Honestly, you're going to learn IR in IR fellowship. You're going to learn the basics of needle control and maybe get a few research papers in residency. Make your SO happy. Happy wife (or husband, but it doesn't rhyme)= happy life >>>> IR-centered residency program.
Edit: I'm not saying to go to a bad program to make your SO happy. If I had a choice to make a compromise, I'd go as far as mediocre in both IR and DR to make my SO happy. You've got better options than that on all of your choices. If you're having a hard time deciding, that means that you probably liked all of those programs.
From my experience, it felt like Cincinnati was the "worst" for IR on that list. They put me off a bit with their attitude towards resident education during IR on interview day by basically saying, "Your job is to put in lines." No, my job is to learn the basics of managing patients and needle control, which can be contributed through placing lines, but also should involve drains and assisting on more complex procedures. /endrant