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I’d probably take the closer option that pays better…besides the time investment, gas to drive that far daily really adds up and eats into your salary, especially if the world events continue on their current trajectory and oil prices keep rising.
I feel like that's where I'm starting to lean the more I think about it. It's just so frustrating when the only think holding me back is distance!! I totally forgot about this crazy world and the gas prices going up too :|
 
Idk what to do with myself this summer. I unexpectedly got an externship with a humane society. It's specifically for veterinary students, so I feel like I'll get far more experience that is directly related to being a veterinarian (i.e., doing physical exams, surgery). The one thing holding me back is the distance. During rush hour it'll take me 40-50 minutes each way and I already don't love driving.

My other option is to work as a veterinary assistant. The clinic is 10 minutes away and pays $3 more per hour. My only worry is that I'll be stuck doing assistant things and not get to watch surgeries, listen to the vets' talk to clients, and be involved with other everyday tasks expected of a veterinarian. Maybe my perception of being a vet assistant is wrong though since I've been in wildlife medicine for so long. The externship is giving me 3 days to decide and I'm stressing :,)
Maybe if you mention to the doctors at the clinic that you are interested in that type of stuff, they'll try and fit it in with you. I was an assistant in undergrad for a summer and the ortho vet knew I was prevet, so she would have me on her appointments and let me watch all her surgeries, all her patient talks, and she taught me a bunch of things outside my scope, such as reading radiographs, doing cytocentesis, and how to calculate prescriptions. There's a chance they won't do it, but asking is worth a shot!
 
As a surgery deficient ER doctor, I was going to say do the humane society position cause I feel like you'd potentially get the ability to actually do surgery at some point.

But then Jayna came in with some really good points. A good middle ground would be to see if you could establish a goal with the vet assistant position to be involved more heavily in one specific area i.e. surgery
That's a good point with the vet assistant job. I know they like having veterinary students over the summer, so hopefully they'll be more willing to let me do stuff that I want to learn more about (like surgery).

It's hard to not feel like I'll be behind when my friends are getting summer jobs where they do more "future veterinarian" things. But I know I'm being dramatic lol
 
Bruhhhhh why is apartment management always USELESS.

called last week, the night before I left town for a school visit because my CEILING WAS LEAKING

did they fix it? NO. is it leaking again tonight? YES!!!!

why do I have to be an absolute Karen to them to get them to actually do their jobs????

I actually hate apartment complexes. I cannot WAIT to rent a house once I’m in school
 
Bruhhhhh why is apartment management always USELESS.

called last week, the night before I left town for a school visit because my CEILING WAS LEAKING

did they fix it? NO. is it leaking again tonight? YES!!!!

why do I have to be an absolute Karen to them to get them to actually do their jobs????

I actually hate apartment complexes. I cannot WAIT to rent a house once I’m in school
I once called about a ceiling leaking quite a bit.
It took them multiple days to come fix it.
The best part? I had a middle floor apartment 😬. No idea how much damage they had to fix from the upper floor by the time they got to it
 
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Bruhhhhh why is apartment management always USELESS.

called last week, the night before I left town for a school visit because my CEILING WAS LEAKING

did they fix it? NO. is it leaking again tonight? YES!!!!

why do I have to be an absolute Karen to them to get them to actually do their jobs????

I actually hate apartment complexes. I cannot WAIT to rent a house once I’m in school
I once called about a ceiling leaking white a bit.
It took them multiple days to come fix it.
The best part? I had a middle floor apartment 😬. No idea how much damage they had to fix from the upper floor by the time they got to it
If you go back through my post history you’ll find a period of time where I had no hot water in my shower for six weeks, and when they finally came to fix it, they left my front door wide open for an extended period of time and I panicked that my cats had run away.

I now live in a duplex with a private landlord and every time we’ve had even a minor plumbing issue we’ve had someone out within 48 hrs (also I LOVE their plumber he’s a plumber by day, graphic designer by night, and he adores my cats).
 
