RANT HERE thread

Discussion in 'Pre-Veterinary' started by flyhi, Jun 17, 2010.

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  1. cdoconn

    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    So I have significant hearing loss, and I've always been proud of who I was because of it. I know I have an accent and sometimes it's hard to understand me because of it-especially my R's. But I mean, you can ask some of the people who have heard my voice before (other people on the Watering Hole) and in general, it's not hard to understand me at all!

    But I went to a burrito place today and I said "can I get a burrito?" And he didn't understand me. I repeated it, trying to pronunciation more clearly, and he still didn't understand. Meanwhile, a long line is forming behind me. He goes "I'm sorry, I need to go find someone who can understand". He brings back like 3 people and I'm trying to pronounce that I'd like a burrito and they're all standing around, unable to figure it out, so I said "you know, tortilla with meat and other things in it?" "OOOOHHHH you mean a BURRITO? Okay! Why didn't you say that in the first place?". And it took everything in me not to cry in the middle of the restaurant.

    I did 9 years of speech therapy, and I'm super proud of all the progress I've made. But it feels like a stab in the heart every time someone can't understand me. I've had people in the medical field and other pre-vetties tell me that I can't be a doctor with my thick accent, or that I especially couldn't be a surgeon. It just hurts.

    And this isn't a "I hate being Deaf" rant. I'm very proud of who I am- I'm a badass biochemist, I do amazing research that goes to exciting symposiums! I'm a professional drummer, I'm going to be going to vet school in the Fall! I love who I am, it's just tiring to constantly explain that no, I'm not from anywhere foreign, no I'm not British, I'm from Dallas, Texas! I've had people ask *why* I'm Deaf, or if they could test that I'm deaf. Last year, I had someone that I had never met before ask if they can whisper in my deaf ear/ touch the inside of my ear to see why I'm Deaf (she got nowhere near my ear btw). I guess I'm just tired of explaining it, and I know that I'm gonna have to explain it to future employers and clients and significant others and my Alzheimer's grandparents and random people in random restaurants. I'm just tired of this.
     
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  3. DVMDream

    DVMDream Don't disturb the snowflakes 7+ Year Member

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    I hate BSL and I try to read a dog's body language while I'm talking to the owner, but if I were to be asked of the medium to large breed dogs which breed I trust the least, I'd pick the German Shepherd.
     
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    Screw them! You are not hard to understand AT ALL. I love your accent, and for the most part I don't even notice it. Some people are just mean, and you're just unlucky that they've got something to focus on. Trust me, there are just awful people in the world. You are amazing and wonderful and will make an AMAZING vet. People will be lucky to have you as their doctor. PM me or send me a message on facebook if you're ever upset. You are amazing and I will never tire or telling you that!
     
  5. cdoconn

    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    Thank you Coopah!!! Love you!!
     
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    DVMDream Don't disturb the snowflakes 7+ Year Member

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    I know a deaf veterinarian, you'll be just fine. :)
     
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  7. cdoconn

    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    I know one too! It's just... people. Ugh. :yeahright:
     
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    Doctor-S Professor/Attending (Female) Lifetime Donor

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    @cdoconn my cat and I would be proud to have you as my cat's veterinarian.

    You're intelligent, bright, kind, caring, hard-working, friendly, and the list goes on.
    You're going to be FINE and lots of SDNers cherish and support you, including me! :biglove:
     
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    vetmedhead Former ghost at a seance

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    I'm not responding to the rest of this because I think others on thread have pretty much said what I would say, but this in particular stood out to me because holy crap. How bitter and awful do you have to be to tell someone that a thick accent is a disqualifying factor for being capable of being a doctor? Ouch.
     
  10. cdoconn

    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    yeeaaaahhh. Does it make it better or worse that it was my speech pathologist who told me that (when I was 11 years old)? It was rough.
     
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    Also, for whatever it is worth, I don't think that your accent is thick at all, @cdoconn!

