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Veterinary Science Graduate Certificate from UofI
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Bigkittenteef, I hope you know that if you need anything from us all here, all you have to do is ask. No joke; if there's anything we can do, let us know! (I am not opposed to putting homemade cookies in the mail!)

You're amazing to have gone through so much already and to still be so selfless as to consider the needs of your brother and sister before your own. Your family doesn't deserve to go through all this. I hope for a bit of sunshine in your lives soon. You deserve that!
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Thank you everyone for your kind words. I truly appreciate them.
 
Bigkittenteef - I'm sorry about your dad. I went through the same with my father about 5-6 years ago. I know it's hard. I hope you'll be able to talk to him plainly about what role he wants you to have with your siblings in the future. Perhaps he'll have some suggestions for help from relatives so you don't have to forego vet school. I know this is a hard time for you and hope you come through it with a clear idea of how to proceed.
 
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NordiCat said:
Bigkittenteef, I hope you know that if you need anything from us all here, all you have to do is ask. No joke; if there's anything we can do, let us know! (I am not opposed to putting homemade cookies in the mail!)

You're amazing to have gone through so much already and to still be so selfless as to consider the needs of your brother and sister before your own. Your family doesn't deserve to go through all this. I hope for a bit of sunshine in your lives soon. You deserve that!
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Thank you Nordicat. That is so sweet of you to offer. I'll let you know if ever I am in dire need of delicious cookies. :)
 
Bisbee said:
Bigkittenteef - I'm sorry about your dad. I went through the same with my father about 5-6 years ago. I know it's hard. I hope you'll be able to talk to him plainly about what role he wants you to have with your siblings in the future. Perhaps he'll have some suggestions for help from relatives so you don't have to forego vet school. I know this is a hard time for you and hope you come through it with a clear idea of how to proceed.
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I'm sorry you had to go through this already. We don't have family nearby so my little sister would have to move away from her boyfriend of 2 years, her friends, her school all after losing both parents. I can't justify going to vet school if I can make her happier in this terrible situation. I'm going to call the schools and see what my options are. Maybe they will be willing to work something out with me. Unfortunately, the schools I've applied to say they don't allow deferment (except for RVC) which scares me. I'm afraid of applying again and not getting in. My dad doesn't want me to defer for this reason. He is so proud of me for getting into vet school and literally tells anyone that will listen. I feel horribly caught between making 2 people I love happy. Despite everything, I believe I will still somehow become a vet. It's just going to be an issue of how and when now.
 
bigkittinteef said:
I just found out that my dad has cancer. It's all over his body and has begun to attack his liver. I already lost my mom to pancreatic cancer when I was 15 and now I'm going to lose my dad at 22. I am 2 quarters from graduating and now I'm probably going to leave school, and move home to take care of my dad as well as my little brother and sister. After my mom died, I worked so hard to get into vet school and now I think I am going to have to give that up at least until my little sister can graduate high school. I just can't believe this is happening again to my family. We work hard and give freely. The worst part is my dad is already talking about his will and what he wants us all to have, because I think he's given up. I'm not ready to say goodbye to him.
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i am SO sorry bitkittinteef :( it's a hard position to be in, i can't even begin to imagine how you feel.

*big hug*
 
I'm so sorry to hear your news, bigkittinteef -- will be thinking of you. I hope you will be able to work something out regarding vet school. It doesn't hurt to call them; this is an extenuating circumstance, so they might be able to work with you. I am sure that your dad must be immensely proud of you for all that you have done, and are doing. Take care, and know that we're here to help if you need it.
 
My thoughts are with you during this heart breaking time. I couldn't imagine dealing with this. Stupid f*ck'n cancer!
 
I am so sorry! Even if you end up sacrificing vet school for a few years to help out your family, you should never give up on it if it is your dream. Once everything is settled down in a few years, you should definitely try again. You will have amazing life experiences to share and I can more than bet veterinary schools will admire you and look past the time gap. But do what makes you happy! You are so strong and I admire you. :thumbup:
 
Bigkittinteef, I'm so sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sister during this difficult time.
 
So sorry bigkittinteef. :(

You are already a much stronger person that I could hope to be after already losing one parent. My thoughts are with you and your family through this troubling time.

