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im glad i could be of assistanceThat's it!
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weirdosim glad i could be of assistance
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WE GREW UP LIKE 15 MINUTES FROM EACH OTHER. HER HIGH SCHOOL WAS CLOSER TO MY HOUSE THAN MINE WAS.weirdos
I have officially accepted a job at another vet hospital that's 1/3rd the commute with way better management and I am putting in my two weeks' notice. I'm out of here!!
I only realized just how toxic my current environment is when I spent a day doing a working interview at the new place and was actually having subconscious anxiety about being able to stand around and talk to future coworkers for a few minutes here and there. My mind tells me I'm about to get yelled at and I'm doing something seriously wrong if I think I have down time. Going to take some adjustment to realize that is okay now.
It also blew my mind when I glanced at the quite open (to my standards) schedule then heard the receptionist say on the phone "No, I'm so sorry, we're just too busy today, but I can schedule you for another time." And when a tech told me their doctors are almost always ready for their appointment the minute it comes through the door. And when a tech said "the owner wants x but I told her we can't do that" and the doctor agreed instead of getting upset with the tech and doing whatever the owner wants.
I knew this was the right place to switch to when the vets, receptionists, and techs actually seemed enthusiastic about their jobs. Who knew that was a thing?!![]()
Wutdoes anyone else experience classmates collectively complaining about classes being too hard and then having your class/exams get watered down?
Admin doesn’t write the exams though the professors do?idk how much detail I should give, but...if enough people complain at my school, admin, like, caters to it (in both bad and good ways..but mostly bad ways)
I will also add that in my experience the degree of complaining dies down a lot the farther you get into school. I'm not sure if students just adapt better to the course load/expectations, the course load gets way less stressful (because phys and anatomy are beasts), or students just care less because previous feedback wasn't really acknowledged and they just focus on getting through it at that point.
idk how much detail I should give, but...if enough people complain at my school, admin, like, caters to it (in both bad and good ways..but mostly bad ways)
It's the gradual progress of soul crushing that eventually leads to complete apathy 😛I will also add that in my experience the degree of complaining dies down a lot the farther you get into school. I'm not sure if students just adapt better to the course load/expectations, the course load gets way less overwhelming (because phys and anatomy are beasts and you've had time to get more uses to the pace/volume of vet school), or students just care less because previous feedback wasn't really acknowledged and they just focus on getting through it at that point.
Oh dude I remember you telling me about that ****ty questionAdmin sure doesn't cater to my class just because we complain.
But as ski pointed out if exams are an example of what you're talking about... the professors are the ones who write those and they're all different.
We had an exam once where the question was written wrong such that none of the answers were correct. People had already left when this was discovered. Question was not thrown out because those people should have known it was wrong and asked. I know you don't have exactly the same professors we did and that your curriculum is different but I would not expect that them catering to complaints (unless said complaints were reasonable) to be a trend.
Accurate.It's the gradual progress of soul crushing that eventually leads to complete apathy 😛
I've been working on eating less for about a week and a half now and that's gone well. Trying to get back into running but, ah, it's so discouraging when I can just barely make it to 30 minutes at even a jog. I used to run track and cross country competitively and could do a mile in about 7 minutes... but alas, I'm just not in that kind of shape anymore.
There's an old Confucius quote that goes something like "It doesn't matter how slow you go just so long as you do not stop." I repeat it to myself like a mantra every time I get really frustrated while I'm swimmingI guess I need to remind myself that anything is better than nothing at this point and that I can only get better from here so long as I just keep going.
Trying to get back into running but, ah, it's so discouraging when I can just barely make it to 30 minutes at even a jog. I used to run track and cross country competitively and could do a mile in about 7 minutes... but alas, I'm just not in that kind of shape anymore.
I guess I need to remind myself that anything is better than nothing at this point and that I can only get better from here so long as I just keep going.
Emphasizing what everyone else is saying because I can also be a run buddy!! I was on the track team in high school and undergrad but did triple and long jump so I was never really much of a runner, and the past year has been a lot of learning for meI've been working on eating less for about a week and a half now and that's gone well. Trying to get back into running but, ah, it's so discouraging when I can just barely make it to 30 minutes at even a jog. I used to run track and cross country competitively and could do a mile in about 7 minutes... but alas, I'm just not in that kind of shape anymore.