I once called about a ceiling leaking white a bit.
It took them multiple days to come fix it.
The best part? I had a middle floor apartment 😬. No idea how much damage they had to fix from the upper floor by the time they got to it
No fr like this isn’t my fist rodeo

At my last ****hole apartment the bathroom ceiling caved in TWICE (because they painted over the water stain instead of fixing the problem) and caused an infestation of house flies. I’m not doing this **** again
 
If you go back through my post history you’ll find a period of time where I had no hot water in my shower for six weeks, and when they finally came to fix it, they left my front door wide open for an extended period of time and I panicked that my cats had run away.

I now live in a duplex with a private landlord and every time we’ve had even a minor plumbing issue we’ve had someone out within 48 hrs (also I LOVE their plumber he’s a plumber by day, graphic designer by night, and he adores my cats).
Omg I’m so glad your cats were ok!!! I’d go absolutely ballistic if they came in when my birds were out.

I’m glad you are in a better situation now! The person who I will be renting from for school’s husband is a construction manager so I think any problems that do rise up will be able to be taken care of too hopefully 🤞🏻
 
If you go back through my post history you’ll find a period of time where I had no hot water in my shower for six weeks, and when they finally came to fix it, they left my front door wide open for an extended period of time and I panicked that my cats had run away.

I now live in a duplex with a private landlord and every time we’ve had even a minor plumbing issue we’ve had someone out within 48 hrs (also I LOVE their plumber he’s a plumber by day, graphic designer by night, and he adores my cats).
A similar situation happen to me in a campus apartment I rented during undergrad. Maintenance came to fix my fan and left both the door to my room and the front door wide open and I was terrified my cat ran away. It didn't help that she also hid for several hours until I found her under my bed in between two dressers.
 
The saga continues

Went to office at 8:30 AM when it opens. No one is there because why would there be

Maintenance guy gets out of his truck and says it opens at 9. Like no it doesn’t. All the signs says it opens at 8:30. “It changed on Monday” suuuure it did buddy

But I tell him they need to fix the leak in my ceiling. He says the roofers came out on Tuesday. Nooooo they didn’t because I called last Wednesday night!

He proceeded to be super rude and was clearly just trying to gaslight me because he didn’t want to talk to me, because shocker, every time I go to the damn office is because there is a problem. But I’m like well the ceiling is still leaking so don’t tell me that it is fixed when it’s not. And if you somehow did get prophetic roofers to come out last week before I reported the leak, you need to get your money back and make them come out again

I cannot WAIT to leave a 1 star review.

The sad thing is this place didn’t use to be bad. It’s just gotten bad in the past year and a half or so and 90% of that is because of absolutely abysmal management
 
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Omg I’m so glad your cats were ok!!! I’d go absolutely ballistic if they came in when my birds were out.

I’m glad you are in a better situation now! The person who I will be renting from for school’s husband is a construction manager so I think any problems that do rise up will be able to be taken care of too hopefully 🤞🏻
This sounds like you are set up for success! What school is this landlord at? Trying to find housing while deciding where to attend!
 
My apartment complex .... towed my car out of my own garage and then made me pay $300 to get it back. And it was a brand new car!

We *might* be able to scrounge up the money to buy something between Ithaca and Elmira (Ithaca is way too expensive) and I'm excited to possibly be my own landlord.
 
as if things couldnt get any more stressful... i owe money i do not have in taxes, im running low on my loan refund because i had to pay $3k out of my refund for 3 credits and now im way out of budget. i will have virtually no savings for august. my lease ends in july but all the houses we're looking to rent have a firm lease start in early june and i cannottttttt pay rent on two units at the same time and have one essentially be vacant..

hahahahahaha now i need to get a part time job but then that messes with my exisiting pet-sitting obligations which i dont make alot of money off of rn but they are my established clients so i have to keep them. but i also do not have time to get a pt job becuase i have so much going on with school and my internship and petsitting and trying to take care of myself.

i need the world to stop for like 5 minutes so i can think of a plan
 
My apartment complex .... towed my car out of my own garage and then made me pay $300 to get it back. And it was a brand new car!

