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katiemcat said:
Just found out I was exposed to CRE 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
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I don’t know that that will get you bed rest…

But that sucks. Sorry Katie+baby!

Edit: now that I made the bedrest joke I’m questioning whether it was you or pp who was talking about bed rest but whatever, lol.
 
i finally got into the APVMA group after seeing yall talk about it mwahahahhaha

first thing i see is someone asking if they should include donating blood on their app 😀
 

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JaynaAli said:
I don’t know that that will get you bed rest…

But that sucks. Sorry Katie+baby!

Edit: now that I made the bedrest joke I’m questioning whether it was you or pp who was talking about bed rest but whatever, lol.
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Haha wasn’t me but I’d sure enjoy it about now. My feet get so swollen running around the hospital 😫

I think I’m okay bc I’ve been very careful about PPE etc since being pregnant but they had to decontaminate and close our ICU
 
HorseObsessed said:
Have you checked a coupon like goodRx yet? I am on a medication that is $1700 a month without insurance, $90 for a month with my insurance, and $30 for three months with a coupon. I never even bother using my insurance, and I have good insurance.
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ESD_2029 said:
Is Nurtec prophylactic not EOD? I take it as a rescue and I'm on Qulipta as a prophylactic. Also, don't go through a major pharmacy (walgreens/CVS/etc), go through a smaller local pharmacy. I've had incredible luck with a local pharmacy (maybe the right term is concierge phramacy?) that also does compounding - they deliver, they apply coupons without me asking 9 times out of 10, and they are very lovely to talk with should an issue arise.
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SkiOtter said:
Try contacting the manufacturer. Sometimes they’re able to give coupons/rebates directly so that you can still get the medication when it’s unaffordable🩷
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SkiOtter said:
Otherwise, your dr may be able to call insurance and fight with them for you so hopefully they’ll cover a full month
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ESD_2029 said:
Yes, I know it can be used as both rescue and preventative, but I was under the impression for a prophylactic dose it was used every other day not daily. That might be why your insurance won't cover 30 of them. Regardless, still try to find a local pharmacy, they're MUCH better to deal with and want to help people stay on their expensive meds.
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Ya’ll are always so helpful and supportive. Thank you very much for your help and kind words. I will try these things!
 
CuriousEventer said:
Definitely an exercise in practicing loving kindness
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i was polite and answered this individuals questions.

they did not understand why they cant apply to veterinary school without an LOR from a vet or any veterinary hours and fully believe that they can get in without it.

it is not a great thread.
 
vampyrica said:
i was polite and answered this individuals questions.

they did not understand why they cant apply to veterinary school without an LOR from a vet or any veterinary hours and fully believe that because they can get in without it.

it is not a great thread.
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Ngl I have seen applicants with 0 (or near 0) vet hours get in.
 
vampyrica said:
i was polite and answered this individuals questions.

they did not understand why they cant apply to veterinary school without an LOR from a vet or any veterinary hours and fully believe that because they can get in without it.

it is not a great thread.
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I was JUST reading through that thread.

How anyone could genuinely think they could forgo a basic requirement applying to such competitive programs is completely beyond me. It’s even more concerning that they are supposedly a full-fledged adult.
 
purpleeventer said:
I was JUST reading through that thread.

How anyone could genuinely think they could forgo a basic requirement applying to such competitive programs is completely beyond me. It’s even more concerning that they are supposedly a full-fledged adult.
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i had to have my friend take my phone during the movie tn because i kept trying to go on reddit 🫩
 
vampyrica said:
when a school says “we require an LOR from a vet”…then thet require an LOR from a vet. it’s not “case by case”
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For sure. But not every school requires it; vmcvm technically doesn't. Idk the full context of the post you're talking about, but technically possible to get in with very minimal vet/no clinical experience; it'd be pretty darn hard though 😅
 
HorseObsessed said:
Nvm I found the Reddit thread... good luck to them
Good on y'all for not even getting after them about the minimum number of vet hours.
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i literally had to stop because it was just not going anywhere. let them apply and try year after year since they seem so financially well off enough that it “is a strength”
 
apoptosis09 said:
For sure. But not every school requires it; vmcvm technically doesn't. Idk the full context of the post you're talking about, but technically possible to get in with very minimal vet/no clinical experience; it'd be pretty darn hard though 😅
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sure one could- but would a school take someone with 0 hours and no vet LOR over someone with competitive hours and a vet LOR? non-trad or not, doesn’t matter.
 
