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Still hoping for more IIs here. No acceptances yet.
You only lose the battle if you give up. Try again.LOL...As if the battle to get into med school weren't tough enough, I'm also fighting (and usually losing) the battle against feeling sorry for myself.
I know I'm in better shape than many. I know that I did get 3 MD iis. I know that even though two of them resulted in rejections, one resulted in a wait list, even if not the priority one, which is a good thing. I know I'm still pre-interview at 5 MD schools, which means there's a shot, however small. I know that I was lucky to have had enough foresight (despite believing it would never come to that) to have applied to 3 DO schools, one of which has already interviewed me, and one interview coming up. I know all that.
Plenty are more deserving of panic than I.
But:
I also know that this is my second cycle. I know I'm an old non-trad, and my age is a massive factor: Med schools don't want to invest in someone who'll likely have a significantly shorter career than that of a younger applicant (this has been articulated to me several times by med school professors and former adcom members).
I know I've received no acceptances yet, MD or DO. MD windows are closing fast, and I can't take DO acceptances for granted at this point.
To whatever degree my age is hurting me now, it'll only hurt me even more if I don't get in now and apply for a third cycle.
Crap. Lost the battle again.
Sigh.
LOL...As if the battle to get into med school weren't tough enough, I'm also fighting (and usually losing) the battle against feeling sorry for myself.
I know I'm in better shape than many. I know that I did get 3 MD iis. I know that even though two of them resulted in rejections, one resulted in a wait list, even if not the priority one, which is a good thing. I know I'm still pre-interview at 5 MD schools, which means there's a shot, however small. I know that I was lucky to have had enough foresight (despite believing it would never come to that) to have applied to 3 DO schools, one of which has already interviewed me, and one interview coming up. I know all that.
Plenty are more deserving of panic than I.
But:
I also know that this is my second cycle. I know I'm an old non-trad, and my age is a massive factor: Med schools don't want to invest in someone who'll likely have a significantly shorter career than that of a younger applicant (this has been articulated to me several times by med school professors and former adcom members).
I know I've received no acceptances yet, MD or DO. MD windows are closing fast, and I can't take DO acceptances for granted at this point.
To whatever degree my age is hurting me now, it'll only hurt me even more if I don't get in now and apply for a third cycle.
Crap. Lost the battle again.
Sigh.
I've been lurking from afar for some time (because I've been silently panicking since November), and I think it's about time I join in.
First-time applicant. Applied to 21 schools: Received 3 II resulting in two waitlists and one where I'm still waiting on a post-interview decision (although I'm not holding out much hope for an acceptance, or even a waitlist). I'm still holding out for at least one more II from one school, but I'm slowly starting to phase into reapplication mode, starting with studying for an MCAT retake.
I truly hope things work out for everyone! And congratulations to those who were accepted after panicking!
You're among friends We have similar experiences - I applied to 20, 2 IIs, 1 wait list and 1 post-interview decision pending. Also holding out hope for 1 more II. Waiting is the toughest part, but I keep telling myself that within a month, we could be accepted and all of the worrying will have been for nothing. When are you expecting to hear back on that third decision? I'll keep some positive thoughts for you - best of luck!
After a long, silently stressful process.. Had one interview and an acceptance!! Time to enjoy the rest of senior year. Best of luck to the rest of you!
It is sometimes a little frustrating when the same older people from Church ask me about my applications. At Church, I actually phase out off the whole applications process, and I am brought back into my sad reality of no acceptance yet every Sunday. Sometimes..I just feel like telling them, "I didn't have an acceptance last Sunday. So, what makes you think that I will suddenly have one this Sunday?! But I will definitely let you know when I hear back something positive. Bye." In reality though, I just say a nice "No, nothing yet!" and nod my head in sadness.
Looks like I have to choose between living with my family or going to medical school.
I am living my worst case scenario- I don't know what to do.
To say that I am down is putting it mildly
Oh man...Looks like I have to choose between living with my family or going to medical school.
I am living my worst case scenario- I don't know what to do.
To say that I am down is putting it mildly
Either decision is a blessing with a promising future. Regret nothing. Good luck.Looks like I have to choose between living with my family or going to medical school.
I am living my worst case scenario- I don't know what to do.
To say that I am down is putting it mildly
I was waitlisted from my last school this AM. I don't know what to do. How can I not live with my family? How can I face them and tell them that I wasted all our savings for nothing?
I nearly fainted at work.
I think I will be calling crisis services
The distance is not fatal to a relationship. You can still visit on what few breaks you have in medical school and Skype will help a lot. My brother is currently in Afghanistan and his relationship with his long time partner is still quite strong.Looks like I have to choose between living with my family or going to medical school.
I am living my worst case scenario- I don't know what to do.
To say that I am down is putting it mildly
Wow that's a stressful situation. I feel you .... Good luck!Just got my first post-interview decision from a school where the interviewer told me he would love to see me at the school: a WL. Two more decisions to be released in the next 10 days with one interview did not go so well IMO (my first interview) while another was a MMI.
I am trying to not let panic take over and look for other things to do in my free time but cannot stop the paranoid. Anyone have suggestions about how to distract myself from the inevitable?