We *might* be able to scrounge up the money to buy something between Ithaca and Elmira (Ithaca is way too expensive) and I'm excited to possibly be my own landlord.

That's a **** no from me dog. Is there any sort of city program or something you can report this to?
 
That's a **** no from me dog. Is there any sort of city program or something you can report this to?
Technically I agreed to it in my lease apparently... They have like 3 systems to register the car in, and I registered it in the wrong two but not the one that actually prevented towing... which it said in the fine print of something I signed a year ago.

Also they never have anyone in the office, never pick up their phone, and every single external door as well as the parking garage gate is always broken. Yay! Also saw a car on cinder blocks the other day so there are clearly thefts....

owning a small home in rural New York is sounding real nice.
 
Also they never have anyone in the office, never pick up their phone, and every single external door as well as the parking garage gate is always broken. Yay! Also saw a car on cinder blocks the other day so there are clearly thefts....
Preaching to the choir!!! Omg do we live in the same place hahaha
 
as if things couldnt get any more stressful... i owe money i do not have in taxes, im running low on my loan refund because i had to pay $3k out of my refund for 3 credits and now im way out of budget. i will have virtually no savings for august. my lease ends in july but all the houses we're looking to rent have a firm lease start in early june and i cannottttttt pay rent on two units at the same time and have one essentially be vacant..

hahahahahaha now i need to get a part time job but then that messes with my exisiting pet-sitting obligations which i dont make alot of money off of rn but they are my established clients so i have to keep them. but i also do not have time to get a pt job becuase i have so much going on with school and my internship and petsitting and trying to take care of myself.

i need the world to stop for like 5 minutes so i can think of a plan
Im getting screwed over by uncle sam too. Be careful with sign on bonuses and then leaving early! They wont recognize i paid back the bonus and the taxes were to the tune of 14k and they wont return it for whatever reason.
 
partner is having a really hard time at their work, I still have one school im waiting on hearing back from. they really want to move cities this year and I wish I could plan more but everything is so up in the air especially if I get waitlisted. I want to be able to provide them with more comfort in a plan but I have zero idea of what is actually going to happen :/
 
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Im getting screwed over by uncle sam too. Be careful with sign on bonuses and then leaving early! They wont recognize i paid back the bonus and the taxes were to the tune of 14k and they wont return it for whatever reason.

This is some crap. I get why from a tax perspective it isn't paid back. But it should still be paid back.

Likewise, for those looking at jobs, don't take a sign on bonus with any sort of time frame on it. Either ask for a 2-5k bump in salary, a smaller moving bonus, etc. Repeat after me:

NO SIGN ON BONUSES

I’m on call tonight and I’m positive something is going to come in

You are absolutely correct
 
Likewise, for those looking at jobs, don't take a sign on bonus with any sort of time frame on it. Either ask for a 2-5k bump in salary, a smaller moving bonus, etc. Repeat after me:

NO SIGN ON BONUSES
Soooooooo the $100k relocation/sign on bonus that a hospital in my home state is offering (for boarded specialists) is a red flag, huh?
 
Soooooooo the $100k relocation/sign on bonus that a hospital in my home state is offering (for boarded specialists) is a red flag, huh?

I got a message on LinkedIn in for a similar number. When I replied I would never take such a high sign on bonus, I never got a response back
 
Soooooooo the $100k relocation/sign on bonus that a hospital in my home state is offering (for boarded specialists) is a red flag, huh?
mine was 50k sign on only, but I was working part time. 100k for ft GP associates in corporate. The company may have also helped confuse things because I paid them right away, but they didnt cash the check until the next year (3ish months later). And the year I wanted it applied to (when I paid)I had income. I didnt work due to health issues the year they cashed it and its not like I can have a negative W2 to recoup my losses, so now they both have really hosed me. Especially since I keep being unable to work at any job rn and am just burning savings.

