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Before this I was having to show up 1-2 hours before class for parking.

Days all years have exams are a blood bath.
I used to show up late to the lab (I always stayed late and often had to come in at night for cells or the sequencer so I had an extreme level of apathy towards start times, lol) and I lived 10 minutes away and could park across the street from my building. Showing up HOURS early would absolutely wreck me. Let alone exam days. The horror I feel at leaving the house before 8 :help:
 
In state tuition is well worth it I assure you......

I kinda got lucky w the baby thing bc Florida considers pregnant women handicapped (LMFAO) so I get handicap parking now :3333
Literally bought motorcycle in undergrad to get cheaper and better parking (I did not even know how to ride one yet). "It'll pay for itself" I said.

Several years and several bike upgrades later... it was definitely not cheaper
 
Man. I missed out on the Backstreet Boys ticket drop this week because I couldn't be sitting at my computer when they dropped. Of course they're now sold out and at crazy resale prices.

Husband is already trying to plan a Hawaii babymoon which is exciting, but probably going to cost $5000 or so for a week with what he wants to do. I can book a hotel/ticket package through BSB still and not pay crazy prices, but after flights it would be $3000 at the least (without food) for a 3 day trip.

Some would say that we shouldn't do either with an expensive-ass baby in the future. Some would say we should just say yolo and do both. I lean towards the latter because we never do anything (the Japan trip earlier this year was the first major thing I've ever done) but that's still a lot of money to spend in a matter of two months. Someone tell me I'm not being insane.

If you have the money for it, and you are still going to have money left for all the expensive baby things to come, do it! My biggest regret is that I never did Orlando with hubby before we had kids. I only realized after they were born that it would be a good decade before I would be able to experience Disney the way I wanted to… but it was too late to shove them back up my womb for me to have a do-over.

But know that as you become exasperated over the first weeks to months of survival mode with first time newborn, being able to freely submit to impulse buys of a couple hundred dollars at a time is so nice. It’s nice to be able to dump money into solving temporary problems that baby will grow out of within weeks… but those problems seem insurmountable after weeks of extreme sleep deprivation
 
Rant + rave?

Day 2 of exercise restricting my old man after his bilateral elbow PRP injections. I guess his elbows feel great because he is attempting to zoom full speed around my room and jump onto furniture. I guess I need to sedate him, but I’m glad he’s doing better!
 
It's day three of classes. The classroom is never the right temperature, our internet is spotty, we have no cell service, and we fill every seat in the classroom so getting a seat is like entering the Thunderdome every morning.

I'm already very tired.
Real. I think all or most of the vet schools are like that because they're all trying to max their class sizes so they shove a million people into a room with spotty internet, power outages, MacGyvered seats, and no parking. It sucks and I've heard these stories from all sorts of vet schools. Instead their solution is to just open more half assed programs with no teaching hospitals as if it's going to make anything better
 
Real. I think all or most of the vet schools are like that because they're all trying to max their class sizes so they shove a million people into a room with spotty internet, power outages, MacGyvered seats, and no parking. It sucks and I've heard these stories from all sorts of vet schools. Instead their solution is to just open more half assed programs with no teaching hospitals as if it's going to make anything better
Oh for sure. We just didn’t have this problem at all last year because all but a handful of our classes were streamed live on zoom. So not only does the removal of distance learning hurt accessibility, it’s exposing infrastructure issues as well. Our poor third years don’t even have their own classroom right now. It’s a mess.
 
It's day three of classes. The classroom is never the right temperature, our internet is spotty, we have no cell service, and we fill every seat in the classroom so getting a seat is like entering the Thunderdome every morning.

I'm already very tired.
Our classroom was always freezing, so people would bring blankets to class. Once the seating status quo was established, we just left our blankets on our chairs.
 
Our classroom was always freezing, so people would bring blankets to class. Once the seating status quo was established, we just left our blankets on our chairs.

