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Hey Everyone,
Okay, I am sure almost everyone has been through this boat, if you haven't good for you and hopefully you never sail this ship, but my question is very simple, how do you deal with the competition around you? It seems like almost everyone wants to get into medical school, and the competition is extremely high, we all know that. I also know that some people try to decrease the competition by putting others down, or try to over exaggerate their MCAT scores or grades, to direct their friends to the DO route, because it helps them in the long run. I have met many like that, and although now I am not as worried as I was before, because I won't be taking the traditional route anyway, but I did notice a lot of inferiority complex, self-doubts and depression amongst many pre-meds, medical students, and doctors as well, and there is no support group or any sign of positive motivation for a lot of premeds, including advisors who basically try to do the same so that the best 4.0 students with perfect scores get in medical schools and those who may fail to make the mark are told to find something else. I want to know how you all deal with this extreme competition, and how do you guys try to be positive and not self-doubt when you see your peers doing way better than you, or you don't match your own expectations sometimes?
NOTE: Please be kind, I don't want answers like, "Well if you aren't 4.0 you shouldn't become a doctor," or "Well if you get discouraged you shouldn't be in this field.' Most of us have been through this, and I feel like staying positive and encouraging others helps us encourage ourselves.
Okay, I am sure almost everyone has been through this boat, if you haven't good for you and hopefully you never sail this ship, but my question is very simple, how do you deal with the competition around you? It seems like almost everyone wants to get into medical school, and the competition is extremely high, we all know that. I also know that some people try to decrease the competition by putting others down, or try to over exaggerate their MCAT scores or grades, to direct their friends to the DO route, because it helps them in the long run. I have met many like that, and although now I am not as worried as I was before, because I won't be taking the traditional route anyway, but I did notice a lot of inferiority complex, self-doubts and depression amongst many pre-meds, medical students, and doctors as well, and there is no support group or any sign of positive motivation for a lot of premeds, including advisors who basically try to do the same so that the best 4.0 students with perfect scores get in medical schools and those who may fail to make the mark are told to find something else. I want to know how you all deal with this extreme competition, and how do you guys try to be positive and not self-doubt when you see your peers doing way better than you, or you don't match your own expectations sometimes?
NOTE: Please be kind, I don't want answers like, "Well if you aren't 4.0 you shouldn't become a doctor," or "Well if you get discouraged you shouldn't be in this field.' Most of us have been through this, and I feel like staying positive and encouraging others helps us encourage ourselves.