I think California just signed something that sign on bonuses cant be required to be repaid unless certain criteria are met, but then people will probably just stop offering them.
 
I think California just signed something that sign on bonuses cant be required to be repaid unless certain criteria are met, but then people will probably just stop offering them.

I can almost guarantee you that's the point of the law. Regulate the thing until it is impractical to have the thing. So the thing is gone in its entirety
 
Took on bascially an MD roll in hopes it would improve situations, feeling burnt out because of *things* and not improving like I had hoped... It's only been 6 weeks. Please send prayers, burn inscents, spirit clensings what have you.

Also my clinic is a dumpster fire with staffing right now because of life. One is out for pregnancy complications and another one tested positive for strep today.
 
I'm pretty sure I might be getting a job offer soon, but at this point I really don't want it. :bag: I've done 3 interviews with them and they're contacting my references this week, so I think things are getting close, but there have been a number of red (or yellow?) flags that have me nervous. I'm over a year into my job hunt so I hate the idea of turning anything down, but ugh . . .

In our first interview the supervisor/hiring manager prefaced some of his questions with "I know I'm not allowed to ask this, but", and asked about if I'm single, have kids or any family I'd be moving with, etc. I'd consider that more of a yellow flag. He had some comments about work that's expected to be completed in off hours because "there's not enough time during the day" (this was regarding manuscript writing, which you can argue isn't technically required of the employee? As far as I can tell they really only publish if the employee wants to keep up their publication record and takes the initiative in their own time to prepare it. This wouldn't be strange in academia but it does seem a little off for industry, but what do I know). This and some of the other comments they've made have been kind of red flags for their work/life balance expectations. After my second interview (where I gave a 40 min technical presentation) they reposted the job on LinkedIn and I pretty much wrote them off and felt really good about not getting it. A month later he surprised me by reaching out for a third meeting. He said he wanted to arrange some one-on-one meetings between me and his team to talk to each other about our research and see if personalities were a good fit. Either he didn't explain it well or changed his mind because it wasn't a one-on-one, he was on the call the entire time, and it was formatted like an interview and not a conversation like I thought it would be. I don't know if he was worried where unsupervised conversations would lead? It might be worth noting that the company has really poor reviews online on glassdoor and other sites, but those are mostly ratings from technician positions. That might not be relevant for this particular department but it was disappointing to see.

Way back in the first interview they asked about my availability to come for an in-person visit, so maybe that will be the next step after they talk to references? I know that I would absolutely not commit to this job without getting to have real one-on-one meetings with some of the team, even if it's just over zoom. An in-person visit would be nice to sus out the situation but I'm kind of doubting that will happen. I would have to move halfway across the country and be alone in a very conservative area, so the location is a deterrent. I asked about salary ranges in my first interview and he said that he didn't know, which is maybe a yellow flag? Either he does know and it's low so he didn't want to say, or they have a good budget for it but want people to under negotiate, maybe.

Anyway, that's a lot of words to say I'm pretty sure I might get an offer for this job and I really hope that I don't. I'm in the early/mid stages of review for a state job that I would 100% prefer to this one, but I don't know for sure how that will all end up yet. If Job A does offer to me, I might have to turn them down and just hope for good news from Job B. The hiring manager emphasized that I'm one of their few final candidates, but I'm praying they'll offer to the other(s) instead. I hate the thought of turning anything down right now but my gut feeling is that this job is a bad idea.
 
I'm pretty sure I might be getting a job offer soon, but at this point I really don't want it. :bag: I've done 3 interviews with them and they're contacting my references this week, so I think things are getting close, but there have been a number of red (or yellow?) flags that have me nervous. I'm over a year into my job hunt so I hate the idea of turning anything down, but ugh . . .