Hi, that's me. Heated blanket at the back of the classroom so I could use a wall outlet. Some people kept plants at their spots 🤣
 
I hate getting told to get a thicker skin when someone is basically being rude when giving you corrections. Like I can handle constructive criticism but I don’t handle getting yelled at or embarrassed in front of my peers. I was the only one in my group being singled out during aseptic lab today and I feel defeated.
 
Like I can handle constructive criticism but I don’t handle getting yelled at or embarrassed in front of my peers.
My associate dean did this to me in class and I confronted her privately afterwards. I was respectful and tried really hard to communicate effectively but ultimately said “I do not subscribe to the school of embarrassment as a teaching tool and will not participate in it, so how can we move forward?”

Blunt and confrontational? Absolutely. Got the job done? You betcha.

Some people are just like that. Try to remember it’s their flaw and not yours.
 
Our classroom was always freezing, so people would bring blankets to class. Once the seating status quo was established, we just left our blankets on our chairs.

Hi, that's me. Heated blanket at the back of the classroom so I could use a wall outlet. Some people kept plants at their spots 🤣
Blanket is going in backpack tomorrow lol
 
My associate dean did this to me in class and I confronted her privately afterwards. I was respectful and tried really hard to communicate effectively but ultimately said “I do not subscribe to the school of embarrassment as a teaching tool and will not participate in it, so how can we move forward?”

Blunt and confrontational? Absolutely. Got the job done? You betcha.

Some people are just like that. Try to remember it’s their flaw and not yours.
Yeah she pulled me out of lab in front of everyone to try to apologize to me about the way she was speaking to me. But ultimately she was like that’s just how I talk. Like there are better ways to correct people about how to drape especially for their first time.

I just sucked it up and tried to do the rest of lab but felt so embarrassed. I brought it up to the head of the lab practical, and she was responsive to trying to help.
 
year 3 of being super sick in late summer ☠️. I drove to school and then drove right back home. checked my temp after and I have a fever. and I have my first test tomorrow which I feel kind of like a jerk for planning on going. the thought of rescheduling or coming up with an alternative terrifies me since I would like to know were I stand and what adjustments to make with my studying and would rather get that feedback sooner rather than later.
 
I'm sad to report that keeping items at our seats isn't allowed anymore 🙁 We tried the blanket thing last year and a college-wide email was sent out

Rude. Literally no reason other than maybe cleaning if people are leaving things on the floor.
 
Anybody else's clients exhibiting absolute bat**** crazy full-moon type behavior this week? I'm so over people. I offered yesterday to come in early to see a lady's dog this morning (or Friday morning) before I started farm calls but she didn't let us know until too late this AM and then got vulgar with the receptionist and sent an email about how we don't care about animals and her dog "isn't some houseplant".... WOMAN that's why I OFFERED to come in EARLY to see him after YOU declined the interventions I offered at your scheduled appointment on Tuesday. Multiple people cussing out the sweet receptionist ("F you you f-ing dumb b!tch!"... yeah that's how you get an appointment as a non-client...), a doodle breeder who sat 4 days on her stud dog with a FB that needs Sx but doesn't wanna spend the $$ on Sx -- how many thousands of dollars has this dog made you via his offspring? k.... I'm just over people this week... and those are only examples from today!! jeeze
 
Anybody else's clients exhibiting absolute bat**** crazy full-moon type behavior this week? I'm so over people. I offered yesterday to come in early to see a lady's dog this morning (or Friday morning) before I started farm calls but she didn't let us know until too late this AM and then got vulgar with the receptionist and sent an email about how we don't care about animals and her dog "isn't some houseplant".... WOMAN that's why I OFFERED to come in EARLY to see him after YOU declined the interventions I offered at your scheduled appointment on Tuesday. Multiple people cussing out the sweet receptionist ("F you you f-ing dumb b!tch!"... yeah that's how you get an appointment as a non-client...), a doodle breeder who sat 4 days on her stud dog with a FB that needs Sx but doesn't wanna spend the $$ on Sx -- how many thousands of dollars has this dog made you via his offspring? k.... I'm just over people this week... and those are only examples from today!! jeeze
Can confirm this week had been full of full moon behavior and diagnoses
 
It's because the assistant dean was giving a tour one time and didn't like that there was stuff in the rooms

I used to give tours, was the student in charge of tours, and the fact everyone was super cozy was such a solid selling point to prospective students. Just wild.