    You're awesome, you're going to be an amazing doctor, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! :)
     
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    I moved from Australia to America when I was about 7 years old. Obviously, I came with a very thick accent. I'm still very proud to be Australian but these days most people don't know I am until I tell them because I have a very genuine American accent. People laugh about it, oh, I've lived here so long and since I was so young that it's just one of those things that happens! No. I worked very very hard to pursue an American accent because I had such an awful time getting people to understand me, particularly when it came to medical terms. You'd think that as you ascend the ladder from high school, to undergrad, to vet school, that people would be more understanding of differences and make an attempt to be understanding but it's not always the case. I had coworkers that wouldn't let me finish a sentence because they'd beg me to repeat it or insist that they didn't understand just because they liked how I said "water," or "America," or "been." I had a superior tell me what I needed to say "heartworm prevention" like an American because clients didn't understand me. As I get older, I get conflicted between which accent is how I really talk and it's harder to flip flop between the two.
    I am so so sorry that anyone ever told you that you couldn't be a doctor because of your accent. I can't say I know exactly how you feel, but I can empathize. An accent should not be a discriminatory factor when it comes to being a doctor.
     
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    We did just get a new counselor, so hopefully she takes advantage of the opportunity.
     
  14. bjeh

    bjeh He was born of an omelet

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    So I feel weird posting this here, but I need to get it off my chest and I like the semi-anonymity of this board (plus everyone on here seems so nice). My grandmother has been dealing with cancer on and off for the past 10 years. Now she’s at the point where it has spread and there’s nothing the doctors can do. She’s still there mentally but physically she’s really bad. I’m helping her get hospice set up at home over the next couple of days. Is there anyone on here who’s dealt with this before with their family members?
     
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    I assumed the role of sole caregiver for my father until he passed away from esophageal cancer. Send me a PM if you need.
     
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    See, I read this, and my first thought was that poor guy is so stupid that he can't understand when someone is asking for a burrito in a burrito place. Clearly, he is not cut out for the job.
     
  17. cdoconn

    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    Realistically I would agree. Geesh
     
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    You rock, CDO! :highfive: I'm here for you whenever you need to rant. I also have hearing loss (unilateral, left ear is decoration only) but this scenario is usually reversed for me. I have a hard time understanding people, which results in me being the one saying 'can you repeat that' like an idiot over and over. I went to speech therapy in grade school but I still have trouble with pronunciation sometimes. I hate it, but some days are way worse than others. I recently started taking my dog to clicker class, and it's set up in a way that just completely sucks for me. It's in an echo-prone gym, noisy dogs, I can't watch the trainer's lips when she speaks, my dog distracts me when I need my full concentration to listen . . . it can be really tough to try to be normal. I feel so stupid sometimes because I don't understand instructions, but it's because I can't hear them, not because I'm dumb. I wish life came with subtitles. But my hearing loss doesn't limit what I can do (minus military jobs, which I'm not inclined to anyway ;)), and it won't limit you. You'll be an eggcellent vet and I'll be an excellent to-be-determined.

    So if you ever need an ear (hahaha look I'm so funny), I'm here. :)
     
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    cdoconn OK State c/o 2021 <3 I hover quickly

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    Hey! My right ear is for decoration only, similarly to your left- and then I have a good chunk of my left gone. I feel you on the struggling to hear/ understanding people. It's rough. Loud, echoey places, or loudly beeping machines and I can hear approximately nothing- I recently found a dimmer switch for the really loud one in the lab which is nice! Wouldn't IRL subtitles be the greatest (besides for sign language haha)!! Hahaha and if you need (70% of) an ear, I'm here for you as well!
     
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    I am so sorry you are having to experience this. I just wanted to say that all of us are here for you if you ever need to vent or talk about it. I unfortunately cannot relate to your exact situation, but I think I and a lot of people on the forum can relate to having a grandparent or other family member with decaying health. I know how incredibly hard and sad it is. Hugs for you and your family during this difficult time :(
     