I'm with everyone else, you are such a big person for putting your dreams on hold for the sake of your siblings, and you should not EVER give up on your dreams. You've already made it in once, and you know, if this isn't a good reason for a couple years between application cycles, I don't know what is. Keep up hope. :)

Who knows, maybe your little sister can move in with her boyfriend's parents (or something) so you can both have the best of each of your worlds. Just talk to her about it, I can't imagine that your sister would want you to give up your dream so she can keep hers. She must be very mature for her age with such events having already happened in her life. With both her and your dad's encouragement to still go to vet school this year, wouldn't you want to make them both happy and proud? :)
 
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bigkittinteef - I am so very very sorry to hear this. :( I hope that your father remains comfortable, and that there is something that can be done to prolong his life with quality... My godfather had a bout with metastatic lung cancer about 6 years ago - it had already affected several areas of his body prior to his diagnosis. They were able to remove one lung and chemo treatments allowed him to live a few more years free of issue with what he considered to be good life quality. Thus, I continue to have hope for all patients with cancer regardless of how bad the picture is.

My thoughts will be with you and your family during this difficult time; and I also hope that your extended family will be able to bring you and your sister comfort and peace throughout this ordeal.
 
And don't look at your dad talking about his will as him giving up. He is probably just trying to be responsible and make sure you girls are taken care of. I know it is hard to not feel that way, but I'm sure he wants to do what is best for you.
 
Bigkittenteef - I will say a prayer for you and your family tonight. I wish you the best of luck with getting in contact with the vet schools.
 
I'm so so sorry Bigkittenreef. This must be an awful time for you. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
Sorry to hear about your Dad Bigkittinteef. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
 
we <3 you, bigkittenteef... we are all here for you... i'm so terribly sorry this is happening to you and your family. the world is testing your strength- because it has bigger plans for you...
 
Bigkittenteef, I am so sorry about your dad's diagnosis. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your sister. Your dream of becoming a vet wil absolutly come true (You got into every school you applied to this cycle!). Once you are ready I am certain that you will either be admitted again or allowed to come back after a defferment. Whether you will become a vet should not even be a concern because you are already such a strong candidate.

Take this time to be with your family and try not to let the other pressures of life affect you too much. You are an incredible person and we are all here for you. Hugs
 
Sorry to hear this news, Bigkittinteef. You must be an incredibly strong person to already be thinking about what you're going to do to make things easier on your siblings - I applaud and admire that.

Also, every time I read your username I smile - it just makes me think of all sorts of stinkin' adorable things.

*hugs*
 
I am so sorry to hear about your dad Bigkittinteef! You've been through so much already. As difficult as it may seem, try not to give up on your dreams. I know there is much to consider, but I'm positive that everything will work out in your favor. Keep your chin up.

I don't know you, but I can tell what a strong person you are. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 
bigkittinteef I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts
 
bigkittinteef said:
I just found out that my dad has cancer. It's all over his body and has begun to attack his liver. I already lost my mom to pancreatic cancer when I was 15 and now I'm going to lose my dad at 22. I am 2 quarters from graduating and now I'm probably going to leave school, and move home to take care of my dad as well as my little brother and sister. After my mom died, I worked so hard to get into vet school and now I think I am going to have to give that up at least until my little sister can graduate high school. I just can't believe this is happening again to my family. We work hard and give freely. The worst part is my dad is already talking about his will and what he wants us all to have, because I think he's given up. I'm not ready to say goodbye to him.
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I feel you. I found out last night my dad probably has late-stage colon cancer. it frustrates me because he's been having symptoms for a while and was too afraid to go to the doctor...which is the same thing that happened to his mom, who ALSO died of colon cancer. I can't imagine having already lost my mom and going through this, but I know how much it sucks right now...I am also considering taking a personal leave of absence for this semester, depending on what his final prognosis is. Keep your head up, I know it's hard, but that's what everyone keeps telling me...feel free to PM me if you want to talk.
 
MSUSpartan - I am sorry to hear that your father also has cancer. I wish you lots of support as you go through this difficult time.
 
MSUspartan and bigkittinteef: I am sooo sorry to hear the news about your fathers. I can't even begin to imagine what either of you must be going through. My thoughts are with both you and your families. *hug*
 
Just a teeny tiny rant.

