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I don't know about how the others here study but I'm one of those kids who needs a week before to study for the exams. I literally had barely any social life last semester and I think that was why I did so well because I was so focused. A lot of people are saying he is managing his time bad and maybe that's the case. However, I am familiar with NYU and it's not an easy school. I've heard rumors about their curves and etc so I'm just going to say to try to take @CloverBale suggestion. However, if it doesn't work out then I think you need to consider whether you can keep going with what he's offering or maybe consider a new relationship. Another suggestion actually is maybe use him as a motivation to work harder in your career maybe. Not saying you don't. However, when I'm taking a break and hear a friend is studying I immediately find something to do and there is always something to do lol. I don't know your career path but I'm sure there is maybe an internship or online course or something you can get yourself into to make yourself as busy as him!
I just wanted to say that I get where your boyfriend is coming from and I wanted to help you understand his mindset. As someone who needs a lot of time to study and do well, he has to prioritize his studying over you. Especially since he's probably getting a science degree and honestly there's not much you can do with that alone except maybe become a teacher or go into research as an assistant or tech. This upcoming year (I'm also a junior) is one of the most important years for him. He's probably preparing to take his MCAT? Or even be thinking about his application? So it's not even just his classes, which are probably hard, but he also has to worry about his MCAT and his apps. Like others have said, it's always gonna be his studying or you but maybe consider getting more into your career and using this to inspire you to work harder in your career field!
I just wanted to say that I get where your boyfriend is coming from and I wanted to help you understand his mindset. As someone who needs a lot of time to study and do well, he has to prioritize his studying over you. Especially since he's probably getting a science degree and honestly there's not much you can do with that alone except maybe become a teacher or go into research as an assistant or tech. This upcoming year (I'm also a junior) is one of the most important years for him. He's probably preparing to take his MCAT? Or even be thinking about his application? So it's not even just his classes, which are probably hard, but he also has to worry about his MCAT and his apps. Like others have said, it's always gonna be his studying or you but maybe consider getting more into your career and using this to inspire you to work harder in your career field!