I'm all here for all the empathetic black ears responding. Double conciousness is real. Everyone that is saying "don't care what people think, do what makes you happy" doesn't really grasp it...
Ofcourse do what makes you happy, but mental health is important too and having to constantly combat those stigmas will have its toll ... I mean there will always be stigmas and misguided assumptions, but you know yourself and how much these stigmas have weighed on your past...whatever you can do to minimize them and stay happy, do it...I'd go with the MD.