I'm soooo relieved and happy right now. After discussing my frustrations with my school's VTH last week on here and then with some other people, I decided that I would seek out one last opinion.
So, I made plan to have a second opinion today, and talk to the Dr who was originally doing her biopsy, yesterday, because I had not actually spoken with her directly about just forgoing surgery's recommendations and just taking it off.
So I did call the Dr at the VTH yesterday, and she did explicitly say she couldn't do it, but didn't explicitly say she could since she hadn't seen it. Which makes sense, but it didn't really help me make a decision.
Anyways, we went to the other clinic today and it was perfect! The Dr heard me out, agreed with my decision, and is confident about doing the procedure. I got a very fair estimate and now she is scheduled for next week to have it removed.
@Caiter92 @MixedAnimals77