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Hi everyone,
New to the forum here, so first, hi and thanks for any advice.
I’m currently dating a third year neurosurgery resident. Having seen his schedule, I can really try and understand/appreciate whatever time he can make for me. This usually consists of me going to his place or vice versa and him falling asleep ha!
My boyfriend is a little older at 32, and he made his goals very clear to me on our first date, ie he’s looking for marriage, children, staying in this current city. Since then we’ve been seeing each other maybe 2-3 times a week (him falling asleep), and I am kind of okay with this sort of non-traditional dating.
So I am wondering if any of you have experience dating a surgical/neurosurg resident? I know his hours are demanding, but it seems that he moved very quickly to lock me down and now does the bare minimum..we have talked about this before and he says he’ll try to communicate better but he hardly checks in. Plans are always last minute if there are any. He never refuses to talk if I ask, and he is always kind and patient to me and I get that I’ll always be on the backburner so to speak..but any advice?
New to the forum here, so first, hi and thanks for any advice.
I’m currently dating a third year neurosurgery resident. Having seen his schedule, I can really try and understand/appreciate whatever time he can make for me. This usually consists of me going to his place or vice versa and him falling asleep ha!
My boyfriend is a little older at 32, and he made his goals very clear to me on our first date, ie he’s looking for marriage, children, staying in this current city. Since then we’ve been seeing each other maybe 2-3 times a week (him falling asleep), and I am kind of okay with this sort of non-traditional dating.
So I am wondering if any of you have experience dating a surgical/neurosurg resident? I know his hours are demanding, but it seems that he moved very quickly to lock me down and now does the bare minimum..we have talked about this before and he says he’ll try to communicate better but he hardly checks in. Plans are always last minute if there are any. He never refuses to talk if I ask, and he is always kind and patient to me and I get that I’ll always be on the backburner so to speak..but any advice?