Yikes. Someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning..
I don't think it was wrong of her to tell you that saying somewhere "sucks" is completely unhelpful.
I wasn't in a bad mood. In fact, I was perfectly calm writing my thoughts earlier (and still am).
There seems to have a disconnect with what you
think old wangers said and what she actually said.
She didn't say, "Blais, saying that Rochester 'sucks' is vague, be more specific."
Instead she basically said my usage of
PG-rated language is too
extreme for SDN and that the forums aren't for
"trash talking schools".
So
first she misread and then followed up by trying to play teacher by giving me a lecture on the "proper use of the forums". Thanks for helping a noobie understand SDN -- I was in the dark all these years! As I mentioned above, I said the location sucks. It does. No,
really, it does.
Also, as I said earlier, if
PG-rated language is too
extreme for someone to read on the internet then lord have mercy when they hit the wards. I imagine deer-in-headlights scenario the first time an attending drops R-rated language (gasp)
at her in the OR.
Lastly, I mention the fact that she is welcome to put me on her ignore list. That's what a bunch of people did to her in the thread-specific threads -- I'm referencing them simply so she can follow suit and ignore me if she can't handle "Rochester sucks".
Lastly, in response to you, saying a place sucks is only "completely unhelpful" if the person you are talking to has no frame of reference for what you mean. "Sucks? How so?" Looking at Tots' OP, gee, look at Mayo's con's:
Mayo
+Middle of the road costs (~200,000k/4 yrs)
+Impressive facilities, resources and name
+Curriculum with selectives
-Rochester(As a gay male, moving to middle of nowhere Minnesota scares me)
-Rochester
-Rochester
-42 students seems a little small
-Less resources for my interests
I don't need to waste characters telling Tots
why Rochester sucks compared to Chicago, Philly, SanFran, Nashville, etc. He listed it as a con himself...
three times in a row. If anything, I am offering a declaration that I agree with his analysis.
Rochester: that place sucks.
All that said, guess what? I'm still calm and not mad.