Too bad the ignore fx doesn't include preventing the unhelpful, negative comments to the person/s to which you seek to ignore.
Southern isn't fair in what he has stated or he misunderstood, but he has been on the malicious side w/ others in the past.
It's not necessarily the best advice for this OP to cut his/her loses. I see that response so often here, but it can be a bit whimsical/fickle how such advice is given or to whom it is given. ???
If a person is truly innocent and will have to report an IA, why should he/she not take steps to try and correct the situation? SMH
The other issue, which somehow came up in here and that has come up on SDN a number of times, w/ totally incorrect responses, i
s that expungement isn't really a real thing and can't be used upon application. This is untrue. It truly depends. Don't take my word. Seek out experienced legal counsel and research on it. Don't just listen to one lawyer either. I haven't on the issue, but in terms of the specifics, the main lawyer I have referenced is supported by his legal colleagues and apparently a judge.
Yes, I take some umbrage at the implication that my highly knowledgeable and respected attorney friend of many decades and his colleagues and a judge as well are basically being told through my interaction here that they are full of crap. I have also posted other information on it. Surly Southern Surgeon is just throwing a bomb and running away. And now, once more, you have added to such behavior.
Again, I stand by the expungement issue, even as unrelated as it is--but people have taken it to be r/t the school situation. As an aside, it was brought in, and people are often so quick to say on SDN that there is no such thing legally, or at least in functionality it doesn't work or you are a liar. This is not true, and indeed, they are completely wrong. They proceed to tell people that a person cannot assert what a completed expungement says that you can legally assert. Again, they are wrong, and need to research this further, keeping in mind the governing states and the specifics.
With regard to negative polarizing attitudes, this is what I am talking about.
Disagree respectfully. It is understood that it may be a bit more difficult for some post-pubescent pre-meds to do this, but experienced, professional adults that are advisors not caring to do this? It blows my mind. But it indeed reflects the power of personal bias.
Re: this thread, injustices do occur, and if this person was treated wrongly, hopefully he or she will find the right path.
I believe you are one of the person's whose advice was basically, "Too bad. Give up your aspirations." I am wondering if this is what you would advise for a loved one IF he or she was truly innocent and being given a scarlet letter w/o cause?
About the "in-house" issue at the school, yes, in some cases, lawyers can influence schools to correct or find a resolution to the situation from the inside. We indeed have processes that step outside of inside administrative operations.
Are they difficult to win? Yes. I
NEVER said otherwise. Given the fact that the person is caught in such a fix, he/she may have to do what he/she may have to do. Whether he can afford to do so or he/she is able to find the right attorney or there is too much that is not in his favor for him to pursue this legally after all the inside processes are completed
is something only s/he and her/his attorney can decide. We can't make this decision. We aren't privy to the details, and indeed, as I have shared with the OP, enough of the matter has already been shared online.
I do not believe in rewarding cheaters.
I also do not believe in punishing innocent people. Wow! How insane is that?
I am not one to cower in fear over the "Lords of Institutions and Organizations." I believe in being respectful of/to them, but I don't believe people should just play doormats in wrongful situations either.
Sir, if you have bias toward me, which clearly you do, be decent and keep it to yourself.
If you have taken the initiative to put me on ignore,
I wonder then how you could take the initiative and time to call me out in a negative way openly?
Exactly what is the point in doing so if you have already placed me on ignore? It doesn't make sense,
except to help poison and polarize others on the board against me.
BTW, I asked the person (SS) to whom you responded to point out where I am wrong. Of course,
he threw his bomb and ran off w/o stating clearly why he believes what he has said.
Lizzy, OTOH, kindly and respectfully replied w/ her perspective, and I do not entirely disagree with her. There are separate issues that have been twisted in here, and I have tried to separate them out, as I have, again above.
Of course school administrators don't want students to go outside the dominion of the system. And if things can be resolved fairly in house, so much the better for everyone. There is no question that one must surely follow the system in place and not miss a beat in the academic administrative policies and the deadlines.
I have said that repeatedly to the OP.
Martin Luther King, Jr has rightly stated,
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."
They preach in schools and government about social justice. Striving to do justly for all people should be a priority for us all, regardless of who we are, what we do for a living, or where we work or live or school.
Finally, sad thing about SSurg is that I had just taken him off ignore, b/c no one is perfect, people misunderstand each other often online, and
sometimes a rest is all that is needed, and eventually you find that even when people hide behind anonymity they may eventually show themselves to be human. Also, it is not in my nature to hold grudges. I am careful about people; but I don't hold judges.
But If he wants to be a surly sort of fellow and carry on that way, that's fine. He can choose to use the ignore feature as well, as you also have chosen to use the selectively surly approach with me.
Since, however,
you have put me on ignore, do us both a favor and keep such comments within the limits of pm-ing w/ others. You and SS or others can talks amongst yourselves against in pm-mode.
There is no need to openly comment about someone whom you have chosen to put on ignore.