I have no previous history as a runner unless being chased by bees, but I used one of those Couch to 5K apps earlier this year to get in shape and found that it really helped me to stick with it and stay motivated. It gradually increased the intervals I was running and I got up to doing 4.5 miles by the end of the summer. Just a thought, but one of those might help build that fitness back up over time without feeling discouraged 🙂
There's an old Confucius quote that goes something like "It doesn't matter how slow you go just so long as you do not stop." I repeat it to myself like a mantra every time I get really frustrated while I'm swimming
Oh look, it me!
Happy to be a support buddy too - I've had a long slog of probably 18 months for getting from barely being able to walk a few blocks (post surgical muscle atrophy, man) to being able to run a fair distance again. I'm still out of shape and slow as all get out compared to where I was 5-10 years ago, but I finally crested the "this is terrible - keep going" hill into being happy and accepting where I'm at without comparing myself to where I used to be.
Ah, you all are amazing people. Sometimes I wonder why I even hang around SDN anymore when I'm no longer working in/pursuing vet med, but I truly do think it's the wonderfully compassionate community that keeps me coming back. Thanks for the encouragement and offers of support, all! 🙂Emphasizing what everyone else is saying because I can also be a run buddy!! I was on the track team in high school and undergrad but did triple and long jump so I was never really much of a runner, and the past year has been a lot of learning for meI don't usually run far and I'm not very fast, but I'm always down to virtually train with people! I also have hypothyroidism/Hashimoto's so I can be a healthy eating support buddy too🙂
this happened in our class too. But... I actually came to rant about how we just got a "quiz" (exam size and value but open book) back and many of us did not get full credit on several of the essays. The feedback quoted 2 sources...that we hadn't received yet. Instead we all used the one source we had... written by the professor.does anyone else experience classmates collectively complaining about classes being too hard and then having your class/exams get watered down?
this happened in our class too. But... I actually came to rant about how we just got a "quiz" (exam size and value but open book) back and many of us did not get full credit on several of the essays. The feedback quoted 2 sources...that we hadn't received yet. Instead we all used the one source we had... written by the professor.
Complaints were officially ignoredThis is one of those few situations where I would actually complain. If using sources you didnt even have/get taught are required to get full points, then it's an unfair question/assignment
I appreciate the offer! Thanks a bunch. 🙂
I've been working on eating less for about a week and a half now and that's gone well. Trying to get back into running but, ah, it's so discouraging when I can just barely make it to 30 minutes at even a jog. I used to run track and cross country competitively and could do a mile in about 7 minutes... but alas, I'm just not in that kind of shape anymore.
I guess I need to remind myself that anything is better than nothing at this point and that I can only get better from here so long as I just keep going.
MINE DID THE SAME! Also froze & died when I installed app updates! Didn’t have a phone for 2 days (which was actually kinda nice, I have to admit...)Upgraded to iOS 14 yesterday, no major issues yet. Oddly not even too many growing pains, i.e. this minor and/or aesthetic thing changed and I don't like it but I will get used to it in 2 weeks.
Today my phone died at work, nbd. Got home and charged it and apparently all my text messages are "gone." With air quotes, because when I send someone a text (or receive one) it suddenly remembers our entire conversation history. What the hell, Apple.
Also it says I have one unread text message. Which I don't. I can't get rid of the notification bubble. It irks me.
AND my school email refuses to sync to my phone now, although technically that issue started before I updated to iOS 14.
Update: suddenly this morning my text issues are fixed so that's good. The issue with my school email persists though. Basically it wants me to re-enter my password but then when it tries to take me to the login page it never loads.
Update 2: my email is fine now??? I just
Hey you've been doing a great job! Learn to lean on those other people. Let us know if you need more help that's why theres a board. Sys path will be ok. Like killer leaf said get that sleep it's the most important thing in order to function and not be emotionally destroyed. You got this. My pm is always open if you need anything. 2nd year will be ok. Your events are awesome. Lean on the others and let the board know if you need more help! Dont forget to take that me time because it's so important and that 30 min to 1 hr I promise will not make a significant difference in passing but it will for your wellbeingStuffs...
This is completely random, but...
