haha, yeah...it's hilarious watching people drive around here in the snow. yesterday, i had to wait a good ten minutes to get out of my alley because two people had managed to get themselves stuck (one on either side of me, of course). One was an Audi AllRoad and the other was a Grand Cherokee...the looks on their faces were priceless as i pulled out with no problems in my old four-door sedan and drove by them after they finally dislodged themselves.
Second Gear start is definitely a nice thing to have, and i agree completely on not needing winter tires, just decent all-weathers and making sure they have a tread and good pressure and all. i have front-wheel drive, so i don't have to do any weighting, but i remember doing that in the past with other cars, and it makes a huge difference too.
I love snow driving though...it's good for laughs watching people from the southern states trying to figure out what to do