I missed writing my GRE because I was not feeling well. Doctor thought it was a cold but swabbed my throat anyway. A few days after I am feeling better, I get a call from the doctor. I had strep. She wanted me on antibiotics because apparently untreated strep can cause some nasty things.
I pick up my script on Monday. All is well. Yesterday, my stomach was sore. I had a class and a lab back to back so I thought it was because I was hungry. So I ate before going to the gym but still felt like crap. I was in pain when I got up this morning. This evening I had chest pain and my stomach was killing me. I go and get the little pamphlet that came with the drugs and upset stomach is a side effect. Back to the doctor for me tomorrow. I am getting sick and tired of doctors and specialists poking at my body. I have a new semester ahead of me with challenging courses. I just want to be well.
 
The support on this forum is truly incredible. I am completely moved by the kindness and compassion that is so freely offered here. Thank you everyone, so very much.

MSU, I am so sorry to hear about your father. Keep your chin up, and do whatever feels right to you. Time off may be a good decision for the sake of both your emotional health as well as your continued success in vet school. At the end of the day, only you can know what is best for you in this situation. Most importantly, I hope you have loving family and friends to support you throughout this difficult time. The offer is mutual, PM me anytime.

Trematode, I'm sorry you keep having these health issues. It can be so frustrating, especially during school. If your stomach hurts when you are on antibiotics, you should eat probiotic foods like yogurt. Broad-spectrum antibiotics kill good bacteria in your stomach/intestines causing the issues you are experiencing. Yogurt should really help. :)
 
Bigkittin & MSU : so sorry to hear about both of you. I can't even imagine what you are going through, my thoughts are with you :(
 
MSU - love & hugs. I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I wish you all of the best during this difficult time :biglove: Do whatever feels best for you. If you need the time away from school, take it if you can.

Trematode said:
I pick up my script on Monday. All is well. Yesterday, my stomach was sore. I had a class and a lab back to back so I thought it was because I was hungry. So I ate before going to the gym but still felt like crap. I was in pain when I got up this morning. This evening I had chest pain and my stomach was killing me. I go and get the little pamphlet that came with the drugs and upset stomach is a side effect. Back to the doctor for me tomorrow. I am getting sick and tired of doctors and specialists poking at my body. I have a new semester ahead of me with challenging courses. I just want to be well.
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Oh, Trema, I hear ya! Do your best and take time to recover. I know the being carted from place to place also sucks in a big way. My personal favorite frustration is when all of the health professionals contradict one another AND try to one-up the other person. "Oh, he said this. I know him personally. He's an idiot." "You can't handle that dosage of medicine, you're going to develop stomach bleeding!" "Um, yeah, here's 3 scripts. And one extra for luck. If those don't work, come back for another appointment and I'll hand you as many scripts as you like. Just tip your receptionist on the way out." :rolleyes:

Minor rant grumble: one year ago, I dealt with "chronic dry eye" for over a month (then the migraines took center stage and the depression spiral kicked in too). At which point, my glasses broke and I buckled down to contact wearage again (one eye doctor told me I should get my eyes cured with lasik). My eye pain is back full throttle. Like clockwork, I swear....:hungover: At least it's ALMOST the weekend. I've got a lot of sleep to catch up on!
 
MSUspartan said:
I feel you. I found out last night my dad probably has late-stage colon cancer. it frustrates me because he's been having symptoms for a while and was too afraid to go to the doctor...which is the same thing that happened to his mom, who ALSO died of colon cancer. I can't imagine having already lost my mom and going through this, but I know how much it sucks right now...I am also considering taking a personal leave of absence for this semester, depending on what his final prognosis is. Keep your head up, I know it's hard, but that's what everyone keeps telling me...feel free to PM me if you want to talk.
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I'm so sorry:(. I know we don't talk often, but let me know if you need anything.
 
Trematode said:
Just a teeny tiny rant.

