My brother, who has been raised by my aunt due to circumstances, is getting married next June. My aunt has been the center of helping him and his finacée plan the wedding, and my mom feels terribly left out (sort of understandably). I've gotten three phone calls today from my mother crying about this. Mind you, I live an hour and a half away from all the going ons, so I'm just trying to be a soundboard.
Third call, my mom's gotten so upset, she tells me that me and my little sister "weren't allowed to be bridesmaids because we're too fat (which I don't care, never wanted to be a bridesmaid anyways) and that's why we're usherettes, but now we're no longer in the wedding." By this time I'm fed up with the situation and just trying to get to work for 8 hours.
Brother calls me shortly after to tell me that my mom was just upset and saying crap and I freaking blew the eff up. Crying, cussing, the whole biz. Because I am sick and tired of having to deal with family drama when I'm not even home. I'm at college, working two jobs with two online classes this summer. I can't deal with it. I don't have the mental capacity to care. I have my own problems. I don't mind being a sounding board for things that are going on, but when I start being told two different things that affect my stance (in the wedding) it pisses me off.