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Ranting here because I've ran out of places to rantš I'm getting induced early because of mild pre-eclampsia so I'm getting induced tomorrow and have been doing twice weekly apts up to where both our parents are to have higher level care. Of course grandparents are excited but my in laws....OMG. I cannot. They have literally called or texted EVERY SINGLE DAY THIS WEEK to "check in". LEAVE ME THE F* ALONE. Today was the same as yesterday, same as the day before. AND they want us to check in tomorrow and I'm like WHY we are literally going to the hospital and unlikely to have the child tomorrow. Especially after I have told them we will let you know if/when we are ready for visitors.
Thanks for coming to my in law rantš
We established firm rules:
1. We will tell you when we're ready and the nurses know not to let anyone in.
- my MIL was shocked no one but us would be there for my son and no one but us and BIL/SIL would be there for my niece. But I didn't want anyone else there. My vagina and vulva, my choice.
2. Literally put my phone on do not disturb and didn't respond to anyone until hours and hours later. Nice peace of mind.