PK, It's really not so bad to move back with your family, assuming they can respect your dilemma and you can find a job in the meantime.
It breaks my heart to see how many schools some have applied to and only ended up with rejections. In some cases, the reasons for the rejections seem obvious …. low gpa/MCAT, international, no extras (as in shadowing, volunteering, clinical, or research), but others are just baffling as to why the rejection. Maybe it was too few schools? Whatever the reason, I wish you'll hear positives about your WLs .
TL: DR The sads
Killed the thread with my sads
It is sometimes a little frustrating when the same older people from Church ask me about my applications. At Church, I actually phase out off the whole applications process, and I am brought back into my sad reality of no acceptance yet every Sunday. Sometimes..I just feel like telling them, "I didn't have an acceptance last Sunday. So, what makes you think that I will suddenly have one this Sunday?! But I will definitely let you know when I hear back something positive. Bye." In reality though, I just say a nice "No, nothing yet!" and nod my head in sadness.
You could go by the standard ways of distracting yourself during the wait: get a job working in the healthcare field, volunteer more, read/write a book, look into research opportunities, become a substitute teacher, spend time with family and friends, organize a spring break mission/medical trip to a region in need, travel, volunteer in your local church, exercise, watch Netflix, pursue a hobby of yours unrelated to medicine that you didn't have time to do during college, [insert moral way that med school admission committees expect you to be spending your time waiting], etc.Just got my first post-interview decision from a school where the interviewer told me he would love to see me at the school: a WL. Two more decisions to be released in the next 10 days with one interview did not go so well IMO (my first interview) while another was a MMI.
I am trying to not let panic take over and look for other things to do in my free time but cannot stop the paranoid. Anyone have suggestions about how to distract myself from the inevitable?
You could go by the standard ways of distracting yourself during the wait: get a job working in the healthcare field, volunteer more, read/write a book, look into research opportunities, become a substitute teacher, spend time with family and friends, organize a spring break mission/medical trip to a region in need, travel, volunteer in your local church, exercise, watch Netflix, pursue a hobby of yours unrelated to medicine that you didn't have time to do during college, [insert moral way that med school admission committees expect you to be spending your time waiting], etc.
Or you could choose the alternate way: do hoodrat stuff in your hometown with all your loser high school friends who never pursued further education, drink a whole lot, smoke some of that good good, drink some more, travel to Amsterdam (with no intentions of viewing the scenery/art/history), start a fight club, or hook up with as many ex boyfriends/girlfriends you possibly can (all the while intoxicated of course).
Good luck. Enjoy.
Just got my first post-interview decision from a school where the interviewer told me he would love to see me at the school: a WL. Two more decisions to be released in the next 10 days with one interview did not go so well IMO (my first interview) while another was a MMI.
I am trying to not let panic take over and look for other things to do in my free time but cannot stop the paranoid. Anyone have suggestions about how to distract myself from the inevitable?
Real. What girl would let you take her out for dinner before telling you she had a boyfriend.
Seriously? Who does that?!
TL: DR The sads
Killed the thread with my sads
Ugh, all this talk of reapplying is seriously cramping my waitlist optimism. But I know @gumdrops is right and we should start preparing for the reapp *cries*
So I totally get that it feels like admitting defeat to consider reapplication now. I felt the same last spring. What being pre-med taught me (now I sound really irritating but bear with me) is that to have a plan B is the smart thing to do no matter what the situation. I'm still putting in effort into finishing my graduate thesis although several people have said something along the lines of it being irrelevant to my future career. I'm doing it because I have no clue if that's what could help me land a great residency in the future or who knows? I may not be able to practice medicine due to an unforeseen injury (it has happened to others) or sudden shifts in fate could leave me really needed that degree. Anything can happen.
I'm getting outlandish here but you get the point. Preparation precludes future defeats and makes life a lot, lot easier. It's not an acknowledgment of defeat.
I have interviewed at 5 schools (MD) so far and have been put on 4 of their wait lists. I still have yet to hear from the last school. Every time I get wait listed my heart sinks. I feel like I must be a poor interviewer. I feel like all the schools like me enough to interview me but then I have trouble presenting myself in a way that is impressive. I've tried mock interviewing and preparing my answers but it doesn't seem to help all that much. I feel like I have gotten better at interviewing each time but I still don't think I'm amazing. I try to act confident but I guess I am who I am and there's not much I can change at this point.
I was going to say something along these lines.1) Don't try to be "impressive." You landed 5 freaking MD interviews. You ARE impressive. Just be yourself. You clearly have what it takes to be a great physician if so many schools were so responsive to your app.
2) Don't try to prepare answers so that you sound scripted. Definitely have thought about what you'd say to an interviewer but do not sound rehearsed! They want to see that you can level with them and roll with the punches, much as you'd have to with patients. Stay true to yourself but think about how to demonstrate your readiness for medicine and commitment to it without being overbearing.
Eh, why am I writing this? You were a strong enough candidate to get 5 interviews. Odds are you'll be pulled off a waitlist this spring anyway.