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    I have a GSD and have also worked with retired contract military working dogs (mostly GSDs but also some Belgian Mals), and I love them! However, I would have to say that many (@DVMDream is not alone in this) in the vet med world are cautious of GSDs. For example, one of my eLOR writers was very unexpectedly bit by a GSD at her old practice and does not favor them in a clinic setting because of that. As much as I hate breed discrimination, it happens all the time. It is important to remember that any dog can bite--provoked or unprovoked. I have been bitten by a Great Dane, a GSD mix, dachshunds, chihuahuas, cats, etc. (this is over a lifetime, btw, only once drawn blood, just saying to make a point). I honestly am more cautious of the smaller breed dogs that are clingy, but again, I am sure it can be looked on as breed discrimination and offend said breed-lover. I have shadowed vets and staff who love GSDs and others who don't. People base their opinions by their personal experiences. As a fellow GSD person, I'm sure you are aware that some GSDs have the reputation of being peculiar because they can be very loyal to their people and cautious of strangers (including vets). That is why some veterinarians feel the way they do. For that reason, I encourage new GSD owners to bring their pups and dogs by to get treats and loving by the vets and staff so they associate the clinic with good, familiar things. I usually opt to muzzle my GSD when being examined because she is a 90 lb dog, and I know she and the vet feel comfortable that way; she knows she will get lots of loving by the vet after she/he is done:love:. I could take to other people's opinions of the breed badly, but I don't. I still like GSDs and am excited to see them in vet med! But, I also understand where others are coming from. It is going to happen wherever you go and switch between breeds based on what people's experiences are. As @Doctor-S said, it is what it is. :)
     
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    Was looking at loan repayment plans with my husband today. If I do the 10 year plan, monthly payments are > 3/4 of my monthly intern salary. Husband also commented its more than the mortgage, taxes and home insurance combined. Cool. :hungover:

    (I realize there are other repayment plans I will probably pursue. This factoid just made me vom a little.)
     
  23. LetItSnow

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    Yup.

    Although it is worth noting the CDC feels that risk is not significant. At least, that used to be their position.

    (PinkPuppy's "there's always an exception to every rule" example aside.)

    As I'm in practice longer, I'm gradually moving more and more towards "We should just make declaws illegal" position. The cons outweigh the pros, and the arguments in favor of it are either not supported by medical data, or are ways to rationalize it that don't really stand up to objective evaluation.

    I've done declaws (a couple). I am not saying they can't be done well. But the longer I practice, the less I see them as a reasonable or necessary procedure. Ditto for ear crops and (most) tail docks. Fortunately, as an ER doc it isn't something I have to fight with either my boss or my clients about. But if I went into GP work as an employee it would be a condition of employment for me: they would never compel me to perform a declaw, ear crop, or tail dock unless I was 100% on board with it as a medically indicated procedure.
     
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    Yup. And additionally, I try to tell owners that just like your own personal bedroom where you don't want people busting in on you, let the crate be your dog's safe place where you leave IT alone. Animals need a safe place to be not interrupted, bounced on by the kids, etc. The crate is a great place for a dog that wants some downtime to go, so I encourage owners to not go reaching into the crate, etc., and just leave the dog alone. Call it out, don't pull it out. Let it be a 'safe place'.
     
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    My boss has never compelled me to perform one but when I refused (the one where the owner brought the cat for the procedure literally two days after her first appointment with me, where she refused to even attempt to try my suggestions, and wanted it done "because [their] other cat is declawed"), he did it anyway, without local blocks or even systemic analgesia that I would consider standard of care. And then repeatedly pointed to how "fine" the cat was in recovery, as though it would literally speak up if it were not in fact totally happy with the situation. But we all know how much my job rankles me, so.
     
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    Sending good thoughts to everyone at Kansas State. So sorry for your loss.

    (I think I'm actually a few days late but I just heard about it... tragic that our profession faces this so frequently)
     
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    I am SHOCKED that many vets are still doing declaws instead of deep digital flexor tenotomies... I haven't done either procedure of course, but learning about it in class and on paper the deep digital flexor surgery seems so much faster, easier, less painful, and has none of the harmful side affects that come from the more traditional declaw.
     