In our first interview the supervisor/hiring manager prefaced some of his questions with "I know I'm not allowed to ask this, but", and asked about if I'm single, have kids or any family I'd be moving with, etc. I'd consider that more of a yellow flag. He had some comments about work that's expected to be completed in off hours because "there's not enough time during the day" (this was regarding manuscript writing, which you can argue isn't technically required of the employee? As far as I can tell they really only publish if the employee wants to keep up their publication record and takes the initiative in their own time to prepare it. This wouldn't be strange in academia but it does seem a little off for industry, but what do I know). This and some of the other comments they've made have been kind of red flags for their work/life balance expectations. After my second interview (where I gave a 40 min technical presentation) they reposted the job on LinkedIn and I pretty much wrote them off and felt really good about not getting it. A month later he surprised me by reaching out for a third meeting. He said he wanted to arrange some one-on-one meetings between me and his team to talk to each other about our research and see if personalities were a good fit. Either he didn't explain it well or changed his mind because it wasn't a one-on-one, he was on the call the entire time, and it was formatted like an interview and not a conversation like I thought it would be. I don't know if he was worried where unsupervised conversations would lead? It might be worth noting that the company has really poor reviews online on glassdoor and other sites, but those are mostly ratings from technician positions. That might not be relevant for this particular department but it was disappointing to see.

Way back in the first interview they asked about my availability to come for an in-person visit, so maybe that will be the next step after they talk to references? I know that I would absolutely not commit to this job without getting to have real one-on-one meetings with some of the team, even if it's just over zoom. An in-person visit would be nice to sus out the situation but I'm kind of doubting that will happen. I would have to move halfway across the country and be alone in a very conservative area, so the location is a deterrent. I asked about salary ranges in my first interview and he said that he didn't know, which is maybe a yellow flag? Either he does know and it's low so he didn't want to say, or they have a good budget for it but want people to under negotiate, maybe.

Anyway, that's a lot of words to say I'm pretty sure I might get an offer for this job and I really hope that I don't. I'm in the early/mid stages of review for a state job that I would 100% prefer to this one, but I don't know for sure how that will all end up yet. If Job A does offer to me, I might have to turn them down and just hope for good news from Job B. The hiring manager emphasized that I'm one of their few final candidates, but I'm praying they'll offer to the other(s) instead. I hate the thought of turning anything down right now but my gut feeling is that this job is a bad idea.
I would nope out of this regardless of what happens with the other one, to be honest. Some of the flags you're calling yellow, I would call large and red. You deserve better than this job.
 
Headed to Michigan State today for the visit day tomorrow and found out when I woke up that my flight had been cancelled 🫠 so had to scramble to find another flight that left today which involved needing to pay full price for another airline and fully cancelling my previous flight that I had been able to buy with miles 🥲🥲
At least my new flight gets in around the same time today but geeeez
 
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I'm pretty sure I might be getting a job offer soon, but at this point I really don't want it. :bag: I've done 3 interviews with them and they're contacting my references this week, so I think things are getting close, but there have been a number of red (or yellow?) flags that have me nervous. I'm over a year into my job hunt so I hate the idea of turning anything down, but ugh . . .

In our first interview the supervisor/hiring manager prefaced some of his questions with "I know I'm not allowed to ask this, but", and asked about if I'm single, have kids or any family I'd be moving with, etc. I'd consider that more of a yellow flag. He had some comments about work that's expected to be completed in off hours because "there's not enough time during the day" (this was regarding manuscript writing, which you can argue isn't technically required of the employee? As far as I can tell they really only publish if the employee wants to keep up their publication record and takes the initiative in their own time to prepare it. This wouldn't be strange in academia but it does seem a little off for industry, but what do I know). This and some of the other comments they've made have been kind of red flags for their work/life balance expectations. After my second interview (where I gave a 40 min technical presentation) they reposted the job on LinkedIn and I pretty much wrote them off and felt really good about not getting it. A month later he surprised me by reaching out for a third meeting. He said he wanted to arrange some one-on-one meetings between me and his team to talk to each other about our research and see if personalities were a good fit. Either he didn't explain it well or changed his mind because it wasn't a one-on-one, he was on the call the entire time, and it was formatted like an interview and not a conversation like I thought it would be. I don't know if he was worried where unsupervised conversations would lead? It might be worth noting that the company has really poor reviews online on glassdoor and other sites, but those are mostly ratings from technician positions. That might not be relevant for this particular department but it was disappointing to see.