Anybody else's clients exhibiting absolute bat**** crazy full-moon type behavior this week? I'm so over people. I offered yesterday to come in early to see a lady's dog this morning (or Friday morning) before I started farm calls but she didn't let us know until too late this AM and then got vulgar with the receptionist and sent an email about how we don't care about animals and her dog "isn't some houseplant".... WOMAN that's why I OFFERED to come in EARLY to see him after YOU declined the interventions I offered at your scheduled appointment on Tuesday. Multiple people cussing out the sweet receptionist ("F you you f-ing dumb b!tch!"... yeah that's how you get an appointment as a non-client...), a doodle breeder who sat 4 days on her stud dog with a FB that needs Sx but doesn't wanna spend the $$ on Sx -- how many thousands of dollars has this dog made you via his offspring? k.... I'm just over people this week... and those are only examples from today!! jeeze

Automatic no service. Dropping cuss words? Absolutely not.
 
It's day three of classes. The classroom is never the right temperature, our internet is spotty, we have no cell service, and we fill every seat in the classroom so getting a seat is like entering the Thunderdome every morning.

I'm already very tired.
Rae can confirm Thunderdome behavior of first years has nearly broken me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
I'm sad to report that keeping items at our seats isn't allowed anymore 🙁 We tried the blanket thing last year and a college-wide email was sent out
Ours too. We got a whole lecture first day of orientation that seat saving was not allowed 😅
Apparently deserved though bc according to some 2nd years, last year some groups in class went crazy cliquey and actually tried to bully people out of seats so they could sit together. So now we all get the "chairs dont belong to you, get over it" lecture 💀
 
Ours too. We got a whole lecture first day of orientation that seat saving was not allowed 😅
Apparently deserved though bc according to some 2nd years, last year some groups in class went crazy cliquey and actually tried to bully people out of seats so they could sit together. So now we all get the "chairs dont belong to you, get over it" lecture 💀
This is crazy to me lmao at my school everyone kinda assigned their own seats on day 1 and stuck with it… we haven’t had any issues. Granted we do have some empty seats in our lecture hall and our class size is relatively small.
 
This is crazy to me lmao at my school everyone kinda assigned their own seats on day 1 and stuck with it… we haven’t had any issues. Granted we do have some empty seats in our lecture hall and our class size is relatively small.
That would drive me nuts. I rotate around sections depending on the vibe. The more I struggle with a topic (embryology) the closer I am to the front. Speaking of embryology, our lecture hall microphone had so many issues for one particular lecture I put my AirPods on in noise cancelling mode so the feedback wouldn’t drive me crazy 😫

Did my first exam with a bad flu but it’s done at least and i think it went ok. half the thoughts in my brain during the test were like “don’t cough, don’t cough, don’t cough”
 
i'm a month into school and in no way do i have an "assigned" seat. I sit somewhere different pretty much every day because i never know what i'm walking into with what seats will be available. i don't mind too much, i don't really need or want to be in the front-- but i have learned to avoid sitting near certain groups because they talk the entire lecture and it's super distracting and annoying. definitely no saving seats allowed but that's because the lecture halls get used by lots of different groups. my main gripe is we have outlets at the desk but it's angled in such a way that my charging block won't fit so they are useless to me lmao.

also, don't know if this is something that other schools do but we have to take a class that is very mental-health focused, it's very considerate and obviously, a big deal in our field. BUT, i have to do these reflections every week that get super repetitive and like i am literally running out of things to trauma-dump about LMAO. Last week was "perfectionism" this week is "imposter syndrome". I know the difference between the two but i genuinely don't have anything to say on the topic that i didn't say last week. also he grades kind of harshly which is super annoying. AND i have my first anatomy exam monday and i am sitting here wracking my brain over a time i dealt with imposter syndrome instead of studying.
 
