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I had my own apartment when I was in high school and no one in my immediate family has ever met my almost three year old child. So, I'd say I have little support from my family.

I don't mind it at all. They were more of a negative influence on my life than anything and once I stepped away from them, I found incredible/amazing people who are extremely supportive and helpful. People I met through classes, through extracurricular activities on campus, people I met through online forums who may or may not be creeps lurking in dark basements (mostly kidding)...
 
I've never been told to pursue anything by my family, and my parents are typically easy-going in that respect. They let me do what I want. My sister hates doctors and b****s all the time about how "they don't know anything " (except when she gets really sick...then doctors seem to know quite a lot). They provide a bare minimum amount of encouragement, so I've found that I'm essentially alone. In fact, I can't remember the last time they asked me how my apps are going, which is relieving since this s*** is stressing me the f out. Even my friends who are applying to med school don't really give me a sense of community, as they're all in different circumstances (they went to schools with 70%+ acceptance rating and grade inflation through the stratosphere, so I can't relate to their 3.95 sgpa from poopstick university). There are no doctors/scientists/scientifically literate people in my family. They're immigrants, but I luckily dodged the "A+ or you're grounded for the rest of your life!" stereotype that a few of my cousins fell victim to. In many ways, their total lack of understanding for how med school apps work, what the MCAT entails, etc. is great; but in many ways, it's a very solitary existence having virtually no one be able to relate to my specific circumstances. Then again, that may not be a bad thing.

I'm essentially doing this entirely on my own. My only motivation has been and always will be the people I want to help. I see it as the best possible situation for someone to really test their interest in a career.
 
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I've never been told to pursue anything by my family, and my parents are typically easy-going in that respect. They let me do what I want. My sister hates doctors and b****s all the time about how "they don't know anything " (except when she gets really sick...then doctors seem to know quite a lot). They provide a bare minimum amount of encouragement, so I've found that I'm essentially alone. In fact, I can't remember the last time they asked me how my apps are going, which is relieving since this s*** is stressing me the f out. Even my friends who are applying to med school don't really give me a sense of community, as they're all in different circumstances (they went to schools with 70%+ acceptance rating and grade inflation through the stratosphere, so I can't relate to their 3.95 sgpa from poopstick university). There are no doctors/scientists/scientifically literate people in my family. They're immigrants, but I luckily dodged the "A+ or you're grounded for the rest of your life!" stereotype that a few of my cousins fell victim to. In many ways, their total lack of understanding for how med school apps work, what the MCAT entails, etc. is great; but in many ways, it's a very solitary existence having virtually no one be able to relate to my specific circumstances. Then again, that may not be a bad thing.

I'm essentially doing this entirely on my own. My only motivation has been and always will be the people I want to help. I see it as the best possible situation for someone to really test their interest in a career.
I guess I go to a poopstick uni.
 
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