I’ve been having issues with my one coworker. I’m an assistant and she’s an LVT but only a few years older. While we have a somewhat friendly relationship, I always feel like she can be extra harsh towards me and almost condescending in tone. I won’t go into much detail here, but basically it makes the world of a difference when all the other techs say please and thank you when they ask you to do things and this coworker almost never does and again, is harsh in tone/bossy. So last wednesday was probably the worst and most miserable shift in my almost two weeks of being there. I had found out my dog could have cancer and could be dying (thankfully we have found more answers and will be scheduling her for surgery) so that was rough. My 97 year old grandma is at home and in hospice and declines a little more every day which is hard and stressful. My one coworker‘s husband got rear ended and crashed into two more cars that morning (thankfully he’s okay). My other coworker had gotten 3 hours of sleep and spent most of the night at the ER because her dogs had gotten into the trash and eaten cooked steak bones and she was worried about internal damage. The coworker I have issues with did not have any personal issues that day but was feeding off of everyone’s negative energy. The phones didn’t stop ringing, the doctor was behind, there were several extremely rude clients, everyone was in a bad mood. I tried my very best to hold myself together and stay positive and do my job even though all I could think about was my dog. The coworker whose husband was in an accident largely did the same. Near the end of the shift, I was yelled at for not fully setting up a cat euthanasia. I had gotten payment, laid out tissues, had proper paperwork, put out a blanket. All I forgot was the tape and catheter and basically got yelled at by the coworker I have issues with. Anyways it basically broke me. It was hard enough dealing with a euthanasia period because for all I knew my dog could be next and I couldn’t stop thinking about that. The doctor saw that as well as the coworker who had the whole car thing called me into the room to “help” with a puppy visit. Basically they were just trying to give me a break and they felt bad after witnessing what just happened. Apparently, several people called my assistant manager after the shift to relay what a terrible day it had been. The coworker who’s husband had been in the car accident apparently specifically told my assistant manager how harsh the other coworker had been on me to the point where it was almost bullying. Which it kinda was honestly. My assistant manager told me she had a few small discussions with this coworker throughout the day and will continue to follow up. It was just nice to have the support from both management and my one coworker who stood up for me even though I didn’t ask her to! I also look forward to gathering up the courage to speak with this coworker directly about our issues and having a more positive work experience overall.