Also they talked to "one top tier and several mid tier" vet programs... tells me they don't know anything about the vet field. Also tells me they're going to apply to NC State OOS as their "safety" and only apply to two schools cause they're sure they'll get in
 
I just finished reading that Reddit thread. I don't know what programs they're talking to that say the vet rec letter is just a suggestion, but they're getting played HARD. Talk about setting money on fire just because they have lots of it. Some people. I can't WAIT to see their post in a year or so complaining about their rejections.
 
vampyrica said:
some of their comments were not it !! i’m not saying this to be hurtful- some of the things they said were offensive and hurtful !! not to mention not aligned with the reality of this field !
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I don't want to say this about anyone who's exploring this field, but I genuinely think this is someone who thinks being a DVM is going to be a walk in the park or doing this for laughs. To keep arguing about something that others in the field are saying is a requirement. I would love to have their level of confidence.
 
vampyrica said:
i literally had to stop because it was just not going anywhere. let them apply and try year after year since they seem so financially well off enough that it “is a strength”
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Being rich is definitely a strength though, lol.

On a different note, based on what I read, I don't think they're saying vet hours are optional. They just don't have any right now and are shooting their shot while they work on acquiring those hours and a rec letter from a DVM. And since they're in a financial position where they can afford to swallow those app fees, they should do it if they're so inclined. At least....I REALLY hope they're not thinking that experience hours in a competitive MEDICAL field is a, "maybe," and not a, "you 100% need to have this so you know what you're getting into."
 
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HorseObsessed said:
Also tells me they're going to apply to NC State OOS as their "safety" and only apply to two schools cause they're sure they'll get in
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And they'll probably make another Reddit post after being rejected complaining about how no schools are holistic and only care about GPA and how they suck.
 
vampyrica said:
sure one could- but would a school take someone with 0 hours and no vet LOR over someone with competitive hours and a vet LOR? non-trad or not, doesn’t matter.
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But Vampy, don't you know? Vetmed and cybersecurity have SO much in common that they're practically the same field! Never mind the fact that one of them has both a scientific AND emotional burden so crushing that people-regretfully-commit suicide over it and the other doesn't. (At least I don't think most people develop emotional attachments to the network system they're monitoring.) And we all know that taking care of animals-medical fosters too!- is all you need to know if you're ok with euthanizing pets or dealing with angry/grieving clients.

I'm sure they'll be FIIIINNNNNEEE.
 
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vampyrica said:
i was polite and answered this individuals questions.

they did not understand why they cant apply to veterinary school without an LOR from a vet or any veterinary hours and fully believe that they can get in without it.

it is not a great thread.
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Can you PM me a link to this thread, it's my day off and day off is for cross stitching and drinking tea 👀
 
vampyrica said:
i literally had to stop because it was just not going anywhere. let them apply and try year after year since they seem so financially well off enough that it “is a strength”
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It's so telling that they refuse to respond to any comments asking them how they think they'll be able to handle the mental toll of being one with absolutely 0 prior understanding or exposure of being a veterinarian
 
CeeGee14 said:
But Vampy, don't you know? Vetmed and cybersecurity have SO much in common that they're practically the same field! Never mind the fact that one of them has both a scientific AND emotional load and the other doesn't. (At least I don't think most people develop emotional attachments to the network system they're monitoring.) And we all know that taking care of animals-medical fosters too!- is all you need to know if you're ok with euthanizing pets or dealing with angry/grieving clients.