Way back in the first interview they asked about my availability to come for an in-person visit, so maybe that will be the next step after they talk to references? I know that I would absolutely not commit to this job without getting to have real one-on-one meetings with some of the team, even if it's just over zoom. An in-person visit would be nice to sus out the situation but I'm kind of doubting that will happen. I would have to move halfway across the country and be alone in a very conservative area, so the location is a deterrent. I asked about salary ranges in my first interview and he said that he didn't know, which is maybe a yellow flag? Either he does know and it's low so he didn't want to say, or they have a good budget for it but want people to under negotiate, maybe.

Anyway, that's a lot of words to say I'm pretty sure I might get an offer for this job and I really hope that I don't. I'm in the early/mid stages of review for a state job that I would 100% prefer to this one, but I don't know for sure how that will all end up yet. If Job A does offer to me, I might have to turn them down and just hope for good news from Job B. The hiring manager emphasized that I'm one of their few final candidates, but I'm praying they'll offer to the other(s) instead. I hate the thought of turning anything down right now but my gut feeling is that this job is a bad idea.
That is a hell to the no. All the red flags. absolutely not
 
I'm pretty sure I might be getting a job offer soon, but at this point I really don't want it. :bag: I've done 3 interviews with them and they're contacting my references this week, so I think things are getting close, but there have been a number of red (or yellow?) flags that have me nervous. I'm over a year into my job hunt so I hate the idea of turning anything down, but ugh . . .

In our first interview the supervisor/hiring manager prefaced some of his questions with "I know I'm not allowed to ask this, but", and asked about if I'm single, have kids or any family I'd be moving with, etc. I'd consider that more of a yellow flag. He had some comments about work that's expected to be completed in off hours because "there's not enough time during the day" (this was regarding manuscript writing, which you can argue isn't technically required of the employee? As far as I can tell they really only publish if the employee wants to keep up their publication record and takes the initiative in their own time to prepare it. This wouldn't be strange in academia but it does seem a little off for industry, but what do I know). This and some of the other comments they've made have been kind of red flags for their work/life balance expectations. After my second interview (where I gave a 40 min technical presentation) they reposted the job on LinkedIn and I pretty much wrote them off and felt really good about not getting it. A month later he surprised me by reaching out for a third meeting. He said he wanted to arrange some one-on-one meetings between me and his team to talk to each other about our research and see if personalities were a good fit. Either he didn't explain it well or changed his mind because it wasn't a one-on-one, he was on the call the entire time, and it was formatted like an interview and not a conversation like I thought it would be. I don't know if he was worried where unsupervised conversations would lead? It might be worth noting that the company has really poor reviews online on glassdoor and other sites, but those are mostly ratings from technician positions. That might not be relevant for this particular department but it was disappointing to see.

Way back in the first interview they asked about my availability to come for an in-person visit, so maybe that will be the next step after they talk to references? I know that I would absolutely not commit to this job without getting to have real one-on-one meetings with some of the team, even if it's just over zoom. An in-person visit would be nice to sus out the situation but I'm kind of doubting that will happen. I would have to move halfway across the country and be alone in a very conservative area, so the location is a deterrent. I asked about salary ranges in my first interview and he said that he didn't know, which is maybe a yellow flag? Either he does know and it's low so he didn't want to say, or they have a good budget for it but want people to under negotiate, maybe.