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i'm a month into school and in no way do i have an "assigned" seat. I sit somewhere different pretty much every day because i never know what i'm walking into with what seats will be available. i don't mind too much, i don't really need or want to be in the front-- but i have learned to avoid sitting near certain groups because they talk the entire lecture and it's super distracting and annoying. definitely no saving seats allowed but that's because the lecture halls get used by lots of different groups. my main gripe is we have outlets at the desk but it's angled in such a way that my charging block won't fit so they are useless to me lmao.

also, don't know if this is something that other schools do but we have to take a class that is very mental-health focused, it's very considerate and obviously, a big deal in our field. BUT, i have to do these reflections every week that get super repetitive and like i am literally running out of things to trauma-dump about LMAO. Last week was "perfectionism" this week is "imposter syndrome". I know the difference between the two but i genuinely don't have anything to say on the topic that i didn't say last week. also he grades kind of harshly which is super annoying. AND i have my first anatomy exam monday and i am sitting here wracking my brain over a time i dealt with imposter syndrome instead of studying.
We also had one of these mental health things. I think it was well intentioned but they just went about it the complete wrong way. They never address the root of these problems or why they are exacerbated by vet school. Also grading people’s personal experiences is kinda weird.
 
That would drive me nuts. I rotate around sections depending on the vibe.
I sit in the same spot every day, for the whole day. Lectures start at 8, we break for lunch at 12, and we usually end around 4 or 5. If I had to move my stuff around each lecture I would go insane.

i'm a month into school and in no way do i have an "assigned" seat.
Last year the people who went to class in person regularly sat in the same spot for the most part. It wasn't assigned, it's just that weird human behavior of "I've had seating charts my whole education and now I have self-assigned myself this seat". Which is just a fascinating behavior in the first place, but also gimme my damn seat that I mentally assigned myself!
 
We also had one of these mental health things. I think it was well intentioned but they just went about it the complete wrong way. They never address the root of these problems or why they are exacerbated by vet school. Also grading people’s personal experiences is kinda weird.
yepppp. i feel in no way is this building my mental resilience. also, i've been to therapy LMAO so it's not like any of this news to me. also, the assignments are kind of limiting/annoying when you have mental health disorders and in general all the information is presented in a very neurotypical way. in my last reflection, i had to more-or-less be like "well due to several anxiety disorders, i will be dealing with this for my entire life" lol we will see how he grades that one!

Last year the people who went to class in person regularly sat in the same spot for the most part. It wasn't assigned, it's just that weird human behavior of "I've had seating charts my whole education and now I have self-assigned myself this seat". Which is just a fascinating behavior in the first place, but also gimme my damn seat that I mentally assigned myself!
all through undergrad I had a "unassigned-self-assigned" seat for every class but man. not here. i just have to take what's available bc i do NOT care enough to be in class more than 5 minutes early. i would rather sit in my car for 10 minutes than like wait in the lecture hall.
 
We got an admin email last week about not saving seats with items. My question is who cares about a chair this much.
Yea people are giving me **** this year about sitting in the front row on a particular side of the room. They want to sit there bc they did last year, but my friends are on that side this year and I need front row bc I'm hard of hearing. If I'm there first, I don't really understand why it's such a big deal to sit on the specific side of the room in a specific chair every time. Like, go sit on the other side! The front row is open lol. If they get there before me then I will sit on the other side. It's really not deep and this is coming from someone with anxiety who relies on routine and predictability for comfort lol
 
Really frustrated about being disregarded by my supervisors. One of my charges presented with disorientation & head tilting. Basically textbook ear infection - very inflamed, purulent, full of mites. I suggested an antiparasitic, antibiotic, & corticosteroid & calculated out the appropriate doses (to be reviewed by our licensed vet obviously). Supervisor wouldn't even look at it or give it to the vet because he can figure it out on his own. Surprise! He came up with the exact same treatment idea as I had. This isn't the first time unfortunately that this has happened. I love my job & the animals I work with but it really sucks that management won't consider my knowledge because I'm still in the middle of vet school.
 
