That's because the labelers suck, not the labelees. You have very little idea how many people women are sleeping with. It's likely that your only source is national averages if you've even consulted those at all (and those averages don't indicate that most people are sleeping with 20 partners in their LIFETIMES, let alone up until their 20's). Even if you asked, do you think you would get a real answer? You probably wouldn't because people like you continue to label people who have frequent sex with multiple partners as sluts.
No I don't have very little idea. You clearly must never have been in a big social circle, let alone multiple ones. The reason a lot of girls don't get kill counts of over 20 is cause they get into long term relationships from younger ages.
If you seriously think ones who stay single most of the time into their 20s don't have well over 20 partners...
A men's health magazine a couple years back did an anonymous poll for women over 30 and found 60% of them have had over 20+ sex partners (keep in mind that's full sexual intercourse, not including other stuff).
And with regard to the past, we don't have any idea how many sexual partners were normal historically. Did people get married and stay married? Yes, most of the time. Did people have pieces on the side? Yes, there's been some evidence of that. Do we know HOW MANY pieces? No. So those kinds of assumptions are somewhat ridiculous.
Of course we can't know how many people had in the past.
I'm baffled by the notion that you think children will be happier living with parents in an unhealthy marriage than with two parents who are healthily and happily separated. Care to weigh in?
Also, we're not only talking about couples with children. Do you think those couples should stay married?
Couples without children who aren't happy should break up if they can fix their issues or if it isn't a phase that'll pass.
And what do you define as an unhealthy marriage for kids? I don't see why indian or muslim kids have "issues" due to their parents being unhappy together in therr arranged marriage. Are you suggesting such kids have major problems?
In contrast to girls who develop daddy issues cause their mom brings home a different guy every month (actually have had a couple girls tell me that bothered them) or guys who grow up without a constant father figure in their life.
And with regard to alimony, men only get punished if their incomes are greater than their wives' incomes. Thus, alimony is really just a result of our society's encouraging women to get married and have children instead of working.
It's stupid to divide total income by half.
But there's nothing wrong with what society encourages. If you have kids, you need to raise them. What happens when you have a 17 year old son and 15 year old daughter, and you're at work 8am till 7pm at night? Chances are your daughter's hanging out with swag-***s and blowing some of them here and there, and your son's smoking pot with his bros.
Again, still baffled by the notion that you ascribe your sexual experience to everyone else.
Well for 1) It's very common to hear guys say condom use kills the pleasure and 2) how can you have maximum pleasure when you don't even know what the other person likes?
These are typical things, not limited to me.
If we're talking about alcohol and drug use, fine. But we're not. We're talking solely about people having sex with multiple partners, and you're conflating drugs and sex, two things which are not intrinsically related. Yes, if people take drugs, they're more likely to have unprotected sex.
Yea cause I'm sure people remain celibate at parties.. clubs.. bars.
You kill me with how naive you are.
I don't really know any girls who have had casual sex all sober aside from ones with friends with benefits type of things. All girls have told me that if they weren't drunk, they'd never do a lot of things and/or even have casual sex.
If you don't think there's a major correlation between the two, you have no experience in this matter.
Are you equally grossed out by men having multiple sexual partners? If you are, then that's fine. You can seek people out who fit your standard of an appropriate partner and you'll hopefully uphold those same standards yourself. If not, think a little harder.
4.5..6..partners.. nothing wrong. Beyond that, I don't hold double standards.