Anyway, that's a lot of words to say I'm pretty sure I might get an offer for this job and I really hope that I don't. I'm in the early/mid stages of review for a state job that I would 100% prefer to this one, but I don't know for sure how that will all end up yet. If Job A does offer to me, I might have to turn them down and just hope for good news from Job B. The hiring manager emphasized that I'm one of their few final candidates, but I'm praying they'll offer to the other(s) instead. I hate the thought of turning anything down right now but my gut feeling is that this job is a bad idea.
Man this sounds almost exactly like the first company I worked for, but I know I was in a different field 😅
Agreed with above about hella red flags. I might have suggested accepting for the short term while waiting for something else, except for the part about having to move a long ways. That seems like a recipe for being financially locked into a terrible situation
 
Soooooooo the $100k relocation/sign on bonus that a hospital in my home state is offering (for boarded specialists) is a red flag, huh?
Yes. This is reminiscent of the $75k+ bonuses Banfield was offering for a while in the 2016-2018 era, or somewhere around there. They were sooooo desperate. If you are the type that can stick it out through anything for a few years, go for it though. If you know you are the type that's going to want to dip out after 3 months of not being 100% happy, or even 75% happy, don't risk it. I do think a lot of upcoming grads are going to get themselves into pickles for this exact reason.

In our first interview the supervisor/hiring manager prefaced some of his questions with "I know I'm not allowed to ask this, but", and asked about if I'm single, have kids or any family I'd be moving with, etc. I'd consider that more of a yellow flag.
No, this is definitely a red flag
I asked about salary ranges in my first interview and he said that he didn't know, which is maybe a yellow flag?
And another red flag. This is something I've learned myself. It is absolutely not unreasonable for a potential employee to ask (and be told) what they would be paid before they go through the rigmarole of 3-4 job interviews, travel to said interviews, time spent, etc. A company/person playing dumb about the salary, or just flat out not wanting to tell you (in my situation, I was told "we want you to want the job regardless of the salary!") has no intentions of being competitive in the job market. The interviewer knows that salary will make a person want to dip out potentially, so they want you to be roped in and invested before they eventually drop the bomb that the salary actually sucks. Especially considering the fact that you've already been told by this company that you're also expected to volunteer for them in your free time.
 
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I have my OSCE tomorrow at 1:40pm until like 5:30. I've been waiting all week to just take this damn exam and it's been so tough just sitting at home practicing a little bit and trying to keep myself busy all week. It was fun the first couple days cuz I was like wow I basically have a 2 week long spring break rn but at this point I just wanna get it over with 😭 I'm dreading it but my friend said they had some killer snacks LOL so hopefully that will help
 
I have my OSCE tomorrow at 1:40pm until like 5:30. I've been waiting all week to just take this damn exam and it's been so tough just sitting at home practicing a little bit and trying to keep myself busy all week. It was fun the first couple days cuz I was like wow I basically have a 2 week long spring break rn but at this point I just wanna get it over with 😭 I'm dreading it but my friend said they had some killer snacks LOL so hopefully that will help
Commiserating because I was also in the last group to go for for one of my OSCEs and it was the worrrrrst. Everyone had already left town and gone home for break and I was still just waiting to take that damn exam.
 
Commiserating because I was also in the last group to go for for one of my OSCEs and it was the worrrrrst. Everyone had already left town and gone home for break and I was still just waiting to take that damn exam.
I hope it also doesn't mean we get worse snacks lol. My friend went on Monday so who knows, but I feel like I should at least be compensated for taking it last with a danish 😂

I'm also last-last because my first station is a break :beaver: which is why I said I start around 1:40 instead of 1:30 like the rest of the people. So I'm gonna get there early and sit around anxiously for an additional 12 minutes lol
 
I hope it also doesn't mean we get worse snacks lol. My friend went on Monday so who knows, but I feel like I should at least be compensated for taking it last with a danish 😂

I'm also last-last because my first station is a break :beaver: which is why I said I start around 1:40 instead of 1:30 like the rest of the people. So I'm gonna get there early and sit around anxiously for an additional 12 minutes lol
Now I'm having flashbacks to that stupid exam :laugh: . Half of the stations had instructors that did not care, the other half had instructors that would put their full body weight on your suture line until the suture literally snapped (true story) and then fail you on that station as a result lol.
 
