I've got my #1 squared away but I keep going around in circles with #2-4. It's between UVM, Dartmouth, and Maine Medical Center. Things that are important to me are psychotherapy training, I'm 50/50 on CAP fellowship, and good schools for my kids. I want to be with an enthusiastic, hardworking group of residents and with attendings who are collegial and passionate about what they do. I don't care about prestige per se, but don't want to close too many doors. I see myself working in an academic setting in an administrative or educational capacity in the future.
UVM: I loved this program, the residents, attendings, PD, PC all seemed so happy to be there. I love Burlington and would love to live there. Lucrative moonlighting opportunities. Cons are basically just that my partner may have some difficulty finding employment and school options are less good than some other places (but not bad).
Maine: I was surprised how much I liked MMC. Most beloved program-coordinator of any program I interviewed at. Everyone was really nice and down to earth, residents were unanimously happy to have ended up there. I got on great with the PD and am interested int he work he does with BPD patients. Portland is great. Public schools seem ok, but there is an incredible private school option that we would consider trying to make work financially.
Dartmouth: I liked this program but it didn't "feel" as right as the other two. Beautiful main hospital on a beautiful campus. A lot of the residents seemed kind of down and depressed (but it was a gloomy, rainy winter day when I was there). The faculty were all very nice, but not terribly enthusiastic. I have some concerns regarding the fact that there is no involuntary commitment except at the state hospital; not sure exactly how that shapes training there. Public school here are probably some of the best in the country.
Would appreciate any tidbits of insight, particularly if anyone has any different impressions of these programs. I feel like it might be difficult to really get an accurate feel for a place in once day. Thanks!