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I came across an awkward situation last night where someone I had just met more or less told me she disapproved of my decision to become a veterinarian because "there are a lot of people who need help". She immediately apologized and said she had put her foot in her mouth, and since we were out for someone else's birthday I let the issue drop.
This makes me think of the "Why don't you want to be a real doctor?" question, as it's also based in ignorance of what veterinarians actually do. I'm sure other people here have had this issue too, and I'm wondering how you handled it. My mindset is that veterinarians do play an important role in their communities, even if they aren't bandaging human wounds, and even if they didn't, I'm not obligated to only seek careers that help other people. If I want to become a scuba instructor, or fashion designer, or anything else I should be allowed to without having my choice attacked or put down by others because I'm not "helping" people enough.
Anyway, I'm trying to figure out the best way to make those points without coming across as too aggressive or defensive. This is the first time it has ever come up in almost 10 years but I'm sure it won't be the last.
Thank you all in advance!
This makes me think of the "Why don't you want to be a real doctor?" question, as it's also based in ignorance of what veterinarians actually do. I'm sure other people here have had this issue too, and I'm wondering how you handled it. My mindset is that veterinarians do play an important role in their communities, even if they aren't bandaging human wounds, and even if they didn't, I'm not obligated to only seek careers that help other people. If I want to become a scuba instructor, or fashion designer, or anything else I should be allowed to without having my choice attacked or put down by others because I'm not "helping" people enough.
Anyway, I'm trying to figure out the best way to make those points without coming across as too aggressive or defensive. This is the first time it has ever come up in almost 10 years but I'm sure it won't be the last.
Thank you all in advance!