I missed writing my GRE because I was not feeling well. Doctor thought it was a cold but swabbed my throat anyway. A few days after I am feeling better, I get a call from the doctor. I had strep. She wanted me on antibiotics because apparently untreated strep can cause some nasty things.
I pick up my script on Monday. All is well. Yesterday, my stomach was sore. I had a class and a lab back to back so I thought it was because I was hungry. So I ate before going to the gym but still felt like crap. I was in pain when I got up this morning. This evening I had chest pain and my stomach was killing me. I go and get the little pamphlet that came with the drugs and upset stomach is a side effect. Back to the doctor for me tomorrow. I am getting sick and tired of doctors and specialists poking at my body. I have a new semester ahead of me with challenging courses. I just want to be well.
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This just happened to my boyfriend's mom. It sounds awful. I would stop the abx and call your doctor. I'm sure there is an alternative. But, bigkittinteef suggested yogurt- I heard it helps:thumbup:
 
I wanted to send a cute text to my bf saying "11:11 and I wish for you" .... but accidentally sent it to my manager instead...
 
nyanko said:
ok sorry but that is hilarious :laugh:
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"...yeah I really wish our profits are up this quarter!"
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She didn't answer. Hahaha. But she's usually pretty cool, so I doubt she'll say something about it. But when I saw her name instead of my bf's, my heart did stop for just a second. Hahaha
 
Bigkitten and MSU, I'm so sorry to hear about your fathers. Having a mom who was terminally ill, I will tell you that as difficult as it can be, it can also be a true blessing to have TIME with them. It was the best, most special and memorable 12 months of my life and I've been told it was hers too. Times like these will forever change you, but you will be ok in the end.

Bigkitten, talk to the schools...many of them don't want to publicly offer a deferment, but will work on a case-by-case basis, especially for something like this. Edin does allow deferments, btw.

My thoughts are with you both and I'm wishing you the absolute best. Your lives will eventually return to normal, I promise.
 
Thanks for the tips :)
I broke plans with my friend to see the doctor. He told me I had Type C strep, which is not known to cause any nasty conditions. So I did not need the antibiotics anyway. :bang:. If I ever experience stomach problems again, I will give yogurt a try. I am going to have a nap. I am so sleepy.
 
Trematode said:
Thanks for the tips :)
I broke plans with my friend to see the doctor. He told me I had Type C strep, which is not known to cause any nasty conditions. So I did not need the antibiotics anyway. :bang:. If I ever experience stomach problems again, I will give yogurt a try. I am going to have a nap. I am so sleepy.
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Sometimes sleep is the best medicine. When my migraines aren't so bad that they last into the next day, that sometimes helps! feel better, Trema!
 
MSU and flyhi, I am so sorry about your parents. I wish there was something I could say or do that would make it better. I would do it in a heartbeat!

I know a third year vet student at CSU whose mom has terminal cancer. She lives in another state and I know it kills my friend to only see her on breaks and extended weekends, but like you said flyhi their relationship has grown even stronger and every moment they have with each other is so much more memorable.
 
MSUspartan said:
I feel you. I found out last night my dad probably has late-stage colon cancer. it frustrates me because he's been having symptoms for a while and was too afraid to go to the doctor...which is the same thing that happened to his mom, who ALSO died of colon cancer. I can't imagine having already lost my mom and going through this, but I know how much it sucks right now...I am also considering taking a personal leave of absence for this semester, depending on what his final prognosis is. Keep your head up, I know it's hard, but that's what everyone keeps telling me...feel free to PM me if you want to talk.
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So sorry to hear your news, MSU.
 
i still have no keys to my dorm suite/room. the RA is MIA and I am super grumpy about it! I have stopped by several times between yesterday and today and no answer. i get it, they want to have lives too before school starts, but the RA position is worth about $5 and I don't think it is unreasonable to expect that person to be around during the one week they actually have responsibilities (this isn't like undergrad living where the RA had to police all the time)
 
jmo1012 said:
i still have no keys to my dorm suite/room. the RA is MIA and I am super grumpy about it! I have stopped by several times between yesterday and today and no answer. i get it, they want to have lives too before school starts, but the RA position is worth about $5 and I don't think it is unreasonable to expect that person to be around during the one week they actually have responsibilities (this isn't like undergrad living where the RA had to police all the time)
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I don't feel bad. You can always go sleep on the beach. ;)

...in other news, it's 20 degrees here!
 
sooprnova said:
I don't feel bad. You can always go sleep on the beach. ;)

...in other news, it's 20 degrees here!
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do you know what would happen to me if i went to sleep on the beach? ;) during the day i'd get a blistering sunburn (see oct. posts about sunburn so bad i couldnt wear normal clothes for a week) and at night i'd be feasted upon by the local mosquitoes and get tropical diseases ;)

gosh it's just so hard living on a caribbean island sometimes! ;)
 
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