Has anyone else in undergrad noticed that majors that are not science based are so much easier then what we are doing? Like my roommate is a double major that doesn't have a ton of cross over classes and she does school work 2-3 days a week, and then there's me. I could do homework all day 7 days a week and still not be ahead. Its kind of ridiculous in my opinion.
But on a good note, I am taking organic chemistry freshman year and kicking ass!
Yannow, I agree with and I totally get DPMD and WZ's comments but like…I was hella salty when my friend in undergrad, who was a triple business major, just decided to have Fridays off. At that point, virtually all of my classes only had one section and were only offered once per year, so you either took it at the time that it was offered or you took it at that same time next year. Now I have even less control over my class schedule and I've just accepted it.This is completely random, but...
Has anyone else in undergrad noticed that majors that are not science based are so much easier then what we are doing? Like my roommate is a double major that doesn't have a ton of cross over classes and she does school work 2-3 days a week, and then there's me. I could do homework all day 7 days a week and still not be ahead. Its kind of ridiculous in my opinion.
But on a good note, I am taking organic chemistry freshman year and kicking ass!
Yannow, I agree with and I totally get DPMD and WZ's comments but like…I was hella salty when my friend in undergrad, who was a triple business major, just decided to have Fridays off. At that point, virtually all of my classes only had one section and were only offered once per year, so you either took it at the time that it was offered or you took it at that same time next year. Now I have even less control over my class schedule and I've just accepted it.
Point is, it's not apples to apples, but you can still be mad about it.![]()
My response is more a word of caution don't get yourself into that mindset you have it worse/harder/etc, because you really don't know what other peoples' workload really is or how they're really feeling maybe getting that Friday off was to prevent the burnout/depression from the prior semester. It isn't worth you energy to be angry or salty that it appears by outward appearances that someone has it easier.
Just focus on yourself and what you can do with your schedule/studying/etc to make school as easy as possible for you.
This is completely random, but...
Has anyone else in undergrad noticed that majors that are not science based are so much easier then what we are doing? Like my roommate is a double major that doesn't have a ton of cross over classes and she does school work 2-3 days a week, and then there's me. I could do homework all day 7 days a week and still not be ahead. Its kind of ridiculous in my opinion.
But on a good note, I am taking organic chemistry freshman year and kicking ass!
This is completely random, but...
Has anyone else in undergrad noticed that majors that are not science based are so much easier then what we are doing? Like my roommate is a double major that doesn't have a ton of cross over classes and she does school work 2-3 days a week, and then there's me. I could do homework all day 7 days a week and still not be ahead. Its kind of ridiculous in my opinion.
But on a good note, I am taking organic chemistry freshman year and kicking ass!
Bio major here who minored in anthropology (and was like one credit away from a minor in creative writing). I will say that my non-biology classes were much easier...but that was only because I was hella more interested in writing and learning about the Moche than learning biochemical pathways. I had some classmates that cringed at the thought of writing a paragraph let alone take an entire writing course. And I did also manage to get Tuesdays and Thursdays off one semester, so it is possible. It was awful and 10/10 do not recommend taking OChem, Micro, and Genetics (all of which are "weeding out courses" at my college) on the same day, multiple days a week. Ouch.
But yeah, I don't think it's really something that you can compare across the board. People gotta do what they gotta do to stay mentally healthy and if that's taking off every Friday, I'd be happy for them.
I'm actually a fairly decent writer. My grandfather was a college English professor. You couldn't pay me enough to willingly sit through English/literature/writing courses again. I celebrated the completion of my last English course. I may be decent at writing, but I despise doing it. I'd rather relearn the Krebs cycle for the 1527265 time.
I honestly do love writing. However, the writing class I had to take to complete my degree really taxed my brain, and my patience. Everything had to be so formal. I do not do formal very well, my style is much more informal. Don't get me wrong, I can do it. But it was more of a struggle than it really should have been, and I was sooo glad when that class was done.
Ignoring all the points made above...This is completely random, but...
Has anyone else in undergrad noticed that majors that are not science based are so much easier then what we are doing? Like my roommate is a double major that doesn't have a ton of cross over classes and she does school work 2-3 days a week, and then there's me. I could do homework all day 7 days a week and still not be ahead. Its kind of ridiculous in my opinion.
But on a good note, I am taking organic chemistry freshman year and kicking ass!