relationship

  1. pillowfighty

    I ended my 1yr relationship to focus on school, scared I made the wrong decision

    So I ended my 1 year relationship with my girlfriend (lesbians) yesterday and I'm heartbroken. We both mutually agreed on it and decided the best decision was to end things because I needed to focus on my undergrad studies while she wanted to still be a kid and experience life in that regard...
  2. G

    Pre-med/Med student LDR Tips?

    I am a third-year pre-med undergrad (planning on applying summer 2019 and starting med school in Summer 2020 if all goes well) and my SO is starting M1 (4.5 hour drive from me) tomorrow. We've been dating for 2 years now, he went to my undergrad school, and we are from the same hometown. We were...
  3. K

    Male doctor I scribe for touches/grabs me

    To preface this, I've worked in various jobs when I was teenager where, now that I look back, I realize I was the subject of undisputed sexual harassment by male superiors. I shrugged it off and did nothing. My point: I'm not trying to cry wolf. I just want genuine feedback regarding a confusing...
  4. I

    Relationship problems during Step study

    This is my first time posting in any of these forums, so apologies if I'm doing this wrong. I'm an MS2 currently studying for Step 1, and my exam date is less than a month away. For the past year, I've been dating an MS4 in my program, and besides some bumps, I thought things had been going...
  5. P

    How often can I see her: LDR

    Hi! Ill be starting M1 this coming year, and my fiance and we will be 5 hours apart. We used to be international, so LDR itself is not an issue :) I know my school records their lectures, and I know for a fact this is how I will prefer studying. I can also definitely study around him. Our plan...
  6. S

    Loyola Stritch vs UW Madison

    Loyola Pros Went there for a Master's of Medical Physiology program so I know the school and feel really comfortable there Would be able to live in Chicago, where I've lived for 3 years and have a solid support system, I also have a serious long term relationship here (I'm 25, my boyfriend is...
  7. X

    Husband dropped out of med school. Now what?

    Two years ago, I married the love of my life. We were both in medical school, had known each other our whole lives, and didn't have a doubt in our minds that it was the right choice. I was a third year and he was a second year, so in order to match together, I decided to do my MPH between third...
  8. A

    premed bf

    hi guys, my boyfriend, alex is a junior premed student at NYU- and they have one of the most competitive premed programs. it’s very vigorous. he studies for hours and hours on top of doing his work. exam weeks are hell. i barely see him once a week sometimes and it’s hard for me. (especially his...
  9. D

    Do adcoms care if you're in a serious relationship?

    I have been with the same person for 5 years; clearly we are very serious. I know I am not the only person entering medical school while in a serious relationship, but how does this reflect to a medical school? If they find a picture of me on my social media with someone who is obviously my SO...
  10. C

    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to medical school

    Hello all, I am new to this website. I thought it would be helpful to hear from people who maybe have experienced similar situations, or at least understand the pathway of medicine. I am 20 yrs old and a junior in college pursuing a Biology degree. I had originally planned on becoming a PA but...
  11. UWwildLandGuy

    Boyfriend of a med student

    Hi everyone. I am extremely new to this forum well let's see going on about five minutes. I am former wild-land fire fighter and now in the automotive industry. I recently met my amazing and beautiful girlfriend future Dr.R about two months ago. We hit it off instantly like unexplained unity and...
  12. B

    Long Distance Relationship in Med School/Couples Match

    My boyfriend and I will be attending separate med schools in the fall 2 hours away from each other (not super far but still). We've been dating for 2 years and are planning on doing the couples match together. I was wondering if anyone had experience with a long distance, long term relationship...
  13. E

    PhD vs. PsyD vs. LCSW vs. other?

    I am currently a junior in college majoring in Psychology and I've wanted to become a clinical psychologist since I was about 15. Before coming to college, however, I had no idea how competitive clinical psychology PhD programs are and the time commitment and amount of work they require...
  14. S

    Mount Sinai and two-body problem: options (post-bacc, lab tech, Masters) for gf

    Hi all, I'm leaning towards Mount Sinai's MSTP program. Problem is, my girlfriend (wants to get her PhD in Microbio) only applied to one NYC school (Columbia) and got rejected. She's most likely getting into a Baltimore school, so long-distance is our back-up plan. We're fretting about our...
  15. C

    Secondaries: can I write about romantic relationships?

    Hello all, I am just wondering whether it'd be okay to write about my relationship with my boyfriend of 15 months if I ever need to, e.g. on a secondary prompt that asks about difficulties interacting with people / learning to embrace differences? Is it a big no-no, or is it allowed in...
  16. A

    My boyfriend doesn't understand how difficult pharmacy school is... How do I help him understand?

    I'm in my P1 year of pharmacy school. It's going well grades-wise but my relationship is on the backburner. I do what I can but I have ADHD and studying/school is incredibly difficult for me to begin with and it seems like in order to do well and not fail out of school, the rest of my personal...
  17. Y

    how do you factor in your relationship when choosing your med school?

    Okay so I'm not sure if this is the appropriate place for this thread but I figured it had to do with significant others so I chose it. I was accepted into two medical school programs. The first a DO very close to home and close to where my boyfriend goes to grad school. 4 months later, I was...
  18. A

    Interview date and acceptance correlation?

    Does anyone know if the date of the interview invitation has anything to do with the extent to which a school is interested in you? Here's my specific example: My state school has been offering interviews since early September. I have been following the school specific thread, and everyone for...
  19. D

    does anyone know of any indian females in residency looking for arranged marriage?

    Guys I know this is kind of strange, but I have a friend whose son is starting his first year of fellowship in GI who is looking for an arranged marriage. He's within driving distance of Chicago. She told me that any caste (?) system is ok. I think her son is around my age 28-29 and they are...