I'm sure they'll be FIIIINNNNNEEE.
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CG ily. im gonna buy you a coffee one day
 
overcastkidjuno said:
It's so telling that they refuse to respond to any comments asking them how they think they'll be able to handle the mental toll of being one with absolutely 0 prior understanding or exposure of being a veterinarian
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i was debating locking the thread but tbh there’s good discussion and advice in there that other people might benefit from
 
oweue said:
just the idea of because you took on a big project at your cybersecurity firm = i can be a vet is kind of insane
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Literally. It's equivalent to clients that say 'I love your job, I could totally do this!' as they bring their pet in for an ear cleaning
 
oweue said:
just the idea of because you took on a big project at your cybersecurity firm = i can be a vet is kind of insane
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what baffles me is the attitude towards the trad “21-22 year olds” as if some of these students (SOME EVEN YOUNGER THAN THAT) don’t have a plethora of unique life experiences at just 21-22 years of age.

they’re right on one part- it’s not cookie cutter and it IS a case by case basic. where they are wrong is, that only becomes the case after you meet the minimum requirements for an application review. THEN they decide whose experiences they like best, whose essays, whose dare i say…LOR!!!
 
ESD_2029 said:
I'm in vet school so I think I'll take on a big project at a cybersecurity firm for extra cash.
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And I bet if you said that to that poster, they'd list 100000000000 reasons why their cybersecurity job is super hard, not for the weak, requires a ton of training and experience, yada yada




My rant, which is irrelevant to the ongoing conversation: we had a big immob yesterday and I am absolutely paying the price for it today. A keeper was kind enough to get me a bucket to sit on but I can barely walk, and that was just from a lot of bending, crouching, and kneeling. I didn't lift anything major. I couldn't get out of bed without help this morning.

I've also had pulsatile tinnitus in my right ear for two weeks now, it is nonstop unless I put pressure on my TMJ. My BP is fine. I'm honestly thinking I might snap and lose it soon lol.

Cherry on top, but yesterday was my annual review. It went fine, no issues, except the majority of it was my boss telling me how 'there wasn't really a good time for me to have a baby' and 'I guess we'll just see how this goes for us while you're gone.' Like cool as if I already wasn't worried enough about my career and longevity at this place before I became pregnant...
 
pp9 said:
Cherry on top, but yesterday was my annual review. It went fine, no issues, except the majority of it was my boss telling me how 'there wasn't really a good time for me to have a baby' and 'I guess we'll just see how this goes for us while you're gone.' Like cool as if I already wasn't worried enough about my career and longevity at this place before I became pregnant...
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how is this legal????

how is this okay????


(if men had to carry a baby for nine months with all the bells and whistles that come with pregnancy, and then be told they cant get paid leave, or they have a limit of six weeks, or any of the millions of other things women are told from an employer regarding their pregnancy- this wouldn’t be a thing…)
 
vampyrica said:
how is this legal????

how is this okay????


(if men had to carry a baby for nine months with all the bells and whistles that come with pregnancy, and then be told they cant get paid leave, or they have a limit of six weeks, or any of the millions of other things women are told from an employer regarding their pregnancy- this wouldn’t be a thing…)
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Would you believe that my boss is a woman?! Unfortunately it's not illegal to be a terrible boss, or a narcissist at that. I'm the first female vet at this zoo to have kids besides my boss, who has hers like 20-25ish years ago and was the only vet. So she just got to hire a temp and come back to her job as she left it. And when you're the most important person in the world, it's okay for you to have kids....if you're not, it's an inconvenience for everyone
 
pp9 said:
Cherry on top, but yesterday was my annual review. It went fine, no issues, except the majority of it was my boss telling me how 'there wasn't really a good time for me to have a baby' and 'I guess we'll just see how this goes for us while you're gone.' Like cool as if I already wasn't worried enough about my career and longevity at this place before I became pregnant...
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Jesus christ. If she's that worried about it, she could have hired someone temporarily to help while you're on maternity leave...I'm sure there are people who would jump at that opportunity.

pp9 said:
Would you believe that my boss is a woman?! Unfortunately it's not illegal to be a terrible boss, or a narcissist at that. I'm the first female vet at this zoo to have kids besides my boss, who has hers like 20-25ish years ago and was the only vet. So she just got to hire a temp and come back to her job as she left it. And when you're the most important person in the world, it's okay for you to have kids....if you're not, it's an inconvenience for everyone
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Yes because for whatever reason it's not uncommon for women in higher level positions to decide to be ****ty to other women. You're not the first person I've heard from that specifically had issues with a female boss (even one who has kids...) around being pregnant. It's extra awful.
 
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