was on the same boat. I never felt so low in my entire career. However, things will get better! I can promise you that! This year, I decided to apply to DO schools too and that's where I got my first acceptance.
I have applied to MD and DO. Yes, the dream is to be an MD, but god's honest truth, I just want to be a doctor, and I will go anywhere in the United States to be a physician. The letters at the end don't mean anything to me anymore, as long as I am a doctor and can help a person in medical need, in anyway I possibly can.
 
If I have to do this again:
-I would probably do a DYI post bac program to raise my GPA,it's low,don't ask, lol ( can't afford a structured one),
- I'm not taking my MCAT over (hopefully it's still good for a fall 2018 class application),
- I would apply to DO programs also.
-only applying to about 10 schools
 
If I have to do this again:
-I would probably do a DYI post bac program to raise my GPA,it's low,don't ask, lol ( can't afford a structured one),
- I'm not taking my MCAT over (hopefully it's still good for a fall 2018 application),
- I would apply to DO programs also.
-only applying to about 10 schools
if you do a DYI program, please research the program and make sure it's a good one. My friend did a DYI program, and it actually ended up hurting her than benefitting here because the program wasn't so great. Really get a feel for it.
 
Oh did I also mention, that some of my undergrad courses expire as well. #fantastic.

I feel like applying to medical school is such a business now. And truth be told, a lot of people stop applying, not because they aren't passionate enough, but because it's just really really expensive.
 
if you do a DYI program, please research the program and make sure it's a good one. My friend did a DYI program, and it actually ended up hurting her than benefitting here because the program wasn't so great. Really get a feel for it.
will do, thank you. Right now ,I don't know much about them, will start researching Feb 1st. Didn't think I was going to have to, (sigh.)
 
-I would probably do a DYI post bac program to raise my GPA,it's low,don't ask, lol ( can't afford a structured one),
Since you already have the pre-reqs completed, you should consider graduate level work over retaking undergraduate courses. Schools will want to see that you've moved on, not taken O-Chem again.
I'm not taking my MCAT over (hopefully it's still good for a fall 2018 application),
Most schools will allow you to submit MCATs that are less than three years old, but with the recent switch to the 2015 MCAT, some schools will not accept any MCAT scores that aren't the new 2015 format. There's a document from the AAMC that lists each school's policy on this.
I would apply to DO programs also.
This is a good idea.
only applying to about 10 schools
I don't know that this is such a good idea. You should focus your efforts on schools within reach for your application, certainly, but narrowing it to 10 may be shooting yourself in the foot.
 
will do, thank you. Right now ,I don't know much about them, will start researching Feb 1st. Didn't think I was going to have to, (sigh.)

I really hope you get into school. You had interviews and I really really from the bottom of my heart hope you get into medical school so you don't even have to worry about this!
 
I really hope you get into school. You had interviews and I really really from the bottom of my heart hope you get into medical school so you don't even have to worry about this!
Thank you. For what it's worth, I did notice last year,some schools did still give out IIs in Feb and March. I'm not saying alot of schools, but some did.
 
Thank you. For what it's worth, I did notice last year,some schools did still give out IIs in Feb and March. I'm not saying alot of schools, but some did.
I gave up on being patient and started calling schools. SLU and MCW are still giving out interviews (and have been sending out rejections on a rolling basis) so if you're still alive there then there may be hope.
 
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