I totally get what you're saying. Which school is 56k more expensive for you, Iowa or Michigan? Ultimately, where do you think you're going to be the happiest? You're going to get a high quality education at either school. I know people on here say that you should always go with the cheapest option and that it's only 4 years of your life, and I agree to some extent, but if the location/environment is going to make a major difference in your happiness, then I would go with the school that just feels at home. Yeah, it's 4 years of your life but you want to make the most of those 4 years and your education. If you're not in a good place mentally, you won't make the most out of your education. That's my personal opinion, others may disagree.