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    There are a large number of veterinarians out there, my boss included, who are old school fellas (and some ladies, I'm sure) who don't actually care about what is the best up and coming or new thing for whatever. They stick to what they know, they use the same drugs and dosages that they've used for decades, the same treatment plans or surgical protocols and if the pet doesn't die, it was a success. This has been (and continues to be) one of the hardest things about veterinary medicine for me that I did not at ALL expect coming out of school. I can get over it when owners decline diagnostic work ups or elect to let their pet die at home because I tell myself that they don't know any better, that if they knew what I knew they'd probably try harder for their companion. But I really struggle with working alongside some veterinarians who are not at all forward thinking and who do not want to learn to do better. In some cases it's because they've become comfortable in their routines and in other cases it's because they are afraid of looking silly when they don't know something.
     
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    It has similar side effects and doesn't address the issue that most owner's are looking to address when declawing. The claws are still present, can scratch, get caught on things, tend to overgrow/grow thicker. The owner still has to keep up on nail trims and the claws are more likely to grow into the paw pads. I'd personally do the declaw over the tenotomy but prefer to stick with doing neither as I currently do.
     
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    We learned that you do still have to keep up with trimming the nails, but they are physically unable to extend their nails to scratch!
     
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    DVMDream Don't disturb the snowflakes 7+ Year Member

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    But they can still "scratch" simply by the nail being there/being overgrown. They don't need to extend the digit, they will still attempt to scratch. Heck my declawed cats "scratch" all the time, I grimace at the thought of a nail still being there just not extended...it can get caught if long enough. And considering that the majority of people looking to declaw aren't those that are going to be willing to keep up on regular nail trims, I really think the tenotomy is more a disservice to the cat, unless you have a really dedicated owner and considering most of the clients I've discussed the procedure with... you might find 1 out of 100 that would be willing to keep up on nail trims and that is a generous number.

    Not to mention that people claim declawing causes behavioral issues because of the inability to extend the digit/scratch and express normal behavior. A tenotomy doesn't address this issue, the cat still won't be able to express normal behavior.

    The AVMA has a good article describing the differences between the two based on research. A couple of the tenectomized cats were actually later declawed.
     
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    I feel sick. Yesterday on the last day of spring break, what should have been a normal day, my family unexpectedly lost our oldest dog Harley. He and the other dogs were outside with me while our old mare was also loose in the front yard--the others spooked her, and he got kicked.

    It is just so surreal to have things change from literally one moment to the next. Not 5 minutes before, my sister was out there with him as he rolled in the sun...and he was HER pup, given to her 12 years ago, so she is taking it the hardest of anyone. When a pet dies of age, or its suffering from a disease is ended when QoL declines, it is still heartbreaking, but there is closure--knowing that it was "their time" and they are free. There is no such closure in the event of an accident, much less an avoidable one. He still had some years ahead of him. All you can think of is the hindsight, the tiny things you could have done and avoided it all...all my sister could say as she cried was "I was just out there playing with him, I could have brought him inside."

    I went to bed very late last night, and got to class a couple minutes late. Clin path had already picked up her homework, so I had to go to her office and hand it in directly. She hands them back graded once her class starts, and with a big "late" written on the corner, she took 10 points off an otherwise-perfect long assignment worth 20. Half off just for barely missing her pick-up, which took my entire grade down a bit. it is a stupid thing to cry over, but on top of all this...once the initial anger faded, it took willpower not to tear up in class.

    I just can't believe that this happened. I was supposed to come home this weekend for my birthday, now there will be one less bark to greet me. It sounds cliche when people talk about taking things for granted, or not thinking that X bad thing could ever happen to you, but this really hit it home. Please hug your pets for me.

    harley2016.jpg
     
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    I'm so sorry. :(
     
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    I'm so sorry Deva<3
     
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    ^this. I work in a small town clinic. I probably do a declaw every two weeks or so? If I do them, they get mu opioids, local anesthesia, and nsaids on top of long acting buprenorphine to go home. If either of my bosses do them, they're anesthetized with ket-xy and if the younger one does it, get nsaids at home. If older boss, no pain meds unless I catch it and remind him.

    Cats are second class citizens here. These are the cats that are actually getting to live indoors vs. brutal outdoor lives... I don't love the surgery (and both my personal cats have all claws for sure) but most of these owners are not the kind that are going to consider alternatives or be kind to the cat being a nuisance.

    Iunno. I consider it a lesser of evils and do it as humanely as I can. Maybe I'm just bending and enabling but meh, my conscience is OK.
     
