thank you so much for your input! i havent put down my deposit yet because ive been busy and ive been contemplating it but i've talked to family, friends, coworkers & the doctor i work for and all of them have told me how much i'd regret not taking the chance at my dream when i have it available, and if i get off a waitlist for a US schools (LSU im looking at you lol) I can cross that bridge when I get there. Even though it will be an adjustment, it's also a doctorate degree and a unique experience to live somewhere and find myself somewhere I otherwise wouldn't. Hopefully all will work out with you at Ross!
While not quite in the same situation, I definitely feel you! I was aiming to get into my instate, Oregon, and it would have been perfect if I did. I live 10 minutes away from the campus, my parents met at that college and I was born in Corvallis, I was practically raised to be a beaver and had imagined my vet school experience in that school since forever. I got straight up rejected after my interview with them, and I was devastated. I had an acceptance from Glasgow at this time, but everyone in my family, my boyfriend, and myself had all been holding out for Oregon.
The thought had occurred to me that maybe I should wait and try again next year, but not only is it financially almost impossible for me to retake the classes I did poorly in, but it would include another year of fees, waiting, and inevitable disappointment. I decided I would rather go to the 5 year program, and actually get started being a student, rather than wait and hope for another acceptance, if I got another the third time around (even though I'd be graduating at the same time if I waited).
Since, I've had to stress about where my snake and rabbit will be going, how I'm going to make my relationship work with such a time difference and being so far, the additional visa fees, finding housing, etc. I still think about how easy it would have been if I had just made the cut for Oregon, but I chose to take it as a sign that this is an opportunity to try new things, and really spread my wings and see how well I can do. It's scary, the prospect of moving to a new country for school, but so many others have done it and I think it's a great opportunity, whether it's in the UK or Grenada!
For some additional perspective, I work with a Rossie vet right now, and he talks VERY highly of the program. He says it's what he needed at that point in life, and attributes it to part of who he is today. He feels like he got a great education, had a good experience living on the island, and is now a successful associate vet who does mostly dentals and GP 3x a week at our clinic.
Sorry for the rant, but I wanted to let you know others feel the same way, and that it's ok to be nervous! It sounds like you have a great support system, just remember to follow your gut and how you feel, and it'll all turn out okay!