Yea people are giving me **** this year about sitting in the front row on a particular side of the room. They want to sit there bc they did last year, but my friends are on that side this year and I need front row bc I'm hard of hearing. If I'm there first, I don't really understand why it's such a big deal to sit on the specific side of the room in a specific chair every time. Like, go sit on the other side! The front row is open lol. If they get there before me then I will sit on the other side. It's really not deep and this is coming from someone with anxiety who relies on routine and predictability for comfort lol
I guarantee you could work with DRES about accommodations to have a specific seat reserved for you if you need and it gets to that point. (Also I’d do it to be petty)
 
I'm sad to report that keeping items at our seats isn't allowed anymore 🙁 We tried the blanket thing last year and a college-wide email was sent out
I can't speak for after hours, but we definitely still had people leaving stuff in there during morning labs or lunch lectures last fall.

Yea people are giving me **** this year about sitting in the front row on a particular side of the room. They want to sit there bc they did last year, but my friends are on that side this year and I need front row bc I'm hard of hearing. If I'm there first, I don't really understand why it's such a big deal to sit on the specific side of the room in a specific chair every time. Like, go sit on the other side! The front row is open lol. If they get there before me then I will sit on the other side. It's really not deep and this is coming from someone with anxiety who relies on routine and predictability for comfort lol
Also, this is ridiculous. I can see having a preference for like sitting in the front vs the back of the room, but I don't see what the big deal would be about sitting on a specific side in those rooms
 
I guarantee you could work with DRES about accommodations to have a specific seat reserved for you if you need and it gets to that point. (Also I’d do it to be petty)
This is a great point, @spiane - I have reasons why I need the front of the class (auditory processing issues) and I WILL be petty and get an official accommodation if I have to. It seems to have calmed down a bit which is what I was hoping for….. I don’t like sitting up front but it’s a necessity and I’m not willing to get to class 30 min early every day so I can hear properly. Use those accommodations if you have to, I know they’re annoying but if you truly need it, you deserve the support.
 
Yea people are giving me **** this year about sitting in the front row on a particular side of the room. They want to sit there bc they did last year, but my friends are on that side this year and I need front row bc I'm hard of hearing. If I'm there first, I don't really understand why it's such a big deal to sit on the specific side of the room in a specific chair every time. Like, go sit on the other side! The front row is open lol. If they get there before me then I will sit on the other side. It's really not deep and this is coming from someone with anxiety who relies on routine and predictability for comfort lol
If they keep being difficult maybe talk to your schools accessibility services, having a designated spot up front is a very reasonable accommodation to have and can help in those situations.
 
This is a great point, @spiane - I have reasons why I need the front of the class (auditory processing issues) and I WILL be petty and get an official accommodation if I have to. It seems to have calmed down a bit which is what I was hoping for….. I don’t like sitting up front but it’s a necessity and I’m not willing to get to class 30 min early every day so I can hear properly. Use those accommodations if you have to, I know they’re annoying but if you truly need it, you deserve the support.
Ayyyyy auditory processing gang ✊
 
Today is my last day in the US before I leave for school and it's such a weird melancholic feeling. I assume everyone gets like this before going to vet school, but there's constantly this little voice in the back of my head telling me it could have been different, if I just tried harder I could have gotten into my instate and things could have been so much easier, ect. I know it's part of that imposter syndrome that everyone suffers from, but the finality of it all really hammers it home. All of my belongings are in boxes at my parent's house or in 3 checked bags, my beloved pets are being cared for by parents and friends until I get things sorted over there in a year or so, and so I just can't help but wonder. Everyone keeps asking and saying how excited I must be, and I am! But there's a sense of loss there too, just thinking about 'what could have been'. I don't doubt I'm making the right decision, only if I could have tried harder in the past to get a different outcome. I'm sure I'll feel better once I'm there, making friends and doing the work, but I'll definitely have some part of homesickness that inevitably comes with moving away from familiar things.
 
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