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    Noooooooooooo Deva I am so sorry :(:(:( Sending many hugs to you and your family.
     
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Accidents suck.
     
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    Oh Deva... that sucks so much. Thinking of you and your pup.
     
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    So sorry for your loss, Deva.
     
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    This makes me so sad. I really wish people valued cats more, and respected their natural behaviors. They are my favorites :(

    (I can see where you're coming from, Trilt -- I just couldn't see myself working somewhere where declaws are considered the lesser of two evils. I hope there is a better future out there for kitties).
     
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    genny Cats with benefits. 2+ Year Member

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    As someone looking for a job right now, I wish I had the luxury of finding a practice that won't do declaws. Maybe when I open my own place in a few years.
     
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    PippyPony Tufts c/o 21!! 2+ Year Member

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    I'm so sorry for your tragedy, @Devastating . Sudden loss is especially hard, I think. Harley looks like he was a wonderful pup.
     
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    PippyPony Tufts c/o 21!! 2+ Year Member

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    Come to our clinic! :)
     
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    Trilt puppy snuggler extraordinaire Gold Donor 7+ Year Member

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    There's a reason I get all the crazy cat ladies at work, lol. I have some very dedicated owners who are fantastic. But a lot more who just want the cat to not annoy them.
    My bosses would have been fine with me saying I didn't want to do them, tbh, I just personally want the skillset and want to do it right... I'm sure you'll be able to find a place with a similar outlook.
     
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    I'm so sorry Deva :( <3
     
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    Devastating VETT to DVM 202X

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    Thanks for the well-wishes everyone. Typing it all out made me feel a lot better, I don't like to bring up that kind of stuff with IRL acquaintances.
     
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    Filly Bay The OSU c/o 2017 Gold Donor 2+ Year Member

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    Deva, I'm sorry to hear that :(
     
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    Jilary UPenn c/o 2019 2+ Year Member

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    I get this. I mean I HATE declaws, but if you know someone is going to do it no matter what, it's better that you do it using a recommended technique and proper pain control then having them go to someone else who may use outdated methods and no pain management.
     
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    This. I'm not a declaw fan either, and really try to get people to go for other methods first.
    But, for the declaws I do - they get mu opioids (bigger/older cats get CRIs), nsaids, local blocks with bupivicaine/buprenorphine, nsaids/gabapentin/buprenex SR to go home. I keep them two nights in the clinic and they tend to do nicely. Most are trying to bat you through the cage door by the morning post op and playing.
     
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    Not really a rant but just need to vent. I'm so utterly depressed and hopeless right now. My family and I have decided to euthanize our dog for behavioral reasons. We found her walking the streets a year ago and contacted the owner who said they were coming for her... never came. We spent money saved up for our other dogs for vet visits, medications, etc. She has attacked our dogs, escaped, warning bites to my nephews who we just had to take custody of and will be living permanently with us. Her anxiety is a level 8/10 in the crate. I bought a camera to watch her and for 5 hours and she did not stop barking, pacing or salivating. :(

    I feel like I can't even reach out for support to friends for the fear of being judged. I love this damn dog so much and we have sacrificed so much for her. I feel so guilty. But I don't know what to do. At this point, we are all suffering.
     
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    LetItSnow Skipping the light fandango 5+ Year Member

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    Yeah. And that kinda touches on one of the arguments for doing it that I struggled with the most in coming to the conclusion that I just won't do them.....

    .... the whole "I don't want to refuse and have them go to another vet who does a crappy job" argument. The "at least I can make sure it's done well" argument. (Not what you were saying, but in talking about your boss it reminded me of it.)

    I finally decided that is B.S. I mean... I *understand* feeling that way. I certainly did. But the fact is, I shouldn't be doing something I don't believe in just to make sure the next guy down the road doesn't do a crappy job of doing something I don't believe in.

    I'm certainly not out on the street corner selling high-quality crack just to make sure some poor kid doesn't buy some crack laced with arsenic.

    If it's wrong to do, it's wrong to do, and the energy should be put into dragging vet med forward so that we just plain don't do it anymore - not "doing a good job of it" to make sure that some other vet doesn't do a crappy job.
     
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