Hey guys, I just wanted to share something that helped me keep my perspective throughout this stressful time. Hopefully someone might find some value in this as well.
WL with no A? Good. Take some time to "sharpen your axe" so that when the real test of medical school starts, you will excel. If you don't get in, see the opportunity that medical students probably don't have to further develop your interests outside of medicine, spend more time with family, read, take a break, pick up good habits, learn more about yourself. When you DO get in, you will be more grateful than your classmates, thus you will work much harder, have more drive, and be proud of what you've achieved.
Anxious for your future? Good. Get through this and the next time you feel this anxious (which you will, especially in medicine) you will know how to handle it. Reflect on how you personally handle anxiousness, find out what works and what doesn't.
One A, but not getting into that top choice WL? Good. Challenge yourself to excel in an environment that encourages independence by being far from family, forces you to expand your learning styles, or might offer you a unique perspective on medicine (via research, rural tracks, patient populations, etc). Excellent medical students will rise up to distinguish themselves no matter what their circumstances are. Be goddamn thankful you ****ing got in, so many others in this thread will kill for a chance like yours (what I tell myself).
5 interview --> 5 WLs? Good. You have a clear direction for improvement now, sharpen up those interview skills and you will become irresistible for medical schools. Many others have multiple weaknesses in their app making it hard to fix, but you only have one, and that one weakness is the easiest and most rewarding for you to fix (not only for medical school but for your life and social self-esteem as well).
"It's unfortunate that this had happened? No. It's fortunate that this happened and I've remained unharmed by it" - Marcus Aurelius
--> Found this recently by Mr. Jocko Willink himself that concisely summarized my thoughts.
I guess I'm not saying to be ignorant to the negatives in life as life is full of suffering, but rather to face these negatives head-on and use every ounce of your autonomy to turn it into something good. Don't be a victim. I try to tell myself that I will 100% face negatives in the career of medicine (burnout, making mistakes with patients, harassment, academic failure, rejections, etc) and that if I can handle the negatives in my life right now, I'll be more equipped for the future.
Also for anyone wondering, this is my second cycle, my first one I had a WL that turned into a R. This cycle I'm fortunate enough to be under the "A, but have a top choice WL" category.