I have my OSCE tomorrow at 1:40pm until like 5:30. I've been waiting all week to just take this damn exam and it's been so tough just sitting at home practicing a little bit and trying to keep myself busy all week. It was fun the first couple days cuz I was like wow I basically have a 2 week long spring break rn but at this point I just wanna get it over with 😭 I'm dreading it but my friend said they had some killer snacks LOL so hopefully that will help
Oh man that's rough, ours are like 20-30 minutes total 💀
 
Now I'm having flashbacks to that stupid exam :laugh: . Half of the stations had instructors that did not care, the other half had instructors that would put their full body weight on your suture line until the suture literally snapped (true story) and then fail you on that station as a result lol.
Sounds like the anatomy palpation quizzes lol. Some instructors let you get a redo and others were like drill sergeants
 
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Upset with my performance on an OSCE station today. It's a skill I literally said I *wanted* to get because I know I can do it well. 5 minutes + sweaty and shaky hands did me no favors. I don't want to have to resit : (
Update, I passed?????? I'm buying a lottery ticket and a nice ramen dinner tonight.
 
Yep! Just a few 5-10 minute stations usually. It doesn't cover every single skill we learn though, just a randomized handful.
I think later years go a bit longer.
Yea ours is also randomized and not every skill, but it's a lot of them. This is crazy to me lol
 
I hope it also doesn't mean we get worse snacks lol. My friend went on Monday so who knows, but I feel like I should at least be compensated for taking it last with a danish 😂

I'm also last-last because my first station is a break :beaver: which is why I said I start around 1:40 instead of 1:30 like the rest of the people. So I'm gonna get there early and sit around anxiously for an additional 12 minutes lol
I had mine on Monday second year and Thursday last year, and the snack options were good both times! They also had a nice little spot with activity books (coloring, crosswords, etc) where you can spend your breaks.
 
I would nope out of this regardless of what happens with the other one, to be honest. Some of the flags you're calling yellow, I would call large and red. You deserve better than this job.

I honestly don't see anything positive about this job A other than it's a paycheck, and that's really telling tbh.

That is a hell to the no. All the red flags. absolutely not

Man this sounds almost exactly like the first company I worked for, but I know I was in a different field 😅
Agreed with above about hella red flags. I might have suggested accepting for the short term while waiting for something else, except for the part about having to move a long ways. That seems like a recipe for being financially locked into a terrible situation
No, this is definitely a red flag

And another red flag. This is something I've learned myself. It is absolutely not unreasonable for a potential employee to ask (and be told) what they would be paid before they go through the rigmarole of 3-4 job interviews, travel to said interviews, time spent, etc. A company/person playing dumb about the salary, or just flat out not wanting to tell you (in my situation, I was told "we want you to want the job regardless of the salary!") has no intentions of being competitive in the job market. The interviewer knows that salary will make a person want to dip out potentially, so they want you to be roped in and invested before they eventually drop the bomb that the salary actually sucks. Especially considering the fact that you've already been told by this company that you're also expected to volunteer for them in your free time.
Thank you everyone for validating my fears! I've felt so guilty about not being excited for this, like I should be grateful while I'm actually dreading it. I'm feeling a lot better about saying no if they offer. ❤️
 
Aaaand I literally just got an offer this morning for the red flag job. I reached out to my university's career center for advice about how to handle this. They invited me out for an in person visit but it seems like they expect/want a yes before then? I can try to arrange a visit without giving an answer, and my current work schedule has me booked until the end of the month, so that buys some time too. Just ugh, I really wanted them to go with someone else.
 
Aaaand I literally just got an offer this morning for the red flag job. I reached out to my university's career center for advice about how to handle this. They invited me out for an in person visit but it seems like they expect/want a yes before then? I can try to arrange a visit without giving an answer, and my current work schedule has me booked until the end of the month, so that buys some time too. Just ugh, I really wanted them to go with someone else.
I don't think you should spend time or money on an in-person visit for a job you know you're not going to take. You can just tell them that you've had another opportunity come up and thank them for their consideration, but you politely decline at this time.
 
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