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Yea I don't alter my persona in anyway whether its online or in person. I don't believe in creating a false image of myself.
I agree... I don't act differently but I just refrain from talking about highly emotionally charged things like religion, politics, etc... I will to a degree, but I'd rather just save it unless I really know the person.
On facebook, I am myself even though I might not seem like it to some people when I see them in person. It's hard to show emotions and proper tone when I talk to my friends on facebook.
Do you ever use that to your advantage? Oh, and do you understand much of the spanish they speak to you?
I'm not sure how looking white would be an advantage... I usually have to use looking HISPANIC to my advantage living where I do. Hispanic people are the majority in Miami and I probably would not have gotten as many jobs if they thought I wouldn't be able to converse with the customers.
I used to speak spanish a lot better than I do now, but yeah I can understand it okay. My family is from Spain so the dialect is a lot more pronounced and 'proper'... kind of like Britain VS Australia VS USA. Cuban spanish is a lot more rapid and the words are sometimes cut off or strung together it seems like to me anyway so it's harder for me to understand.
You wanna talk awkward, I am friends with several people online right? I started going to a particular set of message boards in 1998 and have been talking to the same group of people since then. Two of them I have been rather close to the entire time to the point where we all text each other just about every day.
Well one of them I made a groomsman in my wedding. I had only physically met him once before, the previous summer, so it was quite awkward to explain to friends and family how precisely I knew him lol
I know exactly what you mean... I've met a few friends like that on the cheerleading message boards that AOL used to have back in the day. We eventually would meet each other at competitions and trade t shirts from our respective gyms, but it was always akward trying to explain how we met to our friends and family. I always felt like they would think I was some weirdo internet creeper who makes friends online but it's not even like that... we just grew up in the digital generation I guess.