I live 20 min from campus, not too far from Blue Springs actually,and I don't regret it. Every situation is different, and as a parent I certainly understand some of the things you need to take into consideration. School district quality is at the top of the list and the school district around campus is not the best.
I have been in KC for more than a decade and used to commute 45 min one way to school, so I know what winter can do to your route, I still don't think 20 min is bad.
Anyway, any one is free to pm me,